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Remember This When All Seems Lost

Updated on October 23, 2019

A few years from now, you will be in a completely different state. We all have some flaws. No one is born without flaws. Stop comparing your lives with others, stop belittling yourself and start counting your blessings. Start day by day, and then let this become a habit.

Focus on what you tell yourself

Even in the roughest times, instead of blaming God, say that I will learn from it. He shall only do what is best for me. Be positive. Keep going.

Each one of us goes through challenges – loss, failure or heartbreak. We all go through these, don’t we? The external circumstances are almost similar yet only few overcome these challenges and achieve their dreams. Why is this so?

This is because they have realized that it’s what happens inside us that matters. Your approach to life and what you tell yourself matters.

Let us change our perspectives. Tell yourself that this challenge is training. This training is meant to prepare you for your dreams.

Act, Fail, Learn and Act. Keep going until you achieve your dreams.

Understand and celebrate your uniqueness

Choose the “correct” goals for “yourself”.

“Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”- Unknown

Find yourself, find what interests you, find what your heart loves and then work very hard for it.

Be kind regardless of how others behave with you

Remember to be a nice person. Even if you weren’t nice in the past, it’s okay. Forgive yourself. Be a nice person from now.

“Best apology is changed behavior”- Unknown.

Happiness is not in your job or in your partner. It is not in the future. Your happiness lies within you, in this very moment.

We are all human beings. We are one. It is easier to get carried away with the evils of this world. It is easier to become mean just because someone was mean to you. But there are people who do things just to make a stranger smile. What do they need from a stranger?

They are kind to others without expecting anything in return. Focus your attention on this side of the world. Try to be one of them.

We all have this thing in us called love and compassion. You don’t have to be rich. It is the small efforts that matter. Smile at people, listen to them, feed animals. So that when someone looks at you, they can believe in humanity. It will give them hope. It will give them the strength to face their difficult days. It will encourage them to be kind.

Stop the negative self-talk

We can all make a difference. Don’t you ever belittle yourself! Don’t you ever tell yourself that you can’t achieve your dreams or you can only hurt people. We all make mistakes. Forgive yourself. Love yourself.

Change from within. Change takes time. But do you know what? Our dreams do come true. All you have to do is work hard for them. Trust our Creator. Trust yourself.

"Find yourself. Find your goals.

You have just one life. Enjoy this journey.

You can do it."

© 2019 ut kashy

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    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      5 weeks ago

      Thank you Asad.

    • Asad Dillz profile image

      Asad Dillz Khan 

      6 weeks ago from United Kingdom

      Very unique hub with unique words. Very motivated article! This article could help a lot of peoples. I Really appreciate it. Thanks for sharing this amazing masterpiece.

    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      6 weeks ago

      Thank you Ioannis.

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      Ioannis Arvanitis 

      6 weeks ago from Greece, Almyros

      Excellent work, my friend! I am glad to have you here! Welcome to the community. I believe that your words can help a lot of people! The world needs Spirit like yours. Blessings!

      Simplicity frees a lot of space for Love!

      Sean

    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      6 weeks ago

      I appreciate your words DREAM ON. Thank you.

    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      6 weeks ago

      Thank you Lorna.

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      DREAM ON 

      6 weeks ago

      Even though you have only written your first hub I see you already have quite a following. Other writers can see your generosity and love. Keep writing and showing other people the gifts that you have. I will have to go back and read your hub a few more times because I enjoyed it so much. Thank you for spending the time and writing about the good in people and in life.

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      Lorna Lamon 

      6 weeks ago

      An inspirational read and so true - we only have one life. Thank you for sharing and welcome to HubPages.

    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      6 weeks ago

      Thank you Cynthia.

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      Cynthia 

      6 weeks ago from Vancouver Island, Canada

      This is positive and encouraging! Welcome to Hubpages... hope to read more from you!

    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      6 weeks ago

      Thank you Mark.

    • Mark Tulin profile image

      Mark Tulin 

      6 weeks ago from Santa Barbara, California

      Good advice, Ut. A nice reminder to not spend useless time being unkind to others and ourselves.

    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      6 weeks ago

      Thank you Dora for your words and support.

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      Dora Weithers 

      6 weeks ago from The Caribbean

      Welcome to HubPages! Your first article is inspiring and I look forward to many more. HubPages is a great place for writers to learn and to grow. See you around.

    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      6 weeks ago

      Thank you Bill.

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      Bill Holland 

      6 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Wonderful messages throughout. Thank you!

    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      6 weeks ago

      Thank you Eric. We are all amazing. Appreciate yourself. Believe in yourself. You can do it!

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      Eric Dierker 

      6 weeks ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Well done. I sometimes find issues with negative self talk. I have a self deprecating sense of humor and to highlight issues so others know they are not alone.

      So I have to be careful there and caring to myself. You did real good here.

    • ut kashy profile imageAUTHOR

      ut kashy 

      6 weeks ago

      Thank you John.

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      John Hansen 

      6 weeks ago from Queensland Australia

      A very positive and encouraging message. Thanks for sharing.

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