- Death & Loss of Life
How to console a person who has recently lost her loved one
Consoling...someone....is it possible??
As far as consoling someone who has lost her love goes, this is the time when the person needs emotional support, because she might be so depressed, she would be so confused that she does not know what to do or what not to. But I would say it is not just "HER" this also applies to "HIM" as well. A very close friend of mine lost her girlfriend in an road accident, though before her demise she got married to someone else, but he still loves her, and when he got the news of her death, he was like so much under depression that he didn't even knew what he was doing, it took around 1 year to recover from that episode, and yes he required a lot of emotional support from all the friends, do you think that would have worked?? No it did not. It actually depends on how deep they were involved and consoling also depends on the involvement they both had. Just saying and making them understand will not work always, unless and until the person gets someone else to replace their loved one. A new girlfriend or a new boyfriend is the best way to console the person who has lost her/his love one recently. Instead of all the friends and family people working on consoling the suffered person, leave this to a person who is just in the queue waiting for his/her chance to talk to that person. The person will not recover unless and until he/she gets someone more caring than the previous one. Well these are my views, if you have some other ways of looking at this topic, I am open for the feedback.