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Collecting: Love tokens

Updated on March 24, 2016
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All my life, (71) I've been collecting odds and ends, starting with my tiny sewing machine. My new husband Bob collects too. Two bowerbirds!

Bobby gave me a love token. I carry it with me everywhere.

Love tokens come in many forms: traditionally they are coins from circulation, edges filed down and smoothed, engraved by hand with loving messages.

My husband Bobby's love tokens are different. He sees some small thing that he thinks I'll love and buys it. He leaves 'messages' around for me to find.

Twist-ties off the bread packet wrapped around the side piece of my eyeglasses. A flower picked from the garden and taped to my computer screen...

Image © Jan T Baillie 2009-2020

Bobby's first gift to me: my most prized possession

(He gives me gifts to show me that he loves me)

The first gift he ever gave me, he bought in an antique shop.

It was shiny. He likes shiny.

It was pretty. I like pretty.

It wasn't expensive as gifts go, but it wasn't cheap either.

It was a lipstick case. I don't wear lipstick.

It had a mirror attached. He thought I'd like that. Girls like mirrors.

The gift - A Limoges lipstick case by Patrys of Paris

Twist the cap - and it springs open to reveal

A mirror - for touching up your lippy


The outer case has a diamond pattern etched into it.

Pull out the tube - which used to hold the lipstick

Branded on the bottom: - Patrys Paris France

Around the top is Brevet© S.G.D.G. PARIS, and is also on the outside of the tube. This is the patent mark.

While searching for information

about this gift

I found one very similar, the same brand and age, and it sold for US$200!

Now Bobby thinks he's very clever for buying it.

Limoges

Sought after by collectors

Limoges has become the generic name used to describe a particular style of porcelain decoration that was very popular in the first few decades of the twentieth century, although it has been around for much longer than that.

Limoges is a town near Paris, and it was in that region that manufacturers began to produce this form of artwork. Between the early 1700s and the 1930s, this painted porcelain made from Kaolin clay was produced in several factories and workshops.

I have a cake stand by Frank Haviland, made in Paris, and my step-mother gave me a pair of little blue vases in the Limoges style which she said were very old. They have no markings, but they are likely to be from the early twentieth century.

Start collecting Limoges boxes - Here's a tome about it on Amazon

What are love tokens?

Gifts exchanged to show love

The most common love token in modern society would be a ring.

  • Friendship rings are often given to show love between male and a female, before the more formal exchange of an engagement ring.
  • Wedding rings are symbolic love tokens worn by both marriage partners.
  • Beads are given to friends, in the form of bracelets, or armlets.
  • Quilters exchange friendship blocks to signify affection for another quilter.
  • Roses are sent to a special one. The colour tells the story.
  • Welsh love spoons are elaborately carved love tokens.

Image © Jan T Baillie 2009-2020

Welsh Love Spoons

Bobby used to bring me chocolates

Not good for my figure!

Cakes, lollies, doughnuts — anything he thought I would love to eat.

If he went to the shop for bread, he came back with cream cakes as well.

He is slim and can eat these things to his heart's content, but I need to go steady.

It was hard to tell him not to buy them, because he was buying me love tokens.

Image from Microsoft ClipArt Gallery

One Sunday after church

I found some love tokens left for me

We had two red chooks who had just laid their first eggs.

Bob collected them and decided to write love notes on them.

He left them in a prominent position so I wouldn't miss what he'd done!

Love tokens with a difference! - That's my Bobby

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Bobby's latest love token!

It's pink, and I like turquoise, not pink.

While we were on holidays in the far south of NSW recently, he saw a tiny pink wallet in a gift box and decided it would be a lovely present to give me.

It is 2 inches wide and 2½ inches long.

When I opened the 'wallet', inside was a pink handled, fold-up set of tools. Pliers/wire cutters, nail file/star screwdriver, flat screwdriver, and a tiny knife. The cutest little set of tools you ever saw.

