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Visiting the Cemetery

Updated on February 1, 2013
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Thoughts About Cemeteries

A cemetery is a place where we bury our dearly departed loved ones and family. Most of us have the notion that it is a dark, creepy place to be at. I must admit I had the same notion, up until two years ago. After all, I grew up watching scary movies and TV shows about cemeteries where dead people rise to haunt the living.

My dad passed on two years ago. His family insisted that his final resting place be at the family mausoleum. My aunts and uncles bought some lot in some out of town memorial park as final resting place for my grandfather who passed on in 1996. I've never visited the cemetery until my late dad was laid to rest there. Since then, we've scheduled an annual visit to pay our last respects.

Visiting the dead in the Philippines is usually done on November 1st. We usually avoid the huge crowd and the slow traffic so we go a week or two earlier. This year was no exception.

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Perfect Venue for Reflective Thought

Looking at the deserted streets, wide open spaces, and the peace and quiet all around, the cemetery is the perfect place to do one's own reflections in life. The fact that the location is rather far from the city where we live, we have scheduled the cemetery visit only once a year. This, in a way, also makes it a family bonding.

Since my dad passed on, I have realized that life is short. Somehow, the death of a close family member has pushed me to evaluate what I value most in this life.So I try to spend as much time as I can with my loved ones.

Our cemetery visit is not only a time to look at our past actions. It is also another chance to appreciate the beauty of life and being alive. Plus, looking around some of the family mausoleums amazes me. It makes me wonder sometimes how the dead could have a grander abode than the living. I've shared some photos below to illustrate the point.


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Inspiring Thought

On a final note, I leave you with this quote from Khalil Gibran (1883-1931):

"Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens."

Be inspired. Live life. Think positive thoughts.

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    • Rosyel Sawali profile imageAUTHOR

      Rosyel Sawali 

      6 years ago from Manila, Philippines

      I believe it's pretty much similar here. Although we do stick with the tradition of visiting ahead of time. ^_^

    • Rosyel Sawali profile imageAUTHOR

      Rosyel Sawali 

      6 years ago from Manila, Philippines

      True @34th Bomb Group, there is comfort in remembering our dearly departed and the lessons we learned from them ^_^ I sometimes miss my dad.

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      6 years ago from sevilla

      November 1 and 2 are two of the busiest time for cemetery here in the Spain.

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      34th Bomb Group 

      6 years ago from Western New York State

      I go on Veteran's Day and Memorial Day to "visit" my Dad. He's not really there (he was cremated as was my Mom) but it makes me feel good to see his name at the Veteran's Memorial. I pick up, pull weeds and plant a small flag. In reality, they are in my thoughts all the time and I find comfort in that.

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      JP Carlos 

      6 years ago from Quezon CIty, Phlippines

      November 1 and 2 are two of the busiest time for cemetery here in the Philippines. Families flock to these places in celebration of All souls' day. It's usually this time when families see each other.


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