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How to develop a winning and attractive personality

Updated on January 28, 2011

Developing a winning and attractive personality needs a lot of effort. First, you need to acquire wisdom. The wisdom of getting along well with people, the wisdom of how to win friends. The true character of a person normally comes from the heart, the person's figurative heart. The daily habit of a person and his exposure to influences such as his habits of reading and the kind of material he reads, the type of movies he choose to watch these things influences a persons behavior.

Secondly, in order to be truly attractive to other people a person must develop how to project himself with a pleasing voice. The true motive of the heart cannot be faked by using artificial projection of a beautiful voice but instead it must emanate from a sincere feeling. One must develop the habit of speaking clearly and sincerely all the time. Bad language and profanity must never be mentioned even in laughing situation.

Thirdly, make it a habit of having a little twinkle in your eye. When a person smiles at you he triggers a powerful force, a force that forces others to smile in return, because a face that carry a beautiful smile is a force that uses no force at all. When we are not feeling to smile we can even force ourselves to smile and in turn the happy state of mind will influence our whole body. Others beholding us will be influenced positively. In fact if your engine won't start you will crank it, why not try it to your face.


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      regality 7 years ago from Iloilo City, Philippines

      nice hub Ron. i'm looking forward for the sequel ;)

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      Gener Geminiano 7 years ago from Land of Salt, Philippines

      you have 85 author score ron hehehe, i guess you need to write again here to boosts it further...

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      munirahmadmughal 7 years ago from Lahore, Pakistan.

      When we become true servants of our Beneficent Creator and walk humbly on the earth, and when talk to the ignorant say them peace, when we are moderte in our expenditure, when we repspect the human rights, when we prove true to our words, when we keep the balance even between the rich and the poor, the high and the low without any fear or favour, greed or temptation, when we do not tell a lie, when we maintain the dignity of mankind, when we help the poor and the needy, when we spread knowledge and wisdom, when we explore the truth and when commit no fruad to others, and above all when we keep ourselves busy in serving humanity sincerely, we go on developing our personality which is not only winning but also attractive.

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      Iceman1987 7 years ago from Washington

      Well said! I was just reading through hubs and i hit this one. Def. Glad i read it!

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      denden mangubat 6 years ago from liloan, cebu, philippines

      this is the thing that i am lacking.thanks.good hub.

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      Shirley Pisa 6 years ago

      Nice concept of attractiveness.

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