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How Our Nintendo Wii Created Family "WE" Time

Updated on May 30, 2013


Candy Land by Hasbro

No Game Consoles in My House

When I started having kids, I declared my house a "no Nintendo-Zone!" It had nothing to do with the brand, but more about the idea of raising my kids on mindless electronic games and violence.

I'd grown up with a dad who was fascinated with all technology and we got Pong for Christmas when I was in High School! Remember the Blip .....Blip ......Blip ....Blip ...Blip ..Blip.BlipBlip - aw, dang!! We played it a lot that Christmas, but then, it's novelty wore off and we were back to ice skating and bicycling.

Move ahead to my oldest daughter at five years old. I had a blazing 486 pc and my daughter became addicted to Candy Land - on cd! Queen Frostine was by far her favorite character because she could color a picture of the kingdom (and now she's off to art school.)

Later, came Nintendo GameBoy handheld games, which many of my daughter's friends had. I repeatedly repeated my, "no Nintendo-Zone" mantra! Plus, most video games were designed with boys in mind (hello, GameBoy!."

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Mario Kart

But then Wii came along!

I watched this game for a year. I listened to my daughters posit arguments for Wii, "But mom, it's ACTIVE!"

Although I still put up my stern front against all video games, I secretly watched the new game. It did seem different. And active. And fun! So one Christmas, with elaborate showmanship, I let the girls unwrap the various parts of the game. And I must say, it was probably the most memorable of all Christmas presents, if volume and length of delighted screaming correspond at all!

Just Dance

Three years later, I have three good reasons to love Wii!

Now that we've owned the game for three years, I'm not at all disappointed in the investment. We have several games, and I have the original Wii Fit which has now caught on and has better programs for it.

But my top reasons to love Wii:

  1. It's family time! Yes, in our frenetic family schedule of an active tween and teen, Wii continues to be the number one way to enjoy each other as a family. Nothing like a jam session on Guitar Hero where the generations of music meet. And of all the games we have, I admit that Mario Kart has had the longevity that you hope for with a game.
  2. It's ACTIVE! We live in the Northeast and don't get outside as much as we'd like in the Winter - which is long. But jumping around to Just Dance or playing tennis or skiing can make us plain sweaty and tired. Plus, it's downright silly to watch parents dancing to the Black Eyed Peas while the kids try to channel Donna Summers! I also enjoy some quiet yoga and Pilates with my Wii Fit.
  3. Yes, the games teach something! We learn to take turns choosing games, we try to learn to win OR lose with grace, and we learn that patience and practice are needed to improve skills. My now 17 year old finally had the nerve to ask for bass guitar lessons and now sings in a band with friends. My 11 year old can now, most of the time, deal with not coming in first every time as I just laugh every time I come in dead last! We've also learned that practicing driving with a learner's permit isn't advisable immediately after playing Mario Kart!


Has Wii changed our family?

I'd say yes, but in a good way!

We still play board games and friendly poker. We still go ice skating and watch movies as a family. And come Spring, the Wii starts getting cobwebs until we dust it off in late Fall.

The ever widening chasm that comes from a family as they get older seems to disappear when we get out the Wii. The laughing and screaming with delight and the goofy dancing makes this mom's heart burst with happiness!


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    • daisyjae profile image


      5 years ago from Canada

      Our wii is awesome. It does give us something to do on family nights.

    • mbwalz profile imageAUTHOR

      MaryBeth Walz 

      6 years ago from Maine

      You're so right jaskar. But as a parent, it's natural to worry and want to steer them, gently, in other directions of interest too.

    • jaskar profile image


      6 years ago from England

      I have a wii and a 5 year old brother and it has been alot of fun.

      but I'd also like to add that all modern gaming platforms have something to offer every individual. only a minority of 'gamers' actually spend their life sitting in front of the tv.

    • mbwalz profile imageAUTHOR

      MaryBeth Walz 

      6 years ago from Maine

      Thanks. It is fun. Our neighbors greatly appreciate watching us dance wildly in from of our picture window!

    • mbwalz profile imageAUTHOR

      MaryBeth Walz 

      6 years ago from Maine

      Thanks. I got it all on eBay, and buy 1 new game for each of the kids for Christmas now.

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      Shasta Matova 

      6 years ago from USA

      I understand the hesitation with getting video games, because it does seem like something people do alone staring at the computer, but the Wii does sound like it has the benefits of video games without the isolating factors. Well said. Voted up.

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      Alexander Pease 

      6 years ago from Maine

      I have been wanting to get a Wii for a while, but don't have the money to buy the games and the console. After hearing all this good banter about it, I might just start saving up and go for it!

      Thanks and great hub!



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