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Simple ways to still love yourself

Updated on April 15, 2018
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Devika enjoys sharing her work with a friendly community. Writing is a big part of her life. Online work has improved her lifestyle.

Be true to yourself

Do you love yourself?

Have you stopped loving yourself?

Life is a struggle if you make it that way.

You accept yourself, or you don't accept yourself through the struggle, and that is how you go forward with acceptance of your experiences. Try to not forget the lovely person your are.

When you struggle you lose yourself, and forget to pay attention to your life.

Through the struggle, you need to embrace and love yourself.

You accept yourself through all imperfections and this you got to do for yourself.

Be proud of your achievements, don't run yourself down and get into that negative state.

You must be your own best friend, and not your worst enemy.

The problem with people they tend to enjoy receiving love from others and in the process forget to love them.

People shouldn't build a wall to avoid good people in to their lives.

You have the power to break down those walls and get out of that blocked mind.

Clear your thoughts and love yourself.

Most important to you is to know yourself better than others.

Only you know how smart you are and great you are.

When you accept others you accept yourself too.

Acceptance is a great part of our lives.

You see potential in other people and in the same way you need to see potential in yourself.

Your patience you have with other people shows the patience you must have with yourself.

You must first love yourself before putting yourself out there with other people.

Become your true self that is the beautiful part of you.

Life is what it is and you can't change the way you see life.

So, you don't think of what life should have been, or could have been.

That won't make your life any better than it already is.

Don't look for approval from other people. You don't know those people and know yourself better than those people.

Do what you want to do and not what others are doing that would work out better for you.

The presence makes you who you are not what you are lingering to make you feel better.

People who drag you down are not the types you should be close to daily.

You don't have to ignore those people instead keep your distance from them.

When you allow yourself to be with those who disrespect you are at a loss with yourself.

Friends don't bring you down they put you on a pedestal, and motivate you, also respect you.

To move on from a struggle forgive the past life.

A confident lifestyle allows for a positive mind and that opens up your mind to good ideas. You need to feel good to love yourself.

What is the key to you believing in yourself?

You need to know what you want from life, your abilities are right there in front of you.

Anything is possible if you put your mind to it.

When you have supportive people around you it makes your life much easier to cope on any day.

You can take life less seriously or seriously.

When your plans fail don't get disappointed just take it lightly.

Understand yourself and know what your goals are to love yourself.

The people you meet won't stay in your life forever. Everyone will come and go it is you who has to make yourself the star among them.

Do what makes you love yourself.

Be active and eat healthy meals.

Speak with confidence.

Be positive and energetic.

Make any day a good a day.

The people you spend time with have a lot to do with the way you cheer yourself.

Focus on yourself at all times.

Don't neglect yourself to please other people.

Happiness is the only way out.

I enjoy listening to others speak instead of budding in their conversations. I learn from their conversations.

Have an open mind it is a wonderful way to see life from your perspective.

When you learn how to appreciate what you have around you the message becomes clear.

What you live by is what you believe in so don't forget that.

When get yourself stuck in a rut you constantly avoid good company and hobbies. You allow doubt to enter your clouded mind.

Such behavior allows you to stop loving yourself.

You become a failure in your own self and damage yourself mentally.

The choices you make affect your future lifestyles.

What you create you live in be it a negative lifestyle, or a positive lifestyle.

You don't need to always be serious about any event.

Everything happens for a reason if it is meant to be you will have it on your plate.

Have fun and lighten up.

Never say there is no time for you!

You will experience the negative moments. Focus on the positive moments more to be happy and to love yourself.

I know of people who are isolated and need to crawl to people to look for acceptance.

You need to know your self-worth and to not fall on your knees to others to want their love, or acceptance.

Sometimes people can make you hate yourself.

If you doubt yourself others doubt you too.

Can you love yourself with these simple ways?

Do you know how to love yourself?

It feels a challenge to love yourself because you were not taught how to love yourself.

What is self-love?

Do you believe you are you lovable?

It is normal to feel bad about yourself.

Get straight to the point and find yourself.

Avoid the bad thoughts from getting into your mind.

Every experience passes by so don't hold on to that experience.

Seek the responsibilities and make a solid foundation.

Be smart in what you do.

The way you take on your responsibilities plays a huge part in your lifestyle.

I don't compare myself to others if I did that I won't love myself.

Life for me is what is and I chose to be this way. I focus on what makes me feel the best.

I take care of myself and don't allow others to control my life.

Say what you have on your mind if you keep silent, you will ruin yourself.

Love yourself and be yourself!

There is nothing wrong with praising yourself you deserve it.

You judge yourself harshly daily and criticize yourself.

Life gets you in a tangle and you say the meanest about yourself.

