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Tips in Increasing Child Safety Awareness

Updated on May 29, 2014

This article covers 3 areas of safety issues for children:

  • In traffic
  • In the home
  • Personal Safety – keeping safe with other people

Having fun - with the brake on and supervision close at hand.


Keeping Your Child Safe In Traffic

Although the number of children pedestrians who are killed in accidents is falling in the United States, it is still the second highest cause of injury-related death in children. More boys than girls die in this way, and with the highest number of fatalities at the ages of 2, 13 and 14.

It’s not hard to see why 2 year-olds are at risk as the following story illustrates.

Several years ago, when my older daughter was 3 and her sister was around 19 months, we arrived home after an outing, parked the car in the driveway and started to unload. I don’t remember if it was my husband or I who took our toddler from her car seat, but I do remember clearly what happened next. Our toddler headed straight for the road.

Within seconds our 3-year-old was beside her, saying in as firm a voice as a 3-year-old can muster, “No! Come back! Stay on the pavement!” She grabbed her sister and pulled her back. (For American readers: pavement means sidewalk.)

Just then, a car came round the corner. As my husband and I looked on in amazement, our 3-year-old loudly told her sister, “See! That’s why you have to stay on the pavement.”

The Singing Kettle explains why drivers should take more care

Getting The Message Across

Why did our 3-year-old act as she did? Partly it was her nature to care for her little sister, but there was another reason. As soon as she could walk we went for short strolls in our neighborhood, and if I heard or saw a car I would say to her, “There’s a car coming, so we stay on the pavement.” She repeated, “Car coming, stay pavement.” Soon this became a family mantra.

We also repeatedly said, “Pavements are for people. Roads are for cars.” This idea came from a CD by the Scottish band The Singing Kettle, who sang the song: Pavements are for people.

She got the message.

When our younger daughter learned to walk it wasn’t as easy to give her the full attention her sister had, and so it took longer for the message to get through.

With my first daughter I had instinctively used repetition and a few very simple rules to teach age-appropriate road safety. According to an article published in the British Medical Journal, that is exactly what children of this age need. Anything more complex would not be remembered.

The best ways to ensure your child is safe

Schieber and Thomson’s recommendations.

  • Don’t think that if your child can recite safety rules for crossing roads that they will do so safely. In the UK some 5 – 6 year olds recited the “Green Cross Code” as they crossed a road, thinking this would keep them safe. Other children of this age believed that cars would stop for them. Some studies also found that children tend not to be able to transfer information given in the classroom onto the road.
  • Do supervise your child crossing roads until around the age of 7 – 8 for residential streets with a low volume of traffic, and until 11 – 12 for busy roads. Crossing major arteries should be supervised until adolescence.

My additional suggestions:

  • Regularly repeat rules to small children when out walking.
  • Make the rules into a game or a song.
  • Remind young drivers, and drivers in general, to look out for children and to drive slowly if they see any unaccompanied kids. (My driving instructor made this part of my early lessons.)

Teenagers don’t always think through their actions

Teach Teens to Take Care

Finally in this traffic safety section, I would like to return to those 13 and 14 year-olds who are statistically high-risk. Since by the teenage years most children are well practiced at walking alone, why is the death rate so high? I could not find any definite explanation, but even at this age children are not fully able to understand the consequences of their actions and some play a game of “chicken” with cars or, as in the video opposite, trains. Boys are more likely to play this than girls, goading each other on. This is very dangerous “game” and could account for the high fatalities in the age group. It tends to become craze for a while, then eases off only to return. It was around when I was teaching this age group in the 1990s and shows no signs of disappearing completely, so parents should be aware that it is a genuine risk.

If you suspect your teenager of indulging in this dangerous practice, try not to come down on him heavy-handed as this make him feel rebellious. Instead speak to him calmly and explain to him the very real dangers involved.

A video on stair safety

Safety in the home

Most advice on home safety focuses on preventing children from accessing potential dangers, and when they are small that is the best option. Go round your house on all fours to see your home from your toddler or baby’s perspective. You will to see clearly where danger lurks.


Falls are the most common accident in the home. In the UK the annual figure for hospital visits due to fall in under 15s is 390,000.

Stairs, glass cabinets, doors and windows are all potential hazards. Fit stair-gates, and window locks. Use safety glass in doors and windows. (If this isn’t possible the UK government website recommends to cover panes with safety film or cardboard. When we lived in an apartment with old windows I placed a heavy chest of drawers in front of a low window; it acted as an effective barrier.)

Poison and Toxins

Lock medicines and household cleaners away or store them well out of reach. Remember child-resistant caps are not child-proof and some small can work out how to use them.

