Walking, Fitness, Health: Get Real Time....you Can Find the Real You Inside Waiting to Emerge
silly me....in Heston's Heroes 5K run
Thinner and happier....NOT thin....thinner!!!! December 2017
Update....June 8 2018
To me the real test of weight loss schemes or plans or suggestions is not just about losing the weight. The real test in my mind is if the weight stays off. It is three years later and I have lost 75 pounds altogether. It has not been easy. I have to walk at least five days a week ....I am one of those who cannot lose weight just by revising what I eat.I do eat differently than before. I do not really nave any absolutely NO foods but refrain from keeping junk at my home...if it is not here I do not think about it.
I do eat about 5 to 6 times a day....three times are snacks of veggies and fruit or sometimes a smoothie or protein bar. I am certain that I will always have to consciously think about my body's weight ...I still want to lose 40 more pounds...and I feel it will happen...one step at a time.
Update...December 13 2017 still walking still losing
My need to walk continues to be the focus of most days. I do walk 5 days a week now instead of 7 as I did when I began.
I have lost more weight doing this than I ever imagined...I now have 70 pounds gone. My measurements are not so different as I have ugly rolls that are a result of the stretched skin from being so overweight. (The reasons for being overweight are legit and many however no excuses now.) But I feel so much better. And my grandson, Jay, who is quite a bit taller and has a longer stride teases me...."Padi (yes he often calls me Padi) for your little short legs you can really move fast!!!"
it is true....I walk quickly now even when I am not out for one of my daily (twice daily) walks.
You CAN walk away unwanted weight and while you are doing so you can walk away stress....begin today..baby steps...and then gradually add to it.
Never Wanted My Photo Taken Before....not where I want to be but headed in the right direction
Still losing, still walking, still feeling euphoria each time I walk
Yes, my journey continues. I hope many of you have embarked on your own 'get real' journey whether you need to lose weight or just to give yourself a daily boost...it is amazing what the walking does...it is energizing and gives one time to ponder many things...it gives me personally time to hear God.
My weight loss to date is 64 pounds...and yes, I am feeling great.
Feeling THANKFUL that walking came back into my life. It lifts any stress that may try to settle in my life.
Music Keeps Me Uplifted While Walking
Sometimes I do walk and listen to just the sounds of nature but that is when I am in a park where the sounds of city life are not ever present.
Most days when I walk I clip on my Scandisk mp3 player and tuck on one of my headsets and am off to another world. The Scandisk has been my player of choice for walking as it is easy to upload music and it is easy to navigate.
While I am not totally technologically challenged, neither am I an expert. So a device such as this that is 'friendly' makes me happy.
Update.....drum roll please...
Almost one year to date, I began a new journey, a new friendship, a new relationship with my body. Since I only get once chance to walk this planet, it was time to take charge....so many factors played into how I became morbidly obese....and the fact of the matter is...none of that matters. What matters is that it is possible to turn it around.
It has not been easy...not at all to get up every day and walk. The getting out the door part is the difficult part though. Once I am out, it is a whole different story. All of what troubles me (and there are lots of things going on with my family that TRY to weigh heavily on me) washes away with each step and each jogging motion that I make.
So I am thrilled to report that I am now 56 pounds lighter....
I will continue this journey because I am an individual who cannot maintain a reasonable weight without exercise...it just ain't gonna' happen.
I eat healthy too....that does not mean that what I eat is bland or flavorless. It just means I choose foods that nourish my body, mind, and soul. For each of us that will be a different food choice. It means being honest with myself about what I eat....not explaining to anyone else why I eat what I do, but feeling well physically and not guilty about food choices.
So the journey continues......
Update: July 21
I am more pumped now about this journey than I was in October when I began.
I can walk longer and swifter without feeling breathless.
My new weight is : 190....I am so excited...never thought I would be excited to be this heavy but I am so much lighter than when I began. My new clothes make me feel like a new me...I got rid of all of my old, fat clothing.
It makes me feel so humble when others comment on my weight loss. It has been many years since I have been complimented on how I look.
Of course, I have done this for ME but it is nice when others notice.
If you need to get in shape, I recommend walking...a bit at a time....take a serious look at what you eat and when you eat...
Best wishes to you on your journey.
This time last year I would not have posted a photo of me (so much heavier)
Exercise is a Wonderful Way to Reduce Stress
We all have stressors in our lives...that obviously goes without saying.
Thankfully, the walking and some very light jogging along with it, keeps me sane and reduces the stress on my body.
When exercising my mind is washed, freed, of all of the stress that surrounds me at this time. I am so very thankful that I begin each day with a walk. It takes me totally to another place...a place of meditation and calm.
Please do yourself a favor and make room for some type of exercise each day.
A Walking Hat....Learning not to take myself too seriously
Update: June 6, 2016
My weight is at 194-195. My measurements remain the same pretty much as the last time I measured but my clothes fit much differently.
I am able to buy cute clothes now that are soooo much smaller than I was wearing.
And I feel so much better...emotionally and physically.
I walk in the morning mainly now so that means I leave home at first light usually about 6:15 s it is hot now and I just cannot walk in the heat. If I do ever walk in the evening now it is at 7:00 when it has begun to cool down.
This is a thrilling experience. I have made new friends ..not who walk with me...but who see me walk and come up to me when I am in a store and strike up a conversation.
If you are not walking, get started. Take short walks at firs.t
Truthfully if I were not walking I would not be able to navigate the waters that are swirling around me with my family right now.
For the first time in too many years, I tip the scales at 195...42 pounds lighter than when I embarked on this journey.
That number is still HUGE to me but compared to where I began, it is so much better
I feel so much better and am told that I look so much better (and secretly I think so too :D)...but part of me still sees the FAT person...gradually that will fade because even though I have a large number of pounds still to lose, I am now able to buy some new clothes, flattering clothes that verify the pounds are really gone!!
It is a journey..every day. I have arthritis in my right ankle (MAJOR) and have to really baby it and at the same time I baby my legs, hips, and other foot as well. I have begun to soak in a tub of very warm water at least once a week....not much on baths but silly me, I shower before soaking....
My measurements are pretty much the same...
Hips 45 (woo hoo)
Breast 44 (no change)
Did I say weight....195????!!!!
Keep on keeping on....that is my motto....and to you, if you have not yet begun to be good to your body, what are you waiting for???
Just Cannot Stop Smiling.....
February 12, 2016.....tada
Today I am thrilled.....I hope if you have embarked on a healthy living plan for your life that you are finding it as exhilarating as I am...
to review a bit on October 18, 2015 I began this journey....walking 8 miles a day and making wise food choices. I began to lose weight and to feel better physically and emotionally.
It was risky for me to share the 'numbers' ...the harsh ugly numbers that show how out of shape my body was (and still is...but it is improving.)
Beginning in December I began to go the gym on an irregular basis...and now I go at least four days a week...and continue to walk...
I am thrilled to announce....as of today I am 40 pounds down....wow, what a difference a few changes can make.
Best to you on your journey..if you need encouragement on your journey, feel free to email me...I am a good listener.
February 4, 2016
Four months later and here are the results...
weight.....tadaaa drum roll please.... 198 lbs. I am thrilled.....
bust....no change 44 inches
waist....43 1/2 inches
Still walking twice a day...feeling perpetually high from the exercise; I also go to the gym to work on areas that walking does not address.
It is a journey...one I am sooooo glad I began and am so thankful that God helps me to stick to...
First update in 2016...35 gone!!!!!
Wow....time has flown...so much has happened since October 18th.
It is time to update my numbers....
today I reached a big goal...35 pounds are gone.....my weight is 200....still HUGE but my body is changing so that keeps me highly motivated.
Bust...44 (This is interesting..it appears there is NO change but I am one bra size and one cup size smaller so...)
My clothes are beginning to hang on me....and I am loving it...this is an exciting journey...hoping others are feeling motivated... here there are many who are cheering me on and beginning their own journey in their OWN way...which is so important.
