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Be the One to Lighten up your Day

Updated on April 8, 2017
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Devika enjoys sharing her work with a friendly community. Writing is a big part of her life. Online work has improved her lifestyle.

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Positive people are happier

Lighten up your path with a smile or a kind gesture.

Life is what you make of it!

You have all experiences and everything happens for a reason.

There are some events you can't prevent, and there are those events that can ruin you for a lifetime.

Nagging at each other and thinking everything will work out is another issue with many people.

The many incidents that one thinks they can avoid is often not the case because life is full of surprises and experiences.

The traumatic experiences lead to frustration and the constant thought of, ''if only.''

A precious gift to you and is not wrapped in a bow is a perfect gift to share your lifetime with and to share your experiences with others in life.

It is a valuable lesson to learn from and through your experiences you realize, the special moments are worthy and appreciated.

Be it a car accident, or any mishap that put you in that uncomfortable position life goes on and you move on with that experience.

Sometimes you wish you could retrace your footsteps and see how you could have changed your plans to have avoided that accident.

Unfortunately, you can't undo what has already been done.

It is in your mind to make a clear path for yourself.

How do you make the constant questions disappear?

Do you wish you can turn back years?

I know what that means to wish the clock could go back but I don't think of my life in that way.

Focus on what you can change forgets about what you can't change.

The past is not a place to be.

Through every experience you learn a new lesson.

See yourself as that great and happy person.

During your worst times you will feel nothing ever is going well.

The idea is to get up and feel strong from that weak experience.

People are hurt about everything or just something in life. You can waste your energy on something that is of no interest to you.

When you make the important aspects part of your life other parts of your life becomes stronger and positive.

Think clearly and from a good perspective.

Everything happens to everyone at different times and in different places.

You are sometimes discouraged and you sometimes fail at what you try to succeed at.

Remember you can always have what you want for yourself just be open-minded.

The key is to be hopeful and be assured from within.

It is you, who has to create your future and when you do that your life will feel easier and less stressful.

Pressure doesn't have a hold on your chest.

The light feeling allows for a greater and better experience.

The difficult moments in your life opens up for greater opportunities.

The struggles you have increases and best option is to face it and not to walk away from a problem.

You can fall into a trap in your mind and use your failures to be discouraged from the negative experiences. Emotions shared openly allows for a smooth road to success.

When you choose to be happy, and forget about what made you unhappy your dreams can be followed with a clear mind.

Often you lose touch with what is going on around you. Deal with the important parts in your life and let go of what doesn't mean much to you.

Every reaction in an event shows your strengths and weaknesses.

You rise every time you fall is a sign of a challenge that you can take on at anytime.

People try more than once to succeed and those are the people who don't believe in giving up.

You don't know how brave you are until you are faced with that experience. The experiences bring out your smartness and surprise you with your intelligence.

The many tough times you have passed by makes you the tough person you are for always.

Every challenge experienced becomes part of you.

It is no sense in you thinking you wished that didn't happen to you because you have to meet up with that greater challenge.

The storm will pass and you will see how capable you are in such situations.

Each storm you face up to makes you that strong and happy person.

Nothing in life will make you happy if you don't choose to be happy.

You got to show for yourself how you can get out of a rut.

The full responsibility comes from you and, only you.

It is your life and only you can lighten up your path.

Pain is felt but with pain comes your strengths.

The opportunities you have are limitless.

Start from now to make a better life. It is not easy to start all over again, but you can make a better end for yourself.

The problems you experience is a guideline to your future.

Whatever you do for success is a move to make a difference in your life.

Tragedies experienced are not to make the weak individual but to make you the stronger one.

Look at traumatic experiences as another storm passing by you.

It doesn't mean you must forget about these experiences. Embrace your challenges and look at your happy life and the aftermath.

Accept both the sun and the rain in your life.

You can't only have the sun, the rain has to enter your life too.

Greediness doesn't show the best in you.

You can change the way you think about something that you don't like in your life.

Believe in what you do and don't be a quitter!

When you happy with what you have, your great explorations will fall in place with what you want from life itself.

The light and the darkness affect you, so don't only focus on the light and forget about the darkness.

Hope, you will always have, as long as you believe that your dream lost will have a new one to take its place. The issues you have will be solved.

What you want will come to you when you least expect it.

Do what you love doing and be happy with what you have it is important to show that appreciation to yourself.

You create and invent but to yourself you create a new life and a new beginning. Finding yourself is not all you need to do.

I have met many people and through our chats I noticed how I made them feel and that they won't forget. That brings joy to my heart to see how people are when we meet for the first time.

You can't be the same everyday and have the same attitude as everybody else.

In life you take what comes to you and try to challenge that experience.

Courage, kindness, and forgiveness play a huge part of your lives.

You can smile and laugh to show your true happiness that doesn't mean you are perfect.

By you behaving in this manner it will show you are not looking at your imperfections but looking beyond that.

You often focus on the closed doors and forget to see the opened door to lighten up your path.

Be energetic and positive through all times life will feel much easier.

You don't see the best when you focus on negativity; you see the best when you smile at your worst moments.

The person who doesn't show their smile, show them your smile to make them smile too.

Second chances are there it is up to you to take it and make a life again.

Today you learn and move on and let go and let be.

Life is meaningful and precious be yourself.

Every moment is a special one.

However, you see your life and whatever you are planning, there are some events you can't prevent no matter how much you try to get pass that obstacle it will happen to you.

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      Bill Holland 11 months ago from Olympia, WA

      The title made me smile. The message made me nod my head in agreement. Great message!

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      Larry Rankin 11 months ago from Oklahoma

      Good read.

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 11 months ago from Southern Illinois

      I wouldn't want to go back and do it all over again. We learn from our mistakes. A great informative hub. Thank you...

