Remember This When All Seems Lost
A few years from now, you will be in a completely different state. We all have some flaws. No one is born without flaws. Stop comparing your lives with others, stop belittling yourself and start counting your blessings. Start day by day, and then let this become a habit.
Focus on what you tell yourself
Even in the roughest times, instead of blaming God, say that I will learn from it. He shall only do what is best for me. Be positive. Keep going.
Each one of us goes through challenges – loss, failure or heartbreak. We all go through these, don’t we? The external circumstances are almost similar yet only few overcome these challenges and achieve their dreams. Why is this so?
This is because they have realized that it’s what happens inside us that matters. Your approach to life and what you tell yourself matters.
Let us change our perspectives. Tell yourself that this challenge is training. This training is meant to prepare you for your dreams.
Act, Fail, Learn and Act. Keep going until you achieve your dreams.
Understand and celebrate your uniqueness
Choose the “correct” goals for “yourself”.
“Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”- Unknown
Find yourself, find what interests you, find what your heart loves and then work very hard for it.
Be kind regardless of how others behave with you
Remember to be a nice person. Even if you weren’t nice in the past, it’s okay. Forgive yourself. Be a nice person from now.
“Best apology is changed behavior”- Unknown.
Happiness is not in your job or in your partner. It is not in the future. Your happiness lies within you, in this very moment.
We are all human beings. We are one. It is easier to get carried away with the evils of this world. It is easier to become mean just because someone was mean to you. But there are people who do things just to make a stranger smile. What do they need from a stranger?
They are kind to others without expecting anything in return. Focus your attention on this side of the world. Try to be one of them.
We all have this thing in us called love and compassion. You don’t have to be rich. It is the small efforts that matter. Smile at people, listen to them, feed animals. So that when someone looks at you, they can believe in humanity. It will give them hope. It will give them the strength to face their difficult days. It will encourage them to be kind.
Stop the negative self-talk
We can all make a difference. Don’t you ever belittle yourself! Don’t you ever tell yourself that you can’t achieve your dreams or you can only hurt people. We all make mistakes. Forgive yourself. Love yourself.
Change from within. Change takes time. But do you know what? Our dreams do come true. All you have to do is work hard for them. Trust our Creator. Trust yourself.
"Find yourself. Find your goals.
You have just one life. Enjoy this journey.
You can do it."
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