Bob is a collector of old hand tools, so I knew this was special in his eyes.

Open the wallet up - to find a tiny folded tool kit

Which has several different handy tools - A great little gadget

or a little pink toolkit - from Amazon

Little Pink Tool Kit (Pink)
Little Pink Tool Kit (Pink)

Wouldn't you just love this?

 

In my handbag I carry - all the necessities

When I change handbags to suit my outfit, I transfer everything into the current one.

I take with me:

  • my wallet, with my gold cards, Medicare card, pension cards, plastic...
  • a little green one-decade rosary my friend Annie gave me
  • emergency kit: Band-aids®, feminine supplies, floss pick...
  • a hanky (a pretty lacy one)
  • my reading glasses
  • my sunglasses
  • a pretty pale blue biro with butterflies on it
  • my asthma inhaler
  • the pink toolkit
  • a gold ring that Bobby gave me (I can't wear this love token because it's 9ct gold and I'm allergic to the copper in 9ct gold, so I carry it with me)

And

The most prized possession

the Limoges lipstick case

I never leave home without it, it's with me all the time.

If you had to run

What would you get?

© 2009 Jan T Urquhart Baillie

I wouldn't leave a burning building - without my lipstick case!

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 6 years ago from Australia

      @ecogranny: You might be surprised how valuable even a chipped Limoges plate might be. Priceless to you though!

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      Kathryn Grace 6 years ago from San Francisco

      My computers and external drives. Everything else is stuff. Btw, I have a genuine Limoges plate. Mom served all our family birthday cakes on it when I was growing up. The gold rim is nearly worn away. There's a chip here and there. It can be of no value now as a collectible, but it holds plenty of memories.

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to Laniann] Laniann, he's far from perfect! But the romantic bits outweigh the ADHD bits. He's great! Thanks for the gifts.

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      Laniann 8 years ago

      You are fortunate to have such a wonderful husband. Thank you for sharing. 5*s

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to puzzlemaker] Not many people would feel loved by seeing a twist-tie on their glasses, would they? Says something about me, maybe! Glad you liked the lens.

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      puzzlerpaige 8 years ago

      Now the twist tie idea is just about the most interesting thing I've heard. How amazing that he can twist it onto your glasses and when you see it you immediately know it was a token of love. That communication that needs no words is evidence of an amazing bond between two people.

      The lipstick case is my favorite.

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to Joan4] Yes he is! Thank you.

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      Joan4 8 years ago

      oh so sweet!

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to bdkz] Thank you for saying so, bdkz ;>)

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to a_willow] You're too kind, a_willow

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to calicoskies] Thank you

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      bdkz 8 years ago

      Beautiful!

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      Mihaela Vrban 8 years ago from Croatia

      Beautiful token and wonderful lens! So much love...

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      anonymous 8 years ago

      Very nice token :)

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to sandyspider] It is lovely. Thanks for visiting.

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      Sandy Mertens 8 years ago from Frozen Tundra

      Very beautiful token. I have never seen anything like it. I love the RocketMom spacers are well. Nicely done.

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to rms] Ain't that the truth!

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      Robin S 8 years ago from USA

      lucky lady!

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to Ramkitten] Thanks heaps.

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      Deb Kingsbury 8 years ago from Flagstaff, Arizona

      This is great! I'm off to add it to the featured lenses on mine about keepsakes and mementos. I love stuff like this. :)

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to ChineseKitesforKids] Unique he is! It was fun to tell about, too. Thanks for the stars.

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      Jan T Urquhart Baillie 8 years ago from Australia

      [in reply to mbrownauthor] Yes I am blessed. Thanks.

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      anonymous 8 years ago

      What a wonderful lens. What unique taste your husband has. Thank you for sharing. 5 stars for the Rocket Mom.

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      anonymous 8 years ago

      Oh, Jan, you are so blessed! How very sweet.