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Our Love Story - A Tribