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Easy Parenting strategies: How parents can teach money management to children and how to manage pocket money?

Updated on May 31, 2013
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Interview of kid by Robert Kiyosaki

Parenting strategies: Teaching money skills to kids

Today, when parents withdraw cash from ATM machines, children are standing nearby. They want to learn how to withdraw money too. Thus, parents tell their small kids that they have to key in password and the requested money comes out of the machine. In their small world, these children learn to withdraw money and buy chocolates, electronic gadgets and their dream toys. They have no understanding what it means to earn money and how to spend wisely. Later, these kids grow up and become adults. The toys become different now. They are going to foreign trips on parent's money and parents are glad that their child is still respectful to them. The child has become adult now but still demands money. He compares them to other parents who sponsor their child education overseas, give car and provide free electronic gadgets. Finally, the parents breakdown as they don't know how to teach their kid to understand the value of money and earn themselves.

Here are few easy tips which can be taught to kids as young as two years to until they grow up. These small steps can make the story different, with kids becoming financially independent and giving money to the needy.

1. The first tip is give them pocket money only for basic needs like lunch and transportation. From young age, we can teach them that if they need luxuries, they need to do some work. It can be some household chores like cleaning the room, washing the dishes or preparing sandwiches. As they grow up, they need to take part time jobs or do small business or investment to meet their own expenses. It will help them to understand the value of money and respect for work.

2. Please don't use money to compensate for the time you are unable to spend with them. Some parents are under the guilt trap of leaving their kids alone for long periods and try to cover up by buying expensive toys for them. This strategy works against them. Children become used to the gifts and they start expecting more and more. As adults, they expect the world to give them money and sponsor their expenses. This habit puts them into financial debt and crisis during adulthood.This can be replaced by spending good quality time. Good quality time of few minutes is worth more than 100 hours.

2. When kids receive pocket money, share good financial tips with them. Based on Robert Kiyosaki, the financial teacher, he encourages to let the money be put in four different boxes. Giving, saving, investing and spending . Giving is meant for donation or charity. It can be any organisation which you feel is working for a good cause. Saving is meant for big items like cycle, electronic gadgets or any dream toy your child wants. Investing is where we let the money compound, increase and not touching it for longer period. For a start, it could be putting money in a good dividend stock or dividend REIT. Spending is meant for immediate usage for basic expenses.

3. Games can teach a lot more than books. They let you practise and apply the theory. There are good financial education games like Monopoly, Cash flow for Kids by Robert Kiyosaki. These simple games teach some very important money management and cash flow skills. Children enjoy the games and at the same time, they learn good things. This results in strong fundamentals of finance management even before they handle the real and big money.

These small steps will go a long way in teaching your children how to manage and grow money. They will be givers instead of takers in their adult life. When foundation is good and financial roots are strong, fruits are bound to be healthy.


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      agam 5 years ago

      Hi Ruchi Urvashi,

      I am impressed with your style of writing. You will certainly go long way. Best of luck

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      Ruchi Urvashi 5 years ago from Singapore

      Hi Agam, Thanks for your feedback. I hope my articles are helping parents.

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      Ingenira 5 years ago

      Excellent article, useful tips, just what every parent needs to know about preparing their kids to manage their finance before they grow up.

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      Ruchi Urvashi 5 years ago from Singapore

      Hi Ingenira, thanks for your feedback. Yes, we need to teach our kids early about money management and when they grow up, they can handle it easily.

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      Tracy Lynn Conway 5 years ago from Virginia, USA

      I have read so much varying advice on this topic and some that is so detailed that it becomes impossible to execute. I suppose in relation to teaching money management, children will learn the most from what they observe the parent doing. You have offered some great tips here. The Robert Kiyosaki books are very good. Voted up and useful.

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      Ruchi Urvashi 5 years ago from Singapore

      Thanks Tracy for your feedback. Yes, parents teach by example first. Robert Kiyosaki books are indeed good and I developed an interest in money and finance, after reading his books. He is a great writer and financial teacher.

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      Alissa Roberts 5 years ago from Normandy, TN

      Great tips for parents! Money management is such an important life skill that every child needs to learn at an early age. I recently had to have a conversation with my 6 year old because he thinks all you have to do is swipe that magic card to get what you want. Great job - voted up and useful!

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      Ruchi Urvashi 5 years ago from Singapore

      Hi Alissa, thanks for your feedback. In this generation, kids are growing in high technology environment and we need to guide them in right direction and teach them good management skills. Thanks for voting up.

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      Bobby Singh 5 years ago

      Great article Ruchi! I am actually in the process of rolling out a money management site for kids called KashPile that will make it easier for parents to accomplish the things you mention. I'd love to have you as a beta tester for the app once it's ready.

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      Dilip Chandra 5 years ago from India

      Very useful hub, great article. Well written, i will share it with others as well. Every one should know how to save the money and should teach their kids as well, the money management. VOTED UP :)

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      Ruchi Urvashi 5 years ago from Singapore

      Hi Dilip, thanks for your kind comment and positive feedback. When kids learn money management skills early, money becomes a source of giving and helping others instead of demanding for the next toy. It makes life easy for both parents and kids.

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      kelleyward 5 years ago

      I like the condensed style of writing you use! Thanks for sharing this important information. I also agree that children should learn at an early age to do extra work if they want extra money. Also our oldest child has a piggy bank that has 3 compartments one for savings, giving, and one for extras. Voted up and useful!

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      Ruchi Urvashi 5 years ago from Singapore

      Thanks Kelleyward. Your feedback is encouraging. Yes, teaching money management to kids at young age is very useful. Thanks for voting up.

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