ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Do Your Kids Do Chores?

Updated on January 21, 2012

Today my kids didn't have school so we had a morning full of chores. I only do this once a week with the kids because they are still small. Ages 4, 5, and 7. I've tried getting them to do the chore chart with set things for each person to do but they don't seem to like doing that. They think that way is too much work and that it's not fair that one will get to help with dishes or laundry and the others won't. So once a week we do a chore morning. Normally it only takes about 2 hours to do the whole house. Cleaning every room and even vaccuuming the floors! My kids love to help me. They don't really care what it is that they are doing as long as they get to help. While one was helping with the dishes, one was washing the counters and the other was sweeping the floor.

My 7 year old has inherited a little bit of my OCD so when she gets to cleaning everything has to be just right. She will do everything she can to make sure it stays that way too. Her room is always clean, bed is always made and she is always cleaning up after the other two kids (even though I don't make her do it). My 5 year old girl would rather sleep in a pile of toys then to pick one up. She likes to have everything next to her because it's all so special. My boy, the 4 year old, he'll leave all his stuff on the bed but clean out a little area so he can sleep without it touching him. It amazes me how different the three of them are. But when it comes to helping Mom do the chores they will do anything we need to get the house clean.

Now if you said it's time to clean, they won't do it....but chores are OK. It makes me laugh how just one word can make the biggest difference in a little mind. My nephew would not drink water for nothing when he was just little. My mom had a culligan machine and I told him it was High Quality H2O and that's all it took. That's all he wanted to drink from then on. Even though it was still water it was called something different so he was OK with it. I love kids!!!!

So do your kids do chores? Do you have a set schedule or a chart you use?

How about an allowance? I haven't started giving my two younger ones allowance yet because even though they know what money is, they lose it, play with it, tear the dollar bills apart. My 7 year old of course saves every penny she finds. Again, amazing how different they are!!!

What do you think a good age for chores is??? Granted they have to be able to see the dishes in the sink to be able to do the dishes, or tall enough to put the clothes in the washing machine, but is there really an age that is too early to teach your kids about chores and cleaning up after themselves? Any thoughts or opinions, please leave a comment.


    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment
    • mljdgulley354 profile image


      7 years ago

      You sound like you are a good parent to me. I look at the teenagers and young adults today and a little responsibility growing up would have helped them in life today

    • CassyLu1981 profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Spring Lake, NC

      5 kids, wow, I'm glad we stopped at 3! Our kids have done a great job at keeping up with their chores since we got back to the states. I'm very proud of them, guess that just means I'm a good parent! Thanks for the comment!

    • mljdgulley354 profile image


      7 years ago

      Having raised 5 children, when it came to chores, I had to be inventive to get my children to help. The big thing I discovered was as long as we were working together on a chore they would help. I started teaching my children to pick up after themselves when they learned to pick out a toy to play with.

    • CassyLu1981 profile imageAUTHOR


      8 years ago from Spring Lake, NC

      LOL I have to do the same thing, make sure I clean to set the good example. Not sure what I'm going to do once all three of them are in school! haha

    • food4you profile image


      8 years ago from Oklahoma

      My 5-year-old likes clean areas, but does not like to clean by herself. She likes doing it as a mama-daughter activity. I guess I better start cleaning to teach her good example.

    • profile image

      Julia Runnels 

      8 years ago

      Sounds like Bella and Trin are the same as Shyanne and Montana. Shy like her room clean and everything in its place. Montana doesn't like to clean her room so she just piles her clean clothes on the bed or floor which gets her grounded more than anything. I call them the "odd couple"---guess that applies to Bella and Trin.


    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

    Show Details
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)
    ClickscoThis is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy)