Do you Hate Being Yourself

Do you hate being you?

How many times have you not forgiven yourself?

Do you hate yourself for not making the right decision?

Are you your worst enemy?

It is painful to face reality, but that painful moment you have is what limits you from being yourself.

You have these emotions and feel less worthy of yourself for not having someone to share these emotions with.

Self-hatred shows you are unworthy to yourself and less of a human and not to others. It is hurting you on the inside to be this way, and yet you do not do anything to improve that part of your life.

Hate being yourself tells others you are a weak and less-confident person. You live a life with difficult decisions and an inner self of no progress.

This is what makes you different from other people, your self-doubt, self-hatred, harsh attitude, and mixed emotions you have for yourself.

In yourself, you have a negative sense of life itself.

All this hatred you have for yourself leads to a lack of communication and makes you an outcast in society.

No matter how better you are than the other person you think you are, don’t forget you have some issues in your life that could relate to the ones hating themselves.

It doesn’t mean because you are not thinking as the other person that you are perfect.

People are divided in society from all views or aspects of life. Culture takes you further and apart. Unless you accept yourself for who you really are then only will others accept you.

People accepted me in a small community, and in a foreign country, but not all have accepted me and I understand and do not hate anyone for it or myself.

Everybody has a side to them as I do to me and it is not the same to feel accepted, hated, or liked by other people.

There is that part of you that wants what others want and you self-hate if you do not get what you want.

Do you think it is kind behaviour?

I think not!

You have an inner voice that tells you to be who you are comfortable with and who you're happy with from your inner self. It is your choice to be whoever you want to be.

The inner voice has a hold on you to make you self-hate. With this inner voice, you can be soft at heart or cruel, as you wish.

Your inner voice tells you to be good to others or to be neutral when interacting with others.

You can listen to your inner voice to spiral down a ladder with negative thoughts or could pick yourself up and go up the ladder in a positive tone.

If I ignored my positive thoughts and focused on the negative sense of direction,

I would not have continued my life in a foreign country.

I learned to be myself, love myself and show others and myself that a challenge made me stronger and I am confident to face up to challenges.

Your inner voice can destroy relationships you form with others and discourage your feeling of a positive route.

You can destroy good relationships by listening to your inner voice.

You tend to criticize others through your inner voice. A true point of view from you can keep friends away or something you believe in a negative tone.

Why do you hate yourself?

People have an issues with themselves from a young age and hate themselves for the smallest or stupidest of problems that they have encountered.

As you age, these views become harmful to you and your self-image is created in the negative sense of your influences.

Whatever is grasped at a young age, be it in a positive or negative sense, you are affected by this in adulthood.

These attitudes are directed to you as you grow and are faced with unexpected challenges in your life.

You can’t blame your parents for what went wrong in your life and you must understand nobody is perfect.

Most parents were young when they had their first child and were not mature enough to raise a child. In the process, you as the child feel neglected for some reason.

So, when you look at all aspects of growing up and facing up to your responsibilities you become who you are from what you have created for yourself.

You can hate yourself it won’t bring back any good unless you change the way you think and for yourself.

Parents are faced with their responsibilities and with their past experiences. You would realize that your inner voice plays a role in your life in many ways.

The destructiveness from the inner voice makes you feel worthless, and in the process, you have a life that causes a strain on you.

In this case, you become troubled and seek troubled relationships.

The inner voice makes you feel unaccepted and unloved, and everything negative you felt as a child has become you.

How can you stop hating yourself?

You need to overcome the negativity and your self-hatred through the inner voice that helped you create yourself. Change what caused you to be this way.

Avoid what you were affected by in your childhood.

For example.

If your parents were overly strict with you, change that tone when you have your kids. Do not carry over what affected you from childhood to your adulthood.

Break the negative patterns and focus on the positive sense of direction. You must learn to know yourself and figure out what is important to you.

Your beliefs, from childhood, values as you were growing up and to live your life.

Create goals and seek to know yourself better in your adulthood.

The key to a positive life is to separate from the inner voice and to be yourself.

To stop hating yourself through your inner voice and to be able to take responsibility for yourself.

Your unrealized issues stay with you making you feel sabotaged by your actions. If you do not feel part of a family, it would bring you down and a feeling like you do not belong in a community.

You shouldn’t try to make anybody else happy but yourself. A problem many people have is making others happy before themselves.

This approach ruins people’s lives. The feeling of making others feel they deserve to be made happy while you become the unhappy one.

You begin to hate yourself when both or one of your parents did not pay attention to you as a child.

They focused on the negative of you and did not want to see any other side of you.

Sometimes families do not love their children or fail to see what is hurting their children.

You look at what you have experienced in a negative sense and hate yourself for that.

Whether you are male or female you hate yourself for the different experiences you have had.

When you hate yourself for being overweight or for being bullied you feel alone and want to be alone.