Relaxation For Health_Yoga Nidra
If I were to tell you relaxation was work, you'd be laughing, right!
Ideals of relaxation include
- laying on a sun lounge by the pool or under a palm tree
- headset with your favorite music cd.
- no-one to bother you, no nagging or annoying, no noise.
- nice walk on the beach, in the hills, through a forest.
- sitting by the fire, hot chocolate, nice restful space and dreamy thoughts.
- reading a book and diving into a dream world that takes you out of your own.
All great contenders for the ideal superior quest for a state of relaxation. Is it enough? For some it is, for most it is not. Have you achieved anything other than an hour or two of relief? You're back in your normal world and subject to the same grind that makes you yearn for relaxation again.
When relaxing most people stay in the mind, they use it to go off to some far away Utopia that gives a blissful pleasure. A wonderful and relaxing experience. Some will come back and wish they didn't have to return. Others feel revived, refreshed and ready for another onslaught in the world of action and experience.
The use of consciousness in relaxation.
You will have heard the term Awareness. It's used a lot in Spiritual teachings with good reason. Most of our lives are spent using the senses. The senses are the means by which we cognize and respond to our external environment - for good and bad. Most of our time is spent externalized and focused on what to respond to. Rarely are we focused on ourselves, our body or our feelings. Even when we are lying on our sunbed by the pool, we are focused outside. Although you may see yourself in an oasis with a pineapple drink and your ideal lover beside you, you are still pulled out beyond yourself and not actually feeling you as you are now, in this minute. You like the feeling of what it would be like to drink cocktails with your lover in some romantic setting.
How about trying the real thing. What about staying glued to yourself for awhile and checking out the state of your own actual universe. To do this requires the use of consciousness. Putting consciousness into yourself. Awareness of you. There is a technique available to do this. Called Yoga Nidra, it's practice is usually reserved for just before you go to sleep, but can be used at any time during the day, even on that sun lounge. This technique requires putting consciousness into your own body parts. Only by doing this can you actually release tension inside yourself.
We hold many layers of stress in our bodies. Be observant next time you go for coffee. Watch people walk around. Can you find the relaxed ones? The rigid walker will do the same while vertical as horizontal. Lay him on a sun lounge and he will have no idea how to relax. Cardboard man is a good name for he who is stiff, stressed and in need of a good 200 hour massage! Massages are good, they will help the process of relaxation markedly.
So how to do yoga nidra. A tape would help here, something to guide you through the process of consciousness and remaining awake while you do this. Lie down on your back. Take off your watch and belt if you have them on. Become aware of your body. All of it. Be aware of any twinges, pulls, aches and pains. Adjust yourself to get as comfortable as you can. Try not to judge those aches and pains. It is those pains that need the most attention. So the process is to methodically put awareness on body parts. The top of the head, the left ear, right ear, left eye, right eye, nose, mouth, tongue, chin, neck, left shoulder, left elbow, left wrist, hand, fingers. Then right shoulder, right elbow, wrist, hand, fingers. Back to the neck, to the chest, stomach, belly, left hip, left thigh, left knee, shin, left ankle, foot and toes. To the right hip, thigh, knee, shin, ankle, foot and toes. To the bottom of the spine, go up the spine slowly, to the back of the neck, back of the head and then top of the head.
Repeat the process. When becoming aware of each part, silently acknowledge each part and consciously feel each part. In the beginning, it pays to clench slightly and release so that you 'get into' the part. As you release you will feel the tension release, thereby becoming more relaxed. Hence superior relaxation. The work is the consciousness you put into the practice.
You will also have heard there are layers to the onion, meaning just when you think you have relaxed enough, there is more. Each twinge, pull or ache needs attention. As you put awareness into yourself, it is common that pain can increase. The release of it comes in the awareness of it. Think of the pain as a clamped bit of tension inside your body. The more consciousness you have of the ache, the easier it is to release. The mind is good at ignoring pain or taking an aspirin at this point. Persevere as much as you can at breathing into it and releasing.
Of course, if the pain is too much, move a bit. Use cushions under your knees if you need to. There is no point being heroic in this practice otherwise you will not enjoy it and it will be more of a chore to make yourself do it. In fact, you will probably stop doing it altogether. But it is perhaps the exact thing you are needing to do. The feeling you want to aspire for in this practice is the floating effect. Then the state of not being able to feel your body means you have reached excellence. No aches and pains, no twinges or pulls.
If you do this practice during the day, at the end of the practice sit up straight and make sure you become alert before moving to do anything. You may feel a little sleepy after doing yoga nidra, that is normal. It doesn't pay to walk around in that state or get into your car and drive while you are not back fully into an alert attentive mind.
Doing this practice of Yoga Nidra, or Superior Relaxation which is what I like to call it, has several benefits. You become more aware of your own self, your own body, you actually start to feel more inside yourself. Secondly, it gives a superior rest to you during the day. By giving yourself 30 to 45 minutes of deep relaxation, your body has the opportunity to keep up with the grind. Just like fine-tuning your car, it's a way to help your body rejuvenate during the day. This is a good practice for anyone, including the fit and healthy. Doing this practice before sleep will put you into a good state for a very restful night. In some cases, it has been known to help insomnia.
