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Jealous of Other People's Success
Jealousy and Hatred
Are you jealous of other people's success?
People are jealous in every part of this world.
Jealousy is bad and hurts good people.
Being threatened by other people's success affects you a lot more when living in a small community as I.
Life changed and everything went in its own direction as I went in mine.
I see how others feel about me having something of my own.
They too want to do something of their own but, are trying to make me look bad in this process.
There are mixed emotions about life.
I am working hard for something I need to for myself and those people are just trying to destroy what I have with their selfish minds.
Competition is good and can go the wrong way if one behaves in such a manner.
My opened mind allows for a different approach.
If they are half or anything at all like me this would be handled in a most respectful way.
They are trying to make me feel bad in their spiteful and jealous acts.
When together it is difficult to speak to them or start a conversation.
These people look at me as if I am the one doing wrong, and are jealous of them to go ahead with the opening of their business.
Success is good when it comes to you with your own hard work!
Insecure and inferior as they are, and have always been toward me, this has shown me their true beings.
Jealousy is evil and I am just so disappointed in the way they chose to react on such times.
Their fake smiles and conversations came by surprise.
I find that hard to accept from people with whom I often had laughs and good meals together.
Since I am reaching out to my goals freely their feelings are hate and anger toward my success.
People who were once close to me and made me think they are the good ones, have pretended to be nice and are opening up their true feelings.
I honestly see their behaviors and spitefulness towards me with a clearer mind.
I am trying to see this as another experience and not to see everything in a negative way.
Greedy, selfish and the need to have for themselves and for others to have none is what I have discovered from many individuals.
Comparison and competition is what I am faced with, and chose to ignore what I know won't affect me.
I learned a lot and live in this small community in the way that makes me happy, and won't let that make me unhappy.
I enjoy and celebrate the good that happens in other people's lives, if only they could be as I am?
The jealous behaviors from these people have triggered my thoughts about how people can be around me. Especially those who I had spent time with and who had tried to impress me.
My life, my ideas, and my everything is good to me and for me.
The poor relationships recently developed with such people have opened my eyes to true, and interesting behaviors.
When something goes well for me a few will celebrate, and others don't want to hear of it.
I feel grateful to have the positive people close to me.
On the one side of a coin one will feel inferior to others and on the other side one will feel on top.
At the end of the day the winner takes it all.
I am the winner because I have love, happiness, laughter and true smiles all the way.
Wherever I go, and whoever is present there, it is I, who brings out the attention and spark in that crowd.
My personality is bright and cheerful for all to see.
My success has nothing to do with anyone, and I don't measure up to anyone.
Others feel they have a need to measure up to me.
It is normal to be jealous of someone else.
I don't take everything to heart.
People are often jealous and feel they need to be better than others.
Feeling jealous of others is not a good emotion.
Being jealous is part of human experience. It feels worse when you experience jealousy with those close to you.
People who are threaten by the success of others should look deep into their souls and get out of that experience.
Stay focused on the positive outlook on life.
In my case, these people are jealous of my success and choose to have something similar to my business because they know I am doing well.
This is gone to their heads and feel threatened by my achievements.
To begin with, you should feel happy for the other person's success, and not feel envy or angry for what that person has.
People need friends to find each other.
Anyone can be successful.
Life is special and people make their own lives.
Competing with others is just foolish and a waste of life to have to be part of such experiences.
Success is to be admired not despised.
Whatever you do with yourself or for yourself, it is your choice.
Other people shouldn't be part of what is not welcome in their lives.
First, they should try to be successful on their own to avoid being jealous on others.
That pot of gold is not for everyone.
Why are you getting jealous or feeling threatened by the success of others?
Focus on yourself and leave others alone.
Ignore that person feeling jealous and threatened by your success.
Instead of feeling that way do something to improve yourself.
People do well when they want to do well or when they choose to do well.
Others don't see it that way.
The problem in my case, these people are wealthy but want to compete to show me they too can achieve something from tourism.
A problem that affects many people but, I feel it disappointing to see this behavior.
They made me feel welcome and together and close. To have to experience their jealousy is rather strange.
I trusted they will always be nice but lately have changed towards me.
It shows on their faces and that has surprised me.
Now, I have become the bad person in the eyes of others.
In my heart, I know I am not bad and don't see them as bad.
The moments we shared and this experience don't go together.
What does jealousy of other people's success do to you?
Jealousy of other people's success causes hate, anger, you feel you are on a lower level, a lack of self-esteem, self-confidence, and the feeling of undeserved.
People who feel they haven't achieved enough for themselves are threatened by the success of others.
The negative thoughts fill the minds of jealous people.
Fear or failure affects such types of individuals.
You can begin with failure and everyone fails but you must never stop trying to succeed.
Don't let fear stop you from making a choice or from becoming successful.
In different cultures people see different ways of coping with negative thoughts and of jealousy.
Jealousy is in every culture and tribe.
Jealousy, hatred, anger, competition, less achieved, negative thoughts and selfishness are part of unhappy lifestyles. Fear, inferiority, lack of self-esteem, self-confidence, and poor communication, understanding of one another can ruin friendships.
No matter how good of a friendship you think you have with someone, there is often that jealous feeling that would come in between your friendship.
This happens when you don't have a true friendship and in most cases you eventually see the true side of this person.
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© 2016 Devika Primić