What Made Me Stay Focused on Life's Experiences

The heat has been unbearable and has made me feel very tired.
However, I am enjoying my job, and meeting different people to enjoy communication with different nationalities.

My fourth time of marriage to my husband is another special function ahead.

Lots to do and excited!

How am I married four times to one man?

We first married 31 years ago as planned in an Indian ceremony, thereafter in court as the first mixed-racial couple.
Some years later, we married in Croatia on receiving my permanent residential documents. We registered at the Croatian Court.
In a few days, we will be married in the local Catholic Church.

Four times to one person is that incredible or what?

My plans are simple, and happy moments do come up when you least expect them.
I had a wonderful surprise a few days ago.
A couple stopped by our home and was in search of more information about their family tree.

In search of their roots in a Croatian family was the best surprise that I have had in a long time I was very, very happy to have met such wonderful people.
They stayed with us for two days at our place and found out what they came for to their destination.
The closure was part of their fantastic trip, they learned where their ancestors had lived many, many years ago. I listened and laughed at so many parts of the conversations as they had explained. They had a good sense of humour.

It was a great experience to meet another family with many differences.
I do not have much time to write due to the many upcoming events.

I must stay in my commitment. Life has given me what I did not know, and that allowed me to grow stronger, and to feel much happier in my actions. I have grown to realize my great gift of life, and of my efforts.

I believe there is happiness all around me. I just must take it all in with lots of work and patience. My experiences have taught me to see life in many different ways than I have in my past.

I did not know I had such spirits. It brought me to light when I did not know how to, and what to do. Life for me has brought me to my knees and has lifted me up to the stars.

I connect with certain people and let my mind go free of all mixed thoughts.
If you want happiness you can get it from yourself, and not from others. Happiness is from within and that is what makes me f feel positive in all the changes I have had to experience.

I see the true people when they show their true selves to me. It is a side that I did not think much of when in the moment. I need to relax more and be more appreciated for what and who I have in my life. I can make myself that better soul in every way I wish to and enjoy my life as it is.

Spiritually I feel awesome!

I have learned more about spiritual minds from other people. When all seems to be well, you must make it look well. Be calm and be yourself.

How do you feel when drinking a cup of tea?

Do you feel good about that moment?

Embrace each day, and do not take life for granted, Enjoy the deep breathing and the fresh air taken in. Open your heart to people, and find the goodness in you, and in others.

Avoid bickering, and smile at what you see, rather than bite someone's head off at every little conversation. The truth will always set you free. If you notice what is around you that will show you to love your life even more

I welcomed people I had never met before into my home and had a new experience. They needed questions to be answered and found what they were looking for to complete their family tree.

Incredible it was and that is exactly what happened. When it was time to go, they left with no doubts. People search for what they know needs to be complete in their lives, and once all is intact, they move on with good closure.

What made you a Courageous person?

I have become a courageous person after the many struggles I have passed through in my own way. It brought me lightness, darkness, and purity. The worst for me was not knowing more about Croatia.

I know so much more now and know there is great potential for me. The people who are close to me make me feel like one and very special. There are not many people around me who can make me feel that way.

It is rare to find true people. Never give up on your dreams, pursue what you think is going to make you the happiest. There was a time when I felt all was falling apart in my life. It was the unexpected happy moments that made me think positively about my new life here.

When you have a good laugh all you can think of is happiness and joy. You could feel negative when sadness comes your way. Time, patience, and courage can make you a better person.

Your soul is what makes you noticed by others. I have met a woman with great calmness in her soul, and she just wanted to embrace her special moments.

I gave that some thought and have decided to take her advice. It is meaningful and worthwhile. Any individual can behave this way providing one sees themselves as the true person from the inside-out.

A true soul is always open-hearted, kind to everyone, and does not show evil toward you. I have met these people and felt great to have had them in my presence.

I deserve to be happy and to have a social life.

Life is what you make of it!

If you choose to blame others for your own wrongdoing that kind of behaviour will not let you go further than your present position.
What you see is what you get.

Your moods and appearance do show a lot about your personality. Do not ignore the goodness in people. You will be surprised by what you may find from the open-hearted people.

Their good conversations can make you see it all from their souls. It happened to me, and now I am taken aback by all that I have experienced in the last few days.

I feel things have gone forward though it has been a while since I have relaxed and focused on myself. The small ceremony will be a delightful moment for us both. The fourth time around, and the many years together have proven my blessed life