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Are you Comparing yourself to Others
Be confident and Happy with Yourself
Don't lose yourself
Don't lose confidence in yourself.
Most people feel the need to compare themselves to others.
It is a down fault of those who feel left out of a group, and a life that won’t suit many individuals.
She often buys new clothing to compare to my lifestyle.
All of which is right in my face, and always showing off with what she had bought for her.
I have no idea of how to deal with this individual. She just compares herself to me in whatever she wears. An individual who doesn't understand if any garment is not suited for ones body shape won't suit the other.
I sometimes wish I did not speak to her. I prefer to keep her at bay, and to be friendly to her.
I have been ignoring her actions. I would like to keep my distance from this individual.
I grew up thinking differently in my life and in my appearance.
I have tried to compare myself to another but not in a permanent way.
I like me for the way I am and nobody can be me.
I know I am unique and there is only one of me in this part of Croatia.
This woman wants to be something she is not and compares herself to me.
Well, she constantly buys herself new clothing to show me she too can have something good to wear daily. Some people are just ridiculous.
I don't wear nice clothing to show-off with, but do so, to make myself happy with what I have, and not to be noticed by others.
A simple lifestyle has taught me to be myself and to ignore those who fail to be themselves.
My problem with this woman, she is ignorant, and does not have a clue of how to be around people.
She feels comparing her to me will make her the better person, or the bigger person.
I am a few years younger than her, and don't follow the styles of fashion.
She goes with fashion and different styles.
My style is about what I like, and of what suits me.
We have great differences between us, unfortunate for her; she does not see her differences from mine.
I like to buy what I know looks good on me, and don't care for following the trendy clothing styles.
It makes me different from the rest.
I prefer wearing what nobody else has and not with fashion.
Everybody has what the other is wearing if bought when in fashion. To me it is kind of boring when one follows trendy styles.
Don't compare yourself to others, you are who you are, and nobody else can be you.
In trying to compare yourself to others you will forget the real you.
I don't want to be anyone else but me.
You eventually become your worst enemy.
Remember only you can get pass your obstacles; no one will do that for you.
Comparing yourself to others does not bring light to any side of two parties.
You should consider yourself blessed with what you have than to look down on others.
Every time I wear something nice she expresses herself about buying a new dress.
Before you compare yourself to another think about what you have, and how you were in the past.
Think about what got you in that position in the first place, and of how you achieved the good in your life.
Your great improvements would show that you are doing well in your life, so stop comparing yourself to another person.
People are different in many ways and all experiences are unique to everyone.
Who has discovered something new let them explore their discoveries.
It has nothing to do with you of how they had explored those findings.
Recognize yourself before recognizing someone else.
Someone with a curvy body and you slightly fatter, off-course you will compare your body to that person and wonder. If only!
All shapes and sizes do affect many people.
The lack of confidence allows you to feel insecure about yourself.
You start to lose confidence, as intelligence, religion, or gender. You can become full of yourself and can lose yourself too.
Pay attention to yourself not others.
· Will comparing yourself to others ruin you?
Comparing yourself to others ruins you.
It takes away your happiness and makes you feel insecure.
What actually happens to such individuals is not surprising.
Such individuals continue to make them happy in thinking that way, and won't stop their bad habits.
These individuals don't think of what they are doing to themselves.
All they need to do is to look at another person, and have what that person has to feel good about themselves.
· Why do you want to compare yourself to another?
Every individual has their own successes and you too have your unique way of life.
You choose to be what you have always wanted to do from childhood.
You all are capable of loving and hating one another whenever possible.
If you want to achieve your goals go ahead and make that right for yourself.
Don't compare your life with another it is not worth it in your life with anyone.
· It is not a win, win situation to be so harsh with you.
There is no perfect being and no perfect anything in life.
Just be yourself.
You don't need to compare yourself with others life is not about comparisons but you go do so for your own needs.
When you compare yourself to others you are being foolish and when you find that divine quality and get to learn from others that become wise.
Eventually you will see the differences.
· Compare yourself with yourself not with others.
I see this behavior as ignorant, or plain jealousy when someone tries to compare themselves with me.
· Why does she feel the need to do so?
Her constant stares at me make me feel good about myself.
I know that she can do whatever she likes to. In comparing herself to me she is only making herself weak and insecure.
She can buy as many dresses as she likes, and have as many hairdos as she wants to, it won't change me in any way.
· What will she benefit from her actions?
· I don't know!
· Do you think comparing yourself with others is a good image for yourself?
I have ignored her for the way she carries on in her conversations.
I am always up for a challenge and this is one of recent challenges.
I don't take anything to heart of what she applies to me. I know she can't be me in anyway.
No matter what she tries to do to compare with me her life will not be anything like mine.
I am me and love the way I have become to adjust to new life in this beautiful country.
· Have you ever compared yourself with anyone?
· Do you compare yourself to someone whom you think is more attractive than you?
Negative thoughts can make one feel this way.
It is a daily battle if you make it a battle to you.
Look at what is important, and appreciated that in your life, rather than to focus on something that is not worth the waste of your energy
What makes you special?
When people see others are living better than they are it brings on a different vibe.
Don't Compare yourself to others
Comparing yourself to others
How do I deal with such an Individual?
© 2014 Devika Primić