You blame yourself for whatever goes wrong.

Learn how to love yourself before putting yourself down so harshly.

Happiness shows you how to love yourself because when you happy you feel love in yourself.

It is important to learn how to love you.

Your well-being, happiness, and everything you do for yourself shows love for yourself.

When you lose touch with yourself you lose the touch of loving yourself.

You become insecure with yourself and allow the experience to cripple you.

It is you who allows the unhappiness to enter your life.

Everything you do affects you at some point in your life.

Love comes from your inner self.

You can’t escape the love you have from yourself.

Only you can make yourself a better person and love yourself through all battles.

The small experiences as in seeing an injured dog that makes you feel love and sadness for that, can allow you to love yourself.

Learn to love yourself

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    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      FlourishAnyway Thank you for stopping. Always appreciated.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      2 years ago from USA

      Returning to this for another look.

    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Janellegems thank you for commenting. Loving oneself is important before searching for love from another.

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      Janellegems 

      2 years ago from United States

      Loving yourself is absolutely necessary. Some people look for love in others, when in fact they need to love themselves. These are wonderful insights and truths. Thanks for sharing how to love ourselves and how important it is too.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      rajan jolly thank you fro commenting so kind of you to stop by.

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      Rajan Singh Jolly 

      2 years ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

      Loving oneself is very important if one is to have a positive self worth. Each one of us has something uniquely good in him/her and this should be enough to help us like ourselves.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      denise.w.anderson, Great you figured it out! Thank you for sharing that. Loving oneself is not easy if you have a negative attitude.

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      Denise W Anderson 

      2 years ago from Bismarck, North Dakota

      It is easy to adopt a self-critical mentality when we are raised with the concept that self-love is pride, therefore, it is bad. Unfortunately, it leads to trying to please others in order to gain acceptance and love. The current revolution of self-actualization has allowed us to look at things differently. Now, we are taught that in order to feel good about ourselves, it is necessary to love and accept ourselves. I am grateful for this paradigm shift, and have finally found peace through self-acceptance. It has allowed me to love others more as well.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      ChitrangadaSharan I am glad you fee l that way. Loving ourselves is important as in loving someone else. Thank you

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      pstraubie48 Thank you for stopping by always appreciated!

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      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 years ago from New Delhi, India

      How beautiful!

      Your hub has left me in a self analysis mode and perhaps I need to do little more to 'love myself' or take care of myself consciously.

      Thank you for sharing this important and interesting hub!

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      Patricia Scott 

      2 years ago from sunny Florida

      DDE This is so true. We cannot be lovable by someone else truly if we do not find all of the positives that make us love ourselves. Well said.

      Angels are on the way to you ps

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Ericdierker thank kindly for stopping by.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      billybuc thank you very much.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Harishprasad thank kindly for sharing your comment always appreciated.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Nell Rose, I understand what you mean by that thank you very much for stopping by so glad you came by.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      emge thank you for sharing your comment.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      always exploring thank you kindly for commenting.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      FlourishAnyway thank you very much for commenting.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi MsDora thank you for commenting your comments encourage me.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      fpherj48, thank you for that and it is a fact. I appreciate you mentioning it.''It is not only important to love ourselves, but it is necessary for self-respect & confidence.''

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      FlourishAnyway 

      2 years ago from USA

      If you don't love yourself it's hard to see why others would follow suit.

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      Dora Weithers 

      2 years ago from The Caribbean

      There is always something to take away from your compilation of ideas: "When you accept others you accept yourself too. Acceptance is a great part of our lives." I like this.

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      Paula 

      2 years ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

      Devika.....It is not only important to love ourselves, but it is necessary for self-respect & confidence. We should just not kiss ourselves in the mirror because it leaves a terrible smudge imprint!! LOL

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      2 years ago from Southern Illinois

      Great reminder to take stock and count your blessings, love others and that includes self. Thanks..

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      Madan 

      2 years ago from Abu Dhabi

      Devika, what a lovely post. Yes, one must love himself for then only you can love another. Great post.

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      Nell Rose 

      2 years ago from England

      Hiya, sometimes I do, love myself I mean, other times, well you can imagine! lol! interesting hub, nell

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      Harish Mamgain 

      2 years ago from New Delhi , India

      Only a guy who is at peace with himself/herself can rejoice others. Similar can be said of love, as you have pointed out so brilliantly. Great life lessons to be pondered often. Thank you, Devika.

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      Bill Holland 

      2 years ago from Olympia, WA

      I will make this short and sweet: if you don't love yourself, life is going to be very difficult.

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      Eric Dierker 

      2 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Very interesting. Certainly all love requires some self love. Thanks for some reminders.

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