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Who's Fault these children. Part (5)
Children are supposed to be the celebration of their parents combined, confirmed and agreed on by both parents most joyful time in this life. It should only be after this understanding and successful transitional period, from all the different stages involved in human development and growth.
Sometime during the natural human lifetime, this process of celebration usually begins. Note that in the King James Version of Bible, it states in Psalms 127:3. Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward.
It is a natural thing for humans to celebrate, after they have been rewarded. In the case of the child already being born, the reward has already been granted and accepted.
This reward should be one of constant and continuous gratitude which should be directed to the Most High God.
With the proper understanding of ones child being given, as their reward. There should be an understanding in place as to the most lucrative and joyous means available, towards this celebration. All these instructions should be carried out regardless of gender, physical structure or the overall capability of the child that you were blessed with to function accordingly.
When truly understood and indicative with great parents, children can be nothing short of that promise of a blessing, they are meant to be. I said with “great parents” because every matured human being is capable of having children, but at that same time, though they should also be capable of being great parents, so many are not.
Being able to give your child things, are all great it’s you duty according to your ability. But it doesn’t make you a great parent. All the money and the tangibles in the world are all temporary. The things that matters the most, are the ones that money cannot buy.
The Most High God in his infinite wisdom knew this, and that is the reason he instructed us all in a given pathway. Again look in the Bible book of proverbs 22:6 it says:Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.
It’s for no other reason that I use repeatedly this quote from the scriptures, none other than for the very same reason those huge companies have will have us repeating their commercials as if it were our daily commandments. That it also becomes a part of our lives to hear their commercials. Hear this, and don’t be surprised. We are!
They saw the need to hammer these quotations into our minds until it becomes apart of our everyday lives.
Every place we go, every place we look, every thing we listen to, the radio, the TV. The most consistent thing we hear,
So eventually we accept as a part of our lives.
I don’t know if I can mention the ones I grew up with, but I know you had yours also and it’s still stuck in your head, from the constant repeating.
Now in an effort to apply that same strategy rather cheaply, I do hope my methods are effective also, for the children.
I cannot write a list of instructions every time I write a chapter, but those main prerequisites that we all know from once being children ourselves, the ones we know works and those we are very clear of, that don’t. And by all means would never work in the raising and welfare of our children.
Remember children are a celebration; they are the greatest commercial a family will ever have to show the world their strategy and methods of raising and molding something beautiful. The only answer every parent should have for their children if asked, for any reason of their individual condition. Is that they did the very best that I could of.
If you are anticipating celebrating your own successes, prepare that whatever you do not know. To learn, or simply prepare for everything.
Everything do not mean difficulties, because you were a child once, people never forget their childhood, those are the building blocks that they use, it either makes or break individuals, but usually it makes them.
In that department adults, who go on to have kids, are already specialists themselves, the rest of the world are now only going to see how selfish, some of them could be, and how far off those who leave the Most High God out of this blessed occasion are and will be.
Yes there is a part (6)