Yoga Nidra by Julie Braden International @ www.astraljules.com
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Awesome hub. relaxation is a fun or art, how we can maximum relaxation. i think there are different traits, it is fabulous hub!
I had a professor years ago that tried to impart his wisdom about meditation to our Abnormal Psychology class. From what I can remember, it sound somewhat like syou tips and advise. I wish I had listened better then. Excellent hub, Voted up, useful and bookmarked. Thanks for sharing your knowledge.
.....I just fell asleep on one of your hub pillows .... the best sleep I've had in years - and I dreamt that you took me to your leader = hey wait you are the leader - the leader in putting great hubs together.
...I've been here before, and it still rawks. Greatness is timeless. ;)
Now I get to add my meta-likes. ;D
Jewels you are good and beautiful writer and thanks for your answer. Best Regards,
It's so important - they should teach awareness and relaxation in elementary school to prep these kids for their busy lives!I find that breathing techniques take me a long way ... and a decent massage, of course. I've also practiced autogenics off and on for years, but I do need audio cues to work through the steps. Have you thought about recording your yoga steps for the not-so-visual Type As out there? ;-)
I have used my own techniques for this which do me well. I get inot my own closet away from evrything and evreybody. This is how I come to many of my finest peoms and also how I came up with many of my creative pieces such as the Flying Walrus that carried me beyond the stars. Now you all know where it comes from, within me. It's all there waiting to be born. hehe fine hub dear jewels. Your are a treasure here and more people need to know it.
You possess great powers of perception,I'm glad I found this hub.I'm off to read some more of your insights.Thanks for posting this!
Id like to make a deal.... I will certainly embrace this and attempt this form of self therapy.... I shall give it 100% BUT, as a representaitive of cardboard man, I'd like to also, for scientific, comparitive research reasons, like to book in for 200 hours of massage....say tuesday at 1015? xx
Wow, great hub Jewels, very informative! ~ Scott
Well done, great way to look at things. =)
I work at a liquor store...I love to play Swing, tell jokes, quip off the cuff...and just generally smile and laugh. Its most awesome. I love my job and my customers, never work a day in my life.
G|M
Thanks for the hub. We enjoyed it. Very interesting!
I am glad I came over to have a look.
You are doing fine work Jewels.
I might just add that a friend said to me
"Hey, just quietly, no one believes me,
you know what happened the other day?
I came out of my body, and,I could see it lying there!"
I just remembered that I told him a relaxation technique such as
yours the other day,but he forgot that I said not to go to sleep in it,
but that he should immediately stretch if getting totally relaxed.
It is possible to have your breathing and your heart stop from this
exercise.I do not recommend doing it at bedtime.It truly, as you
say is "Work time,business time."Oh yes, and this was a young
millionaire too. Got enough, should not really need to drive himself.
I know it is going to work, so as you are enjoying your wonderful day we have to close our eyes, isn't the world amazing????:)
I should have been reading these moons ago, I have to go to bed in a little bit so I am defintely going to try this, thanks for the tip???:)
Great Hub!!! My husband use to get on me all the time because I go! go! GO! lol When I would come home I would do things like my hair, facials, nails, you know girly things, lol. To him that was work and he felt I wasn't relaxing enough but to me that was my relaxation. I am a Counselor/Pastor always helping other so to help myself was my time to relax and enjoy my time with me. Now he understands and smiles at me when he sees me doing those different things for myself that makes me happy! It takes all different kinds of relaxing therapies for different kind of people. Praise God! lol, lol.....
Pranayam produces deep relaxation state as in alpha breathing. Also we used to do shavasan(corpse pose) in school. In shavasan the body movements are minimized, blood circulation is also minimized, heart rate drops, respiration drops, mind becomes calm and relaxed.
Great hub jewels.
Excellent Hub, I like it so much that the next time I have a client who wants to drag me into their stress of their financial ruin...I'm going to direct them to read your hub! lol
I couldn't have said it better myself!
If it's difficult to relax, try taking Red Clover (Day time), and Valerian Root (Night time) which will help jump start the relaxation in your body. These two herbs are my favorites. They're both calming herbs. They really, really work well too.
Thanks for writing this. There's definitely a shortage on relaxation!
:)
This is very cool. Focusing on each muscle takes a lot of concentration, and a lot of times I fall asleep before I get them all, but, I think you are describing something very useful for people. Especially the part about how you go back and relax them all again. It's amazing how many times you can pass back over a "relaxed muscle" that you already set free only to discover there was still a little more tension in it. Very nice hub. Thanks for writing it. I'd gotten remiss in doing this.
Dear Jewels,
This is a very useful hub. Thank you for taking the time to write it, my friend.
Great writing. I appreciate. Well Done !!
Jewels, good to see you back! Interesting stuff here, I will have to try this. :)
Wow - I really need to try this. I can't remember the last time I was truly relaxed! Even at night, I usually work until I'm so dead I can't keep my eyes open. There is no winding down or relaxing - ugh. That can't be healthy! I will definitely be back to read more of your hubs!!
Jewels,
This is great and we could all probably use plenty of this excellent down time. It is work. I practiced a very similar method a few years back, need to be doing it now but have trouble making the time for it. Push, push! Maybe this will motivate me in the quiet direction of listening to myself breath, I know this works. Thanks for sharing. Thumbs up! C.S.
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