Really, I think there are wonderful aspects and appalling aspects to both. I was married to a man who was was from Pakistan and I am a Brit so I have a glimpse of both sides. The expectation and guilt factor was a large part of creating problems in my marriage.
in my opinion , the western lifestyle is better. there are less pressures on western women to be just house wives, the kids here have more freedom and we don't try to force our kids to do as we want as much as parents tend to do in india.
It depends on how you will lead your lifestyle. Actually, if you like to lead your lifestyle in a spiritual way, then go for Indian way. Again, if you are like to lead your lifestyle in a modern way, then you should go for Western manner. Indian lifestyle is based on love, tolerance, respect and discipline. Whereas, Western lifestyle is based on speed, opulence and modernity. Always, remember that, you should follow one lifestyle at a time but not follow the both lifestyles simultaneously. As, it will destroy your mental setup and it will contradict your visions. Both lifestyles have pros and cons. Therefore, nothing is hundred percent perfect as far as your lifestyle is concerned. It is a better option for you that you should compare both lifestyle and make your preferred lifestyle.