Emotions Directed by the Intellect

I grew up a nice guy but when I was younger without guidance I would think in my heart I feel this is right so i'm going to do things like this or that. I made many choices or all my choices based on feeling when I was about age 5 to age 20. I felt confused a lot of the time and when basing things on feeling you don't always recognize the things you would if you analyze things through the intellect. I kept getting in trouble and when I or my girlfriend would not agree there always seem to be a fight and I didn't like that. I didn't have the ability yet to be able to help her or me and although being attacked by her and just being a part of hers and mines violence it sucked I ended up getting a domestic violence charge eventually and I am not a mean person that wants to hurt anyone. I was young and would get attacked all the time and lied to and head games played with me. I believed in honesty in a relationship but I also wasn't well at sharing that good thing in me. Although I tried to always be honest I hadn't known how to encourage people really well and didn't see things clearly. When your life is directed by emotions and not the intellect then it's like the blind person and you have to feel and feeling based decisions are not accurate and as good as intellect based decisions. For example one person may try to beat sense into someone but we are free willed human beings and you can't beat sense into anyone that don't accept it. If they don't accept it, they don't accept it. So if you choose in your heart to be a good person and we know good people want to help and strengthen and build up and heal and knowing that the best I could do is instead of getting angry and starting a fight I could encourage. Now I learned sometimes joking around in life maybe something also you want to not do. Physiological head games can lead to suicide and if you want to be a person that helps you will accomplish the task so much better without playing games ever. Some people get so mental and they need someone that never plays games to get them out of deep schizophrenia and other places that most would say they need pills. But truth is reality never goes no where and it's best to face it head on. The person in control is the one that stays in control. A lot of the time emotional disturbed people are very rude and as you keep to your good conversation seeing it's a sad state they are in and nothing to get all angry about but stay calm cool and relaxed and just talk about life and keeping in control and being a good person. If the person wants to be a good person and has a desire to help others then you may have a person to teach and you can load them up with quickness of speech with many things. When I set a direction in my heart and changed my emotions to be directed through the intellect I never seen life more clear than now. I though who am I when I was confused and I said I am a guy that wants to help people. I want to strengthen the weak , I want to heal the ill , I want to build up the low and I thought we are not always promised tomorrow so I always believed in quickness of speech being able to turn someones life around. Sometimes though teaching is like planting a seed and we don't see things come up the first day. Sometimes it takes weeks and months on others. A key to things also is never teach anyone that doesn't want to hear. Most of the time people will trigger the conversation up with them leading even though they said they didn't want to hear. I think all minds want to see things more clear and that's what makes this conversation so inspiring. It's a part of maturing through a good conversation that one can study them self and make some simple choices and put to practice some simple things. Yeah it maybe hard at first and you may slip up a lot and lash out in emotions like your used to but take that moment and replay it at the moment how you would like it to be and soon you will be as you practice. Do the same with your mouth and keep your words clean the best way to teach others is to have a clean mouth think of it as clean waters a fountain that is a joy to drink from. Curse words are extra added not needed emotions that may trigger up feeling that will disturb your overall peace. If you want to go to the maximum extent and gain the most benefit I would recommend you control that mouth and before you know it you will be shining before the people you speak to. Sometimes I feel alone because none ever came by my path and told me the things like I tell others. But my whole life growing up I wanted to help people and every time there where questions or answers I listened and would hold them and try to find the answers to help others. Being a person that cares I gained lots of treasures that the people that don't care wouldn't gain because they don't care. So being a caring person allows you to hold many things that you can share with others as you obtain them throughout life. I think of the intellect in control of the emotions when successfully understood it's such a blessing and allows you to see clearly how to help others and how others can build each other up so much easier. There are many people that share the new things they add onto there life as working the intellect in control of there emotions and the cool thing is anyone on that path and practice can share there experiences each time they meet and help build each other up and become better speakers and gain more clear understandings of many things. For some reason I noticed people that live in the emotions and don't have there life directed trough the intellect that there life can be really dark and they may feel a lot of the time that others are not listening or hearing them but it's not that we didn't hear them and it's not that we didn't listen. It's just that we didn't feel it and didn't need to. When we come out of old spots that where very confusing, it can be very exciting but sometimes it takes a long time to share it with others to gain the same even though we all seem to stand right next to the best places.