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      Denise W Anderson 11 months ago from Bismarck, North Dakota

      Sometimes that is a tough reality, the fact that we cannot undo what has already been done. I think that is where a lot of depression comes from. And then we get anxious trying to do everything we can to change the future! Part of our struggle in life is learning to be content with the present, no matter what happened in the past, and no matter what the future brings. I am speaking to myself here!

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      Elayne 11 months ago from Rocky Mountains

      Very motivational! Need that every day. Thanks.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Great thanks for comments billybuc.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thank you Larry Rankin

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      always exploring thank you for comments

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      denise.w.anderson thank you and I understand your point.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Elayne001 thank you for sharing your comment.

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      Sukhneet Kaur Bhatti 11 months ago from India

      True Devika, Positive thinking works like a magic and bestows one with unusual strength to deal with problems in life.

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      Linda Crampton 11 months ago from British Columbia, Canada

      I do sometimes wish that I could turn back time, but as you say, the past is not the place to be. It's important that we make the most of the present. As always, thanks for sharing all the advice.

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      Rajan Singh Jolly 11 months ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

      Some fine tips to make the most of life and be happy. Thank you.

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      Shyron E Shenko 11 months ago from Texas

      Devika, thank you for being you and being so positive,

      You lift my spirits, truly you do

      And the messages you send are superlative

      My beautiful friend

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      Blessings always

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      Faith Reaper 11 months ago from southern USA

      Hi Devika,

      This is such an inspirational and beautiful message to share! So true, our thoughts weigh heavy on our happiness in this life!

      There are many things I wish I hadn't done, but I learned a hard lesson from my mistakes, so I guess that is life. We'll never learn much if we never made any mistakes. Thankfully, the experience makes us wiser for future actions.

      Peace and blessings

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      Surabhi Kaura 11 months ago

      What a food for thought! I loved your article. Keep on inspiring, Devika. Blessings this Sunday.

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      Mel Carriere 11 months ago from San Diego California

      We can't blame God for everything. He breathes the blessings of life into us then leaves us alone. Sometimes I would like to turn back time, but that is like admitting surrender. I'm not ready to surrender, I force myself to believe there are great times ahead. Great hub!

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi AliciaC My summer job keeps me busy indeed. Sorry for the very late reply. I appreciate your encouraging comment.Thank you

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      rajan jolly thank you very much for commenting.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Syhron E. Shenko I appreciate your kind words my friend. Have a great weekend!

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Faith Reaper thank you very much for commenting. Life is just that full of experiences and mistakes made to be learned from daily.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Surabhi Kaura thank you kindly for stopping by.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Mel Carriere I so agree with your comment here thank you very much for stopping by.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      sukhneet thank you for sharing your views here.

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      Deb Hirt 11 months ago from Stillwater, OK

      All it takes is a positive force. Thanks for all the reminders that we control our destiny.

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      FlourishAnyway 11 months ago from USA

      It's important to live in the present and plan in the future. The past has already happened and cannot be changed. Good reminders.

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      Nithya Venkat 11 months ago from Dubai

      Being positive brightens the day and lightens the burdens of life. A great reminder to be positive in life.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 11 months ago from New Delhi, India

      Excellent hub and as always truly inspirational!

      We are ourselves responsible for our attitude towards life. I agree with your thoughts in the hub. Being positive can help immensely to solve a problem or an unfavourable situation.

      Thanks for this uplifting hub!

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      Kathleen Cochran 11 months ago from Atlanta, Georgia

      Glad I finally found this one! What an upper during a week of so much bad news. Thanks!

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      aviannovice thank you and so appreciate you commenting.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      FlourishAnyway, thank you very much for sharing your view here.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Vellur, Thank you very much for commenting. I believe in a positive and safe life.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Great one! ''We are ourselves responsible for our attitude towards life.''Thank you for that comment.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Kathleen Cochran, bad news is every where right now and we need to feel good too. Thank you

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      Marlene Bertrand 11 months ago from Northern California, USA

      I believe, as you, that everything happens for a reason. Even if something bad happens it is an opportunity to learn something from it and move on with a better understanding. This has been a worthwhile hub to read. Life is so good. Thank you for the reminder to smile and be happy.

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      vespawoolf 11 months ago from Peru, South America

      You´ve compiled many beautiful thoughts. If we could live in the present and be contented, we would all be so much happier. My husband is a positive person and this makes me appreciate him even more! Thank you for sharing.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi vespawoolf thank you for sharing that. Being positive is such a great way to be I learned from my difficult beginning in Croatia.

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      Devika Primić 11 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      MarleneB thank you for commenting. A positive way of life life shows you more good experiences and that you wil pass the negative with a happy mind.

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      Ann Carr 11 months ago from SW England

      Always be positive - that's such an important thing. Great message here, Devika, and you've given us lots of examples of how to achieve success.

      Ann

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      Devika Primić 10 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Ann, so kind of you to comment. Thank you very much.

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      Madan 10 months ago from Abu Dhabi

      Interesting post. Yes it always is a great help to be positive in life

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      Devika Primić 10 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      emge thank you for commenting.

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      Janellegems 9 months ago from United States

      Thanks for the great encouragement and uplifting message during tough times. This is a great inspiration.

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      Devika Primić 9 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Janellegems thank you for commenting I appreciate your time.

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      savvydating 8 months ago

      Spot on! Looking forward to joy instead of backward to bad experiences is a good recipe for life. We can see the bad experiences as learning lessons on how to do better next time, but we must never prevent them from allowing ourselves to enjoy the present!

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      Devika Primić 8 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      savvydating thank you very much for commenting. I am pleased you get my message here.

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