Toxins are present in many household items. Some plastic and MDF items emit fumes (known as off-gassing), so think carefully when choosing furniture, especially for your child’s bedroom. Some researchers believe toxic gases in mattresses could be responsible for some crib deaths. While this is not proven, an alternative is to use a mattress made of natural fibers such as wool or coconut finer (coir).

Cigarette fumes are linked to crib death, so if you are a smoker, consider giving up or at least avoid smoking in the home.

Carbon monoxide from a leaky gas boiler can kill. Have your boiler serviced regularly, and fit a carbon monoxide alarm.


If the design of your house allows it, place a stair gate over the kitchen door so children cannot get in without an adult present. Use the back burners on your stovetop or cooker.

Keep hot drinks and soup away from babies and small children. They scald easily because their skin is thin. A baby as young as 3 months can grab a bowl of soup and tip it over: one of ours did this when her father was holding her. Luckily he knew to plunge the affected part in cold water and the damage was minimal.

If your child is scalded or burned:

Cover the area with cold water and leave as long as the child will stand it, up to 15 minutes. If the burn is serious or if clothing sticks to a burn don’t try to treat it yourself, but take your child to the Emergency Room.

Further reading and references

British Medical Journal on: Developmental Risk Factors for Childhood Pedestrian Injuries

Safe Kids USA on: Latest Trends in Child Pedestrian Safety

UK government guidelines to: Your Child’s Safety in the Home

US dept of Health and Human Services: Indicators of Child Sexual Abuse’s leaflet Safer Strangers, safer buildings code teaches children how to choose a safe stranger so ask for help if they are lost.

This article Science Daily contains more suggestions from Kay Knaff: In Child Sexual Abuse, Strangers Aren't the Greatest Danger, Experts Say

Pandora’s Project offers: Some Tips on How to Protect Your Child from Sexual Abuse

Personal Safety – keeping safe with other people

From an early age children are warned about strangers, but sadly far more children are abused by people they already know than are abused or abducted by strangers.

Yet schools still teach about stranger danger, sometimes in an alarmist ways. Literature given to Scottish primary children a few years ago suggested that if they were out alone and an adult approached them they should shout loudly, “Go away!” As parents pointed out, this could mean a child did not get help if needed.

The leaflet by Child’s Eye Media offers a much less dramatic and much more useful alternative. It teaches children to look for a “safer stranger.” This is someone they can go to for help, and children are encouraged to look for someone in uniform, for instance a police officer or traffic warden or shop assistant. If children cannot see anyone outside to ask, the leaflet suggests safe buildings to enter: post offices, libraries and banks are a few options.

You and your child can learn more about this approach by watching the video below.

This approach is much more sensible than the “Stranger Danger” message for many reasons:

  • As already mentioned, strangers are not the most likely people to sexually abuse a child.
  • Warning children against all strangers and then expecting them to be friendly to people they meet with you gives a confusing message.
  • A child given the “Stranger Danger” message may see the world as a dangerous place and become fearful.

Child’s Eye Media’s video: "Teigan Gets Lost"

Talking to Children About Safe Touch

Parents face the same challenge when talking to children about personal safety in general. You do not want to frighten your children into thinking every adult they know might abuse them but, particularly when children are in day care or go for sleepovers with friends, they need to know they have rights over their own bodies.

Kay Knaff, a manager in Youth Villages, an organization that works with children who have experience abuse and neglect, recommends that parents talk openly with their children about these issues. She also recommend we start talking when they are young. The information you give your children needs to be age appropriate. A good way to address this is to talk about how touch can feel nice or uncomfortable. For instance some people enjoy being tickled, but after a while want it to stop, and those wishes should be respected. If we teach children that they can say no to touch they are more likely to know when touch isn’t appropriate.



In the USA and Canada: and The National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)

In the UK:

In Australia: KidsHelpline

In India: Childlineindia

Worldwide: Child Helpline International

Teaching children they can say no involves more than having a chat with them. We need to live it too. Although children generally love hugs, they should have a choice over who hugs them and when. If we had visitors when my children were small, instead of saying, “Give Aunt Beatrice* a hug,” I gave them the choice to hug or not. If we had several visitors at once, I asked, “Is there anyone you’d like to give a good night kiss?” This teaches children that they have a right to choose who touches their bodies and how they are touched.

As children grow into teenagers they often don’t want their parents hugs in public and may be less cuddly in general and however much we may miss those child-cuddles, we need to respect our teenager’s wishes if we want them to feel confident in their bodies.

Kay Knaff also points out that children who are sexually abused rarely tell. The U. S. Department of Health and Human Services lists indicators that suggest a child may have been abused. In children under ten these include excessively touching their private parts, precocious sexual knowledge, making sexually explicit drawings, anxiety around certain people or conversely making sexual advances towards older people or other children.

In children over ten sexual promiscuity, prostitution and sexual victimization by peers are all indicators that point towards abuse. (90% of adolescent prostitutes have been sexually abused.)

If you suspect your child has been sexually abused it is important to take this seriously.

  • Never blame your child. Even if a child makes sexual advances it is not his or her fault. It is because the child’s understanding of love has become distorted by abuse.
  • Kay Knaff’s advice is that if you suspect your child has been abused get professional help right away.

No parent wants to be in this situation but if you suspect you are see the grey box for a list of organisations that can help you in various countries.

For more ideas on how to talk to your child about bodies see the resources section in the blue box.

* fictitious name

A video showing how the Childhelp Hotline helps children


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    • Melovy profile imageAUTHOR

      Yvonne Spence 

      6 years ago from UK

      jaininmus, thanks very much for your comment.

    • jainismus profile image

      Mahaveer Sanglikar 

      6 years ago from Pune, India

      Well written and useful Hub, thank you for sharing.

    • Melovy profile imageAUTHOR

      Yvonne Spence 

      6 years ago from UK

      Hi Phil,

      I agree with you that safe touch gets overlooked, and since so many people feel uncomfortable about it that I thought could be useful for parents to have some guidelines on how to discuss it with children. I’m pleased that you agree! Thanks for your comment.

    • Phil Plasma profile image

      Phil Plasma 

      6 years ago from Montreal, Quebec

      I think safe touch is the one that often gets overlooked, it is great that you mention it here. Voted up, useful and interesting.

    • Melovy profile imageAUTHOR

      Yvonne Spence 

      6 years ago from UK

      Hi adjkp25,

      It amazed me a while ago to learn how old teenagers are before their brains are developed enough to fully comprehend the consequences of their actions, which explains why they do as you say do the silliest things.

      Thanks very much for your comment.

    • Melovy profile imageAUTHOR

      Yvonne Spence 

      6 years ago from UK

      Brian, she’s still taking charge today. :-) But that’s elder sisters for you. I’m not sure her sister always appreciates it quite so much! (Actually they get on pretty well most of the time.) And I agree it was great to see her do that, and so funny in a way too.

      Thanks very much for your comment.

    • Melovy profile imageAUTHOR

      Yvonne Spence 

      6 years ago from UK

      HI alliemacb,

      I agree that the subject of safe touch can be a difficult one - it’s probably why schools generally avoid it and go on about stranger danger instead. My 2nd daughter was born very premature so I needed a lot of child-care for my older daughter, and as a result I thought about this when she was very small. To keep her safe I wanted to be sure she knew she had rights and so I told her about safe touch in a very similar way to that I found experts recommend. I guess if we trust our instincts parents get it right!

      Thanks very much for your comment.

    • Melovy profile imageAUTHOR

      Yvonne Spence 

      6 years ago from UK

      anusujith, thank you very much!

    • Melovy profile imageAUTHOR

      Yvonne Spence 

      6 years ago from UK

      Hi Marcy,

      I learned a lot while researching this hub, and what you pinpoint about the children repeating slogans was one of things I hadn’t thought about before. Since young children not only believe in magic, but are encouraged by adults to do so, it’s not surprising that they would do this.

      I so glad you enjoyed reading about my daughter as a three-year-old. I was so amazed and pleased that I never forgot it, but I'm never sure if my kid’s stories are quite so interesting to other people!

      Thanks for your lovely comment and for sharing.

    • adjkp25 profile image


      6 years ago from Northern California

      As a father of two teenagers that section made me laugh. They can do some of the silliest things sometimes and danger their personal safety. Great read, loved it!

    • BRIAN SLATER profile image

      Brian Slater 

      6 years ago from England

      Great to see your eldest taking charge like she did. Kids learn from each other so the little one is more likely to listen. Very useful for parents. :)

    • alliemacb profile image


      6 years ago from Scotland

      A useful hub that highlights a lot of the potential pitfalls. I thought the section of teaching kids to safe touch was particularly helpful as this can be a difficult topic to broach with young children. Voted up and useful.

    • anusujith profile image

      Anoop Aravind A 

      6 years ago from Nilambur, Kerala, India

      Ton's of information!!! Great Hub. Voted up.

    • Marcy Goodfleisch profile image

      Marcy Goodfleisch 

      6 years ago from Planet Earth

      What an incredibly informative and comprehensive hub! You've covered a wealth of important information and presented it in understandable terms. I love the little story about your three-year-old watching out for her sister. It's so endearing to see children protect kids younger than they are.

      I'd never thought about what goes through the minds of children when crossing the street, but I can see how repeating a slogan could make them feel it had protective powers, and also how school crossing guards can make little children think cars automatically stop for them.

      Voted up, useful, interesting and shared with followers.


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