Not everyone wants to improve there life and become a better person and some people don't even realize that telling lies is a very terrible things and effects people way more than they know. It makes a person dishonest and not have a good name. It's wrong and it's bad and even though it seems it wouldn't effect a person life. I notice liars in a room seem so lost, like there in a black cloud and the honest people with good hearts can see through the dark cloud because it's not there. The lies seem to make people so lost and a part of keeping in control means you should keep in control of your speech and make sure the things you say are honest and true and know that our word will not always be perfect we are man and we make mistakes. But people know when they honestly say or if they are telling the truth or not. I mean if you don't know what your saying then I am not sure why you don't see what your saying and watch the words that come out of your mouth and think do i think this or know this. There is also believe. To think , know and believe and everything needs to be organized in it's place in the mind for the ultimate results of awesomeness or whatever it is. I never thought life could come so clear and that I would have a great ability to be able to help others but I only have the ability because I practice what I say and I lead by example and it's not something that I need to wonder what to say or how to encourage. Because I just need to lead by example and when the time comes I can find the words with patience and wait as long as it takes. May seem like learning a new language but welcome to speaking in illustrations. The conversation kinda paints pictures allowing others to see things by how its spoken and they think oh yeah I see. A easy understandable way of speaking. Now for me to find this way was easier than just stumbling upon it and or reading lots of books or schooling. That's because I became a Christian and all the best ways are Gods ways and they are perfect. So whether others are believers or not all Gods ways are perfect and he even says his ways are higher than our ways. I advance in my psychology by trying Gods ways and whether I understand them or not I don't lean to my own understanding I just put them to practice and then later on I usually gain a clear view of what I hadn't understood until I started to practice it. Improvement only works though if you work it and at first it may seem hard but you become as you practice and then it's no more work its' just you. But we are not always perfect and we always need to be alert and watching the words that come out of our mouth. Obviously all this is only profitable probably for people that want to be a good person that cares and a good person will not play head games.

A good person will speak truth and will love and not hate. Many times you may get provoked but never hate the person because your own frustration by not convincing them could trigger up hate but realize there are other people that are without and lack many things and like planting that seed it may take days , weeks , months but you will get people coming back to you saying hey you know what I figured this or that out and your good conversation and the effort you put into it will have an effect. It's becomes like a sweet meditation day and night in life and when the intellect is in control of the emotions then you taste the emotion and know how to feel but you don't dwell on it seeing you have no need to stay feeling because you are changing all choices in life to go through a intellect choice of whats really right and wrong. So who's to say what's really right and wrong well we'll make it easy and just stay and what's simple even by nature to know it's good. Now we know to be honest is good and that to speak truth is good. So that's a good start. Now sometimes people will talk with you and try to twist things up and confuse you. There are sometimes people that just like doing that but they always get found out. Always stand your ground stay strong if you disagree with others 99% of the time your doing great. If you find someone that you don't disagree with much well then you probably will notice you agree probably over 75% of things and both can edify each other with whatever simple common sense discoveries you all make. But the way to gain the most is when you go out and speak with others and when there is a question that has a answer that matters, but you don't know it. Hold that answer, no need to think on it seeing you have need of it and it's for another to help them and it matters. It may come to you in the morning , next month , next year , next week but always hold them and don't think on them let them rest and the more you hold they do get answered if they are questions that matter. Now when seeking in others you got to stay in control and don't let lust overthrow the mind. To stay in control even if the other tempts you if you want to have a successful effect and not loose the good words, keep in control because if lust overthrows then you will say what you would not have said and things change.

Do the same with your mouth and keep your words clean the best way to teach others is to have a clean mouth think of it as clean waters a fountain that is a joy to drink from. Curse words are extra added not needed emotions that may trigger up feeling that will disturb your overall peace. If you want to go to the maximum extent and gain the most benefit I would recommend you control that mouth and before you know it you will be shining before the people you speak to. Sometimes I feel alone because none ever came by my path and told me the things like I tell others. But my whole life growing up I wanted to help people and every time there where questions or answers I listened and would hold them and try to find the answers to help others. Being a person that cares I gained lots of treasures that the people that don't care wouldn't gain because they don't care. So being a caring person allows you to hold many things that you can share with others as you obtain them throughout life. I think of the intellect in control of the emotions when successfully understood it's such a blessing and allows you to see clearly how to help others and how others can build each other up so much easier. There are many people that share the new things they add onto there life as working the intellect in control of there emotions and the cool thing is anyone on that path and practice can share there experiences each time they meet and help build each other up and become better speakers and gain more clear understandings of many things. For some reason I noticed people that live in the emotions and don't have there life directed trough the intellect that there life can be really dark and they may feel a lot of the time that others are not listening or hearing them but it's not that we didn't hear them and it's not that we didn't listen. It's just that we didn't feel it and didn't need to. When we come out of old spots that where very confusing, it can be very exciting but sometimes it takes a long time to share it with others to gain the same even though we all seem to stand right next to the best places. Not everyone wants to improve there life and become a better person and some people don't even realize that telling lies is a very terrible things and effects people way more than they know. It makes a person dishonest and not have a good name. It's wrong and it's bad and even though it seems it wouldn't effect a person life. I notice liars in a room seem so lost, like there in a black cloud and the honest people with good hearts can see through the dark cloud because it's not there. The lies seem to make people so lost and a part of keeping in control means you should keep in control of your speech and make sure the things you say are honest and true and know that our word will not always be perfect we are man and we make mistakes. But people know when they honestly say or if they are telling the truth or not. I mean if you don't know what your saying then I am not sure why you don't see what your saying and watch the words that come out of your mouth and think do i think this or know this. There is also believe. To think , know and believe and everything needs to be organized in it's place in the mind for the ultimate results of awesomeness or whatever it is. I never thought life could come so clear and that I would have a great ability to be able to help others but I only have the ability because I practice what I say and I lead by example and it's not something that I need to wonder what to say or how to encourage. Because I just need to lead by example and when the time comes I can find the words with patience and wait as long as it takes.

May seem like learning a new language but welcome to speaking in illustrations. The conversation kinda paints pictures allowing others to see things by how its spoken and they think oh yeah I see. A easy understandable way of speaking. Now for me to find this way was easier than just stumbling upon it and or reading lots of books or schooling. That's because I became a Christian and all the best ways are Gods ways and they are perfect. So whether others are believers or not all Gods ways are perfect and he even says his ways are higher than our ways. I advance in my psychology by trying Gods ways and whether I understand them or not I don't lean to my own understanding I just put them to practice and then later on I usually gain a clear view of what I hadn't understood until I started to practice it. Improvement only works though if you work it and at first it may seem hard but you become as you practice and then it's no more work its' just you. But we are not always perfect and we always need to be alert and watching the words that come out of our mouth. Obviously all this is only profitable probably for people that want to be a good person that cares and a good person will not play head games. A good person will speak truth and will love and not hate. Many times you may get provoked but never hate the person because your own frustration by not convincing them could trigger up hate but realize there are other people that are without and lack many things and like planting that seed it may take days , weeks , months but you will get people coming back to you saying hey you know what I figured this or that out and your good conversation and the effort you put into it will have an effect. It's becomes like a sweet meditation day and night in life and when the intellect is in control of the emotions then you taste the emotion and know how to feel but you don't dwell on it seeing you have no need to stay feeling because you are changing all choices in life to go through a intellect choice of whats really right and wrong. So who's to say what's really right and wrong well we'll make it easy and just stay and what's simple even by nature to know it's good. Now we know to be honest is good and that to speak truth is good. So that's a good start. Now sometimes people will talk with you and try to twist things up and confuse you. There are sometimes people that just like doing that but they always get found out. Always stand your ground stay strong if you disagree with others 99% of the time your doing great. If you find someone that you don't disagree with much well then you probably will notice you agree probably over 75% of things and both can edify each other with whatever simple common sense discoveries you all make. But the way to gain the most is when you go out and speak with others and when there is a question that has a answer that matters, but you don't know it. Hold that answer, no need to think on it seeing you have need of it and it's for another to help them and it matters. It may come to you in the morning , next month , next year , next week but always hold them and don't think on them let them rest and the more you hold they do get answered if they are questions that matter. Now when seeking in others you got to stay in control and don't let lust overthrow the mind. To stay in control even if the other tempts you if you want to have a successful effect and not loose the good words, keep in control because if lust overthrows then you will say what you would not have said and things change.

