ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

‘Blistered Butt in the Saddle’ Learning How Not to Compromise

Updated on July 15, 2011

Esoteric Psychology: MODE of Cosmic Therapy

 Tree Planted Grows Straight Up!
Tree Planted Grows Straight Up! | Source

MODE of Cosmic Therapy: Self-Regard: Highest Virtue of Excellence

Self-generated helplessness (compliantly agreeing to sublimate you) is a paralyzing debilitating unnatural human condition. The pretentious elicited emotion, which immediately places the person in a defensive, accusing and morbidly hostile position of attack, does nothing to further ones authentic self. . No one likes to feel helpless or hopeless.

More so, no one likes to be put in the uncomfortable position of being indebted to another. (As IF you owe them something) Yet, a majority of the human race channels their life-supporting energy, filling their existence with just such insensitively undermined placated devastating moods and occasions. These moods are recognized and labeled (appropriately so: ‘identification.’).

When you identify with another, (compare and compete) in the sense, that you assume his/her life is in some way better, more advanced, easier, happier or more successfully productive than yours, {especially in the area of love/romance/compatibility) you are incapacitating your mind , frigidly deflating your body, while crippling your sensual energized spirit. Why?

Because we, humans, are instinctively self-motivated, self-governed, and self-competent and are not ‘naturally and conveniently’ apt to give our innate self-determined power/influence away.


When a situation arises that ‘seems to’ place you in a ‘less than subordinate’ position, realize you ALONE have asked for the soul-resolving incident. The experience necessitates a critical part of your life that you have submerged for whatever personal reasons. In other words, you have continued to ‘coast on the wave ‘of the familiar, reserved and customary for some sort of security ‘cat and mouse’ game.

Humans are not accustomed to compromising and when they do “act as if they are giving in”; it is always for their self-fulfilled betterment. (Or at the very least they believe it to be so.)

We are acutely aware that we innately possess enormous mountain moving power. But, will not own it for fear of appearing “aggressive, undisciplined, greedy or worse yet, unappreciative.” That’s the underlying reason why so many people attend seminars to extend their so-called self-worth. Really? Give me a break.

 Do you genuinely need to learn how to be humble, generous, gracious and kind?

Fascinating as it seems, people read about it, listen to others talk about it, some even pay big money to attend workshops in order to achieve the ‘secret’ of disclosing its miraculous uplifting generative supremacy. But, but not one, it appears, is capable of actually sustaining the ‘sizzling soul soup’ for any length of time.

Far be it from me, to suggest that we all have our dedicatedly specific trails to ride “Blistered Butt in the Saddle.”

Earth is the school ground for the conciliating Authentic Human Experiment. {But, on our own sanctified signed-sealed and delivered cosmic terms; certainly, not to pacify another’s disguised needs or desires) Although we are born with Pandora’s storehouse of esoteric artistic gifts, abilities and talents, genuinely inherited psychic intuition, the adept skill to work with light and sound, we most often times act ‘as if’ we are ill-equipped or missing a necessary ingredient for happiness pie.

We are loaded with adept dexterity/speed/proficiency of an unequaled messenger of the gods, the supreme love, appreciation and/or performance of music, an undaunted passion for arts with the unsurpassed aptitude to create, demonstrate and execute masterpieces.

Including the remarkable command of drama, the religious fervor unmatched by the throne of ISIS, accented by an irresistible resilience to trump the destiny of pre-mastered choice. In essence, we are so unparalleled as gods in the making, that the ridiculous way we conduct our prefabricated demonstrative pitiful lives is nothing less than disgusting, ludicrous and blasphemous.

Each person, who enters upon this plane of human dimension, does so with a huge amount of karma (lessons you must learn; relationships you need to balance). Whether you are adverse to the term or embrace it does not change the facts. You are alive because you have something to work on, out and into.

You are breathing this instant in order to subdue the need of your personal ego to run the show or cast in the towel. Either way you are to become familiar with its devious clever ways to beset you and overcome its deceptive ploys. Your ego is so indelibly imprinted with a guise that has almost convinced you of its sincerity that you may even feel the need to baulk at some of this information.

The bottom line is: You like you. You like the way you are. You don’t want to change. You’ve even heard me say, “People don’t change, seasons do”. So you’ll change when the season arrives. But, that is not the case. Haven’t you suffered long enough in silence to let go of what is not working?

try to hide the mask of your ‘seeking to be recognized’ under a false guise of pretense. One of which you appear to be going along with the crowd when the only goal you have in mind is how it will benefit you in the long run. You don’t want to be left out.

You don’t want to be alone. You don’t want to have to depend on yourself for the answers. In essence, you want a guarantee before you show your hand.

 Even though you’re holding a ‘full house’ aces and eights, with expected hopes of the other ace showing up as the River card! Stop your beguiling pretending to be grateful; it does not become you.


    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment
    • Paula Andrea, MA profile imageAUTHOR

      Paula Andrea, MA 

      8 years ago from www.mode of cosmic

      With the warmest regards do I respond to each of you, 'kind generous folks', who read and reply to my writings. It brings me so much joy when I read the replies. Best to you all, always...

    • Hello, hello, profile image

      Hello, hello, 

      8 years ago from London, UK

      Thank you for a very, very interesting hub. I learned a lot from it.

    • msorensson profile image


      8 years ago

      I love this hub..Thanks..indeed. it is difficult to let go

    • Putz Ballard profile image

      Putz Ballard 

      8 years ago

      Great hub and some great thoughts.


    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

    Show Details
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)
    ClickscoThis is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy)