THE DYNAMICS OF A HEALING SESSION
Cutting Energetic Cords
If you feel like you’re diagonally parked in a parallel universe, then you might need an intuitive reading / energetic healing!
I see clients for a myriad of reasons. Here are but a few:
At a crossroads in life
Business advice/employee profiling
When you first sit down with me for a private session in my living room, I do what I call a “scan”. Closing my eyes, I tap into your energy and allow it to inform me as to why you’re really come to see me. That’s right…you may truly believe the nature of your dilemma is a relationship with your husband/wife/child/boss, but more than likely, that’s only how the core problem has surfaced in your day-to-day life.
Once I come into contact with your core energy (I call it “Soul”), I will share what I get. Information comes to me in several ways: through sight, sound, smell and essence (sensing). My mama always said I had the “knowing”. She had it, too.
No matter what form your information takes, and regardless of what is conveyed, I can be sure of this: the information I receive is the REAL reason you have come to see me. This is what I call our “jumping off point”. This information guides me directly to what needs to be “cleared”.
While we are together, I ask for your parents’ names. With that information alone, I can go back to your earliest childhood and be shown (via “video”) not only what their connection and interaction was like, but more importantly, how it impacted you and who you became as a result. That’s right, who you were born to be, and who you became as a result of early childhood imprinting is likely two different personas!
The imprinting can show up in three ways: Negative, neutral and positive. I am looking for the negative “energetic cords” created through imprinting. These cords appear to me as having a hook on either end – one hook in you and the other in the source, which can be your mom, dad, a grandparent, caregiver or even an event, location or an illness.
I will use the parental cord as an example. The same process applies regardless of the challenge (listed above).
An energetic cord with a parent can be generated quite innocently. For example, a loving father who is away from home working much of the time can create a yearning and insecurity in the child. This father loves his children and wants only to create a happy, secure environment by providing a nice home, and all of the other accoutrements in life. The child will grow up declaring, “I know my dad loves me”, but perhaps not ever really “feeling” that love. Head vs. heart.
A father, on the other hand, who is present but who is verbally abusive may very likely create a similar energetic cord. The child has to tell themselves that they are loved, but certainly does not feel that love. Or, and this is very common, this becomes the accepted (if at a subconscious level) version of love by which all subsequent relationships are patterned. Yikes!
Once the energetic cord is discovered and identified, I proceed to cut it. Once again, closing my eyes I begin to see the unhealthy, counter-productive behavior patterns developed due to the cord(s). SNIP! The cord is energetically cut and you become free to make new choices based on who you were born to be.
We are a species of curiosity, of needing to know the whys of life. Having so many available resources can be fabulous or it can further confuse us. Getting to the “bottom brick” of the problem, as one client so eloquently put it, is my goal and how I roll! Oops, a poet and didn’t know it…!
You will find yourself integrating the energy work you experienced with me for several days following such a session. This is natural and necessary. If you think of your life as a jigsaw puzzle, you might notice that many of the pieces were out of place since early childhood. Having healing energy work done in the form of cord cutting helps place those pieces back in their original and rightful order.
You will feel lighter, freer and more in control of your emotions. You will become an observer rather than a reactor. When someone with whom you’ve had an energetic cord attempts to interact with you, you will feel a difference in the way you respond. Not getting sucked into the old dynamic, you will feel more composed and freer to either walk away or declare new boundaries.
I always cut the biggest cord shown to me in our first session, which facilitates the ability to tag into a higher level of awareness. My sense is that evolution is a life-long process (many lifetimes, actually). Accessing a higher level of consciousness, you will begin to discover other cords you’d like to cut. Deeper questions may come to the surface and you may desire further discovery and greater healing. This will always be your choice.