I count the good conversation highest of all conversations and I never let anything overthrow. I was talking with a woman a while back and she tried to kill herself and I know im a person that would never do that. I hold something she doesn't and I was confident and without doubt, never doubt you don't want to fail and doubt is failure like peter walking to Jesus he started sinking and that's what doubt will do to you. If you know what your talking about you will gain more and more confidence until your 100% without doubt. If you love others as you would love your own self and once being immature then you see yourself where you used to be and you can lead them out of that spot however you came out except now that you practice a new thing you can see yourself in them but then echo your practice when speaking and seems all minds want to see more clearly. If you start to not feel many emotions that's perfectly normal life is not about feeling like a blind person you know you love others my the actions you take. When you care and you speak up and you love them as you would love your own self. You take time out of your day to help them and it's not for your profit but all for theirs. You stay in control even if there rude and you stay calm cool and relaxed. and most the time they feel ashamed if they been real rude. Patience is a big thing because if the words are not there just wait for them. You don't really do any thinking really you just see everything blank and then the words that come you speak. They like light up in the heart like a natural learned behavioral process but seeing you started speaking truth then you are just having a flow of words of what you already know and seeing your heart doesn't hold lies you don't have junk to see through to get to the good stuff your flow should be nice and sweet and work fantastic results. Now I know many may think this sounds weird and think I don't believe him. But if you don't try it and at the full effect you won't know my depths of inspiration and psychology. Through a good conversation a mean and rude schizophrenic I was able to wake up in 2 weeks. Where others tried for like over a year. I don't enjoy the 2 weeks because they are liars and so deep in lies and head games and thinking people are thinking evil of them and it's just so bizarre. Never the less though you just never play head games and if they lie call them a liar and tell them you can't help them unless they let you because they are in a dark place and they have need to be guided out and they don't know what they even say anyways. So you see yourself in them but with light and pathways light up the way out it's not that hard just requires patience and your life laid down with all the mercy and charity in the world it seems. You can't doubt and it's all for them. I couldn't do anything though without God. I always thought it was a book that tells you how to live life until answering the gospel call and being set free through Christ. Everything came clear to me like all in one moment it seemed but I didn't think it had anything to do with God. So I tried to figure out whatever I was trying to figure out for like 9 months and many listened to me and I realized lots of things and all the benefits are in Gods ways they are perfect and they are awesome. I love them and it's the way we all need to go and we all should build up and edify each other. We all should be able to strengthen each other and help the mental become sane again. Seeing the mental can do everything normal I don't believe they just end up retarded one day. Emotion , lies , head games can really mess people up way more than they know and a part of escaping is the person has to maybe how it's said set a direction in there heart. Ask them what do you want to be a good or bad person and then the list down one side and list down the other and say ok then hold to these things seeing you want to be a good person. Don't make decisions because you feel but make them because you have studied and because you want to help and build up and strengthen and heal. So in all the things you do think is it for good or bad and in what way. It sometimes seems good to help but if it's in a bad way it's not good to help in that way. Do you want to be more wise in life then choose what is wise and smart and make it happen. If this has caught anyone's interest and would like to hear more or have questions , I figure I could write a lot more but for a part 1. I hope this has been of a benefit to you all and I hope you enjoyed this good conversation. Sometimes the simple things are right in front of us, but the hard part is revealing them.

Naturally we may feel like hitting a person back if we got hit. But that would be out of anger and to hurt and be hateful. There are better ways and when it's all for there gain and profit it will have a effect. I told a guy gambling was evil and the greed on his face looked even more evil. He wouldn't be a friend or give me the time of day. So I gave him all my money and said this is evil and left. Years later he came back to me and said I never forgot that day. It stuck there and effected him. We should always earn what we gain. Gambling is ill gotten gain. To keep advancing and better areas many things have to be given up but nothing good, ya see it's just all bad stuff that needs to be given up for more peace and to be able to be a better teacher to.