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Money Transition is a positive way to move forward

Updated on May 8, 2017

Thriving and not just surviving

Thriving

How life gets better is how we "word things. Don't say, "I'm broke", say a "money transition".

Believe me, I been there and when your trying to get by and keep saying your broke, your broke, your broke, how can we flip the positive and say positive when we are trying to make money or just make it?

It is our way of thinking that changes our perception of our own world in our own backyard.

Instead of broke say money transition. Instead of surviving, say thriving.

The words we speak can flip our negative to a positive aspects, instead of putting ourselves down.

There is one thing I have learned about while working on dreams and goals, the job we have that pays the rent does not matter as long as the rent is paid and we have a roof over our head.

Some of the best advice I ever was given was to go and live with myself and I did that for many years until I just recently moved in with a room mate.

Living alone had given me an opportunity to get to know myself and had to learn whom to cast out of my life that had no value.

What living by myself had helped me to do is to be truly myself and to find successful people.

When I say successful people, I mean well rounded individuals.

They are financially capable of having a better life yet are "grounded".

You could have all the money you want but sometimes people may not be grounded and that is not something or people that I need in my life.

I also don't want to keep people in my life that are just "takers" and only want something.

I think we hear people talk about people whom they have so many issues with but continue to have them in their lives and make excuses even though it makes them so sick.

I think if your not connected by having children with someone where you might have to work through for the children, I think the best thing is get rid of all those people that bring you misery.

If people don't support your dreams and goals, those people all have got to go too.

Those people have insecurities about themselves and they don't want you to do the things that your doing in life so they will put you down with things your doing because they can not do it.

It is not you, it's them, get rid of them.

If you got goals and dreams then you have to be around people whom are that passionate and thrive on people that have passion.

I learned that it is not just good enough in my life to just be surrounded by people whom just go to work and just come home and that is their life, that is it? I mean it is OK to have maybe some friends that are different but more than likely if you want to have a life than just having a 9 to 5 job then you probably have to surround more people like yourself that have passion in our life.

I feel in my own experience as I view the world from my own eyes that sometimes women have to be with a man because they can't be by themselves and can't survive by themselves. They would never be able to make it without a man.

The best advice I have ever gotten is to become stable enough to pay bills more so and then get a relationship but in thinking that if I'm paying rent then that is good because everything else is icing on the cake.

Also when people complain about having a job and complain about every aspects of having a job and women saying, I want to get a man so I don't have to work, well guess what?

When you get a job and that is any job and your paying your rent, you don't have to answer to anyone.

People think that having a job is stress but have you ever not have a job, then you will see what real stress is.

Having a job is a gift to yourself to maintain paying the rent.

Yes it is crazy to say we have to pay rent now a days and then we eat but if we work on towards a goal, it won't always have to be that way.

In life, the only way to find out what truly works is to experience things, that is how it is done.

I would never trade my life for anyone else because I do not have to be stuck.

I think I know exactly what I want in life and that sometimes can scare people.

I use to think it was me and thinking am I doing things wrong, am I crazy?

The answer is no.

It has never been me, it is other people.

I know I can not change the hands of time and go back and change things or make myself see that it has never been me but other people whom where unhappy with my way of life, it is other people point blank, straight up and it was never me/

So today I am surrounded by more successful people and they encourage me to keep going and that I shall do every day.

If people disagree with my way of life, guess what? This is what is working for me and sometimes I think people want to sabotage other peoples happiness because they are miserable and do not want to see other people happy. So I do not listen and keep living the way life is suppose to be and that is my way.

At the end of the day I can lay my head down on my bed and be so very happy.

Each morning I get up, I do not just survive anymore, I thrive with each day.


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