The knowledge we possess, (provided we use it in harmony with what enhances life) will determine to what degree we can effect positive change in our own life and our ability to discern how we affect others. It will also play a major role in our storehouse of data to make decisions or carry out intent. The broader & deeper the knowledge we have based upon the building blocks of life such as how the mind works, what natural laws are in play, how energy works and how frequency works will provide dynamic foundation to build from.
because a woman is more emotionally charged than a man and emotions out of control...well your question says it all. Plus women are more intuitive which is a spiritual property (intuition) so her anger, revenge or whatever comes from a place too deep to know.