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Troubled Teens & Boarding School: Is It A Good Option?

Updated on April 27, 2014

Is Boarding School A Good Option For Troubled Teen Boys?

No parent dreams of sending their child away to a boarding school. When your son was born the last thought on your mind was that you'd ever come to the point where you would need help raising him and teaching him how to live. Yet, boarding school could be the bet choice you ever make for your son.

While you may not have seen it coming in the early years, now you're faced with a teenager that is out of control and headed down a path that leads to heartache. What do you do? Where do you turn? The answer many parents are seeking is found in selecting a corrective boarding school for their son to attend in order to help him regain control of his life.

Now that you've come to this point and you're ready to make the decision to move in this direction you must choose which school will best serve in reaching your son. You can find a myriad of these facilities online that are located all around the world, and searching through the listings can be a daunting task.

However, there are ways to cut through the fog surrounding boarding schools and what they do for troubled teen boys by asking a few simple questions. When you call or email the school ask them if they have dealt with young men who have the same issues and symptoms your son has. If your son has a drug abuse problem and the school you're talking to focuses on academic correction, then maybe you should look elsewhere. If your son has a tendency to run away from authority a secured facility is the best choice.

The bottom line is that boarding school could be the one thing that keeps many troubled teen boys from becoming incarcerated as adults. Finding one that can help your son gain control of his life could be the best thing you ever do for him.

What Issues Do Boarding Schools Help Students Overcome?

Many parents feel alone in the battles they fight on a daily basis with their teen. Drug abuse, anger, rebellion, and constant acting out are all symptoms of a troubled teen boy who is seeking purpose in life. While these issues may seem like overwhelming mountains to parents, there are boarding schools that deal with them on a daily basis.

Many boarding schools have a higher success rate of helping troubled teen boys overcome these issues than most state run rehabilitation programs. The staff of each facility is trained to help these young men find ways to manage their addictions, anger, and overall behaviour.

Issues that schools may be able to help your son with include drug abuse, alcohol abuse, anger management, behaviour issues, academics, and rebellion. While some schools focus on one specific area of correction, many of them are equipped to handle students who exhibit multiple issues in their lives.

Before choosing a boarding school for your son, be sure to find out what they focus on and what their success rate is with students. Schools that have a well rounded staff often offer more benefits than those who are limited in size and scope. Be sure to take all of this into consideration when choosing.

How Do I Know If My Son Needs To Be Sent To Boarding School?

The fact is that most parents who deal with out of control teenagers don't even realize that there are affordable options available in terms of boarding schools. Because of this, they assume that as parents it is their job to deal with their teens. Knowing when to let go as a parent is a major key to helping your child succeed in life, and this is also true with a teenager who just won't listen.

Sometimes it is better to allow someone who has training in dealing with the specific issues your child faces help them overcome the problems than to keep trying to force yourself into that counselling role.

If your son will not listen to you, and refuses to obey you, then it may be time to seek outside help. If you feel he is a danger to himself or other family members, then don't wait to find him the help he needs. Prevention is much easier than damage control, and it is less work to rebuild a relationship with your teen with the help of a boarding school than it is to try to build one while you're constantly angry at him.

You have to be the one to make the call for your family. Be sure you discuss it with your spouse or significant other so that you are on the same page. This will help make the transition smoother and will help lessen the tension surrounding and already volatile situation. As you consider this option, be sure to base your decision on the actions of your child and your own reaction to his actions. If your anger could be a danger to him then it is probably best to seek outside help in correcting his issues.


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