I have added working out at the gym too but not to excess (which I mentioned in the video that was shared last month.)
I usually walk about one and one half miles and then do strength training at the gym before I walk the remainder of my 8 miles.
My plan is after I lost 50 pounds to walk less but we shall see.
Thanks for stopping to see what is happening.
One huge, unexpected side effect of all of this walking is that I experience a perpetual (it lasts most of the day till the next walk)"high---no kidding.
. I do get some rather strange looks as I am walking along smiling from ear to ear...but I just cannot help myself.
I have heard of how the brain in affected by exercise but have not experienced it to this degree !!!
A Reminder to Get Real
Update: December 17---May I just say "EXCITED"
Total weight lost....30 pounds. I can hardly believe it
Hips 49 (six inches gone!!!)
Waist 45 1/2
Still plugging along...
A Wonderful Part of this Journey
As I walk pretty much the same stretch of highway (down a 2 lane country road and then for a mile one way on a dirt road), I have gotten to know others who walk and we cheer each other on.
A whole new world of friends and acquaintances has opened up.
I wave at everyone who passes in a truck, car, bus, you name it...I wave.
And even when my back is to them, my hand is in the air, waving.
And I get lots of waves back and many many 'boops' on the horn as they pass....how cool is that. It makes me feel like I am not alone on the journey. Many of these passers by I see both in the morning and the afternoon. How cool is that.
The Journey Continues
Walking every day except when it is IMPOSSIBLE (such as I have to be out of town driving to the Airport or somewhere), or, other such rare occasions.
I am still walking 8 miles daily ...I try to walk 5 in the morning and 3 at night simply because I am a morning person.
My eating habits have changed as dramatically as my exercising and I will mention that at a later time.
To anyone embarking on this journey, check with your doctor as to your fitness and how to proceed.
One huge side effect of the walking is that I am perpetually high..no joking. I know that exercising can cause this to happen but it is to a whole new level due to the intensity of the walks....it is a great panacea for whatever ails you... :D
Off to walk again, soon.
Thanks for cheering me on....
Update ....the latest figures are in!!!
---November 27 Newest figures in on weight loss and inches lost:
Waist 46 (I forgot somehow to measure my waist at the onset so this is the baseline)
Hips 50 3/4
Weight...drum roll, please... ta da....213 that makes 22 pounds gone....woo hoo!!!
Hips 49 3/4
Breast 46 3/4
hips 49 3/4
Weight loss to date.... 24 pounds...woo hoo.....
Update on weight loss
I posted measurements this week (the week of November 1st) but was unable to post weight loss as I only weigh at one location and it was unavailable until today.
New figures are in...down 5 more pounds....total to date....13 pounds.
It is worth every mile I walk...nothing....NOTHING can compare to the feeling of getting this weight off.
A few years back, I wrote that I was at Get Real Time in my life.
The truth is, I guess I was in Get Real Time in my mind or some alternate universe or something. It just did not happen.
I was not committed to what it takes to shed the pounds that have crept on for too many reasons.
I lacked the motivation. I plain and simply did not care enough.
Finally admitting that I was avoiding facing the hard cold reality of life that I am F-A-T
was the first hurdle I needed to face.
This Photo is One that Made Me Start to Realize I Needed to Step up to the Plate
Need Excuses? I Had Them...
Yes indeed I had them
More than enough for me and to share with anyone else who needed them.
My first one was:
- I cannot afford healthy food. It costs too much.
- If I eat out, I want to eat of the decadent foods that jump off the menu to me.
- Exercise? O, yes, I get plenty of exercise, every day. I am very busy. I do not lead a sedentary life.
- My family members are sick. I do not have time to prepare healthy foods traveling back and for forth to care for them.
- When I come home, I am tired. I do not feel like cooking. I will just grab this leftover whatever and call it wonderful.
And, on and on and on.
Get Real Fact....I was avoiding taking the bull by the horn and doing the work it takes to get the FAT off.
For the last ten years, I have avoided mirrors. They have been the enemy.
Get Real Time suggests to me that I will embrace the mirror and rejoice as the person looking back becomes the thin person waiting to come out.
Simple Straightforward Tips for Walking
Personal Experience only
My experiences are my own I am not a nutritionist, exercise guru, or other such trained person.
I do reference Dr. Bendheim and Dr. Amen in my article but do not strictly adhere to what either says.
This is my journey. Use what you can and adjust to make it work for you.
If you have medical issues, by all means to not begin any new way of living without consulting your medical advisors.
Own and Accept that You Are Out of Control
The first time I said to someone, 'No, thank you, I can't take that cute top you are offering me because I am TOO FAT' the words resonated within my soul. It was devastating to me.
Who am I talking about? Me, FAT? Is that really how I think of myself? Is that how others see me?
And, yes, it is.
And I still am but there is a difference.
I have gotten REAL this time.
Excuses are gone. There is no good reason for me to remain obese. And that is what I am...and no one can fix this but me.
This was hard. No one wants to admit they have let things get out of control. I had.
It was time to own it.
This Book Helped Me to Begin My Journey
It seems it is up for discussion who said this first (Kate Moss) or whom:
It does not matter to me, this quote just says it all for me....
Nothing tastes as good as thin feels!!
Beginning This Journey
As was mentioned above, a book helped me to begin my journey. The book, The Brian Training Revolution by Paul E. Benheim, M.D. actually was the impetus for my transformation.
It focuses on brain health but it really is a book about healthy living, healthy choices, a healthy mindset.
It is filled with so much that will help get you focused and ready to make changes. There is even a DVD which shows some of the exercises you can do to have a healthier brain and healthier body.
Go to your library and check it out...you will be glad that you did.
Creating a Brain that is Functioning at Optimal Levels + Getting Your Body in Shape
If you control the things you can---your response to stress, the food you consume, the restfulness of your sleep, and your care for your body, you can greatly influence the vitality of your brain..." Dr. Paul E. Bendheim
It is a win-win-win situation...brain health, body health, emotionally healthy!!!
In the Beginning
One thing is that changed is that I began reading a book about brain health and how important nutrition and exercise are for our brains are for staving off Alzheimers and stroke.
As I turned page after page, it was like an epiphany I suppose.
Like, how many times does someone need to hit me over the head to remind me to get in shape physically and mentally?
From the first day I began reading the book, my life has changed.
I did not follow the suggestions completely and that may not have been the best idea, but I had to make it work for me.
I began walking two miles a day and by the end of the first week I was up to 8 miles a day. I do not recommend this for anyone who has any medical conditions. I do not recommend it for anyone who is as out of shape as I was. For me, it just happened and now I am comfortable with it. (Years ago I was walking 4 miles a day and I loved it so beginning was not so hard.)
I generally walk 5 miles in the morning and 3 in the evening because I am a morning person and like to do most of my walking in the morning.
Another Book Occupies My Mind as Well
On the day I found the BTR book I also found, Making a Good Brain Great. For days I have been reading both as I am trying to find answers that I need to know.
This second book devotes considerable time to explaining the brain and how it is divided and explains how these parts work for us. It is another one that is worth the time to read and soak in.
A third book is on the way...The Brain Fog Fix by Dr. Mike Dow. At this point I cannot explain much about it but as soon as my copy arrives I will fill in some details.
Dr. Amen Has a Lovely Suggestion
In his book, he has written a letter to our brain.
It is a very simple straightforward letter suggesting that working together we can have a brain that works properly and as we know when our brain is working well, we are in sync.
He goes on to list a number of promises that we as the home for the brain must ( must is my word not his) make to our brains. He begins, "I will----
- think about you every day so you can think properly
- care for you, so you will allow me to take god care of myself and those I love
- accept the fact that neither you nor I are perfect but we can be far better
- protect you from injury, toxins, and too much stress
- give you enough sleep
- feed you nutritious food, but not too much
- teach you new things so you continue to be excellent at learning
- exercise our heart and body to keep great blood supply flowing to you
This is a partial list of his suggestions. They are found on 237 of his book.
Getting brain healthy is a total commitment to mind, body, soul.
Each morning when I rise I do a bit of yoga to warm up and to get in tune with the universe.
Then, I drink some water and have a bit of protein...a banana with peanut butter, a spoonful of peanut butter, an egg, something to give me sustenance for the walk.
Then I walk alone or with my friend (she usually walks at least four days a weeks) walks with me in the morning. It is great having the time to socialize and chat about what we have done or about upcoming events. I am walking seven days a week right now. I plan to cut back to 5 days at some point.
In the evening, I walk alone. When I walk alone, I listen to songs on my mp3 player...it keeps me pepped up and walking at a pace that causes me to burn those calories!!
What I Wear
OneTuesday night I attended a one hour fitness class with my friend.
And by the time the hour ended, we had exercised every part of our bodies including parts we did not know we had!!!
The fitness center closed about a year ago but has been bought by our town and will reopen in 2018
It is WORK
This is not a quick fix. I have lost weight and inches (given later in this article)..
This is a journey.
And unlike the last time, I will not remove this hub when I fail.
Because I will NOT fail this time!!
It took many years to get this weight on so I have to be patient and be willing to do the work it takes to transform this body into one that I love more.
I do love myself. I do.
But I do not LIKE the fat that hangs from my small frame.
And rather than whine, I have decided to do the work it takes to be healthy and to feel attractive. And it is WORK. After the workout or the walk, I feel AMAZING!!!
Besides walking I have made huge changes in my eating habits.
And as a result I have no cravings.
Sugar is one of my weaknesses. Candy and dessert including ice cream which I could slather on my arms and lick off would lead me astray if I let them.
NO, I have not cut them out altogether but I have purged them from my body. I had to go cold turkey on those foods to get the desire out of my system. I do not bring sweets home at all. If I feel I need a sweet treat, I will go out and order something at a restaurant.
Simple Easy Foods
Here is what I eat most days:
Breakfast....banana with peanut butter, an egg, a spoonful of peanut butter
Lunch........salad greens (mixed baby greens), sliced tomatoes, red onion-slivers, albacore tuna or salmon....topped with a dab of olive oil and a spritz of balsamic vinegar Some grapes or other fruit on the side.
Dinner....Steamed veggies, broiled chicken breast, mixed baby greens, sliced tomatoes, cucumber, red and yellow peppers
For snacking I may have half a banana, an apple, some grapes, or other veggies or fruit.
A small serving of mixed nuts is also a preferred snack as I have the opportunity to 'crunch' and I enjoy foods with lots of texture
I drink tons of water throughout the day...before I walk, while I walk, and after I walk as well as throughout the rest of the day
I do drink skim milk at least once a day.
I may have a cup of coffee or an herbal tea at some point during the day as well.
I do not keep any junk foods at my house. I have NO, zero, zip, nada will power so I find it pointless to try to resist temptation. If it is not here, I do not think about it.
As I said above, I have not cut out sweets entirely. If I would like a sweet treat that is not particularly healthy, I will go out somewhere to have it. Often I find that it was not nearly as good as I imagined it would be.
++I also keep on hand blueberries, raspberries, blackberries, strawberries and other fruits and veggies for snacking. When they are out of season, frozen works.
Here is Where I am
On October 18th 2015 I began walking at weight 235*
On October 18the, I weighed in at 227
My measurements on October 25 were:
On November 13th, I weighed in at 220.
It hurts my fingers to write this but seeing it keeps me focused.
November 13th .... measurements are:
chest ....still 48 inches
hips....drum roll please...52 inches....
I hope that some of you may decide it is Get Real Time for you as well.
Those of you who are already in the best of shape so your brain and body are functioning at optimal levels, excellent!!!
**I corrected my error (I had 225 and it was actually 235...so now it is fixed.)
© 2015 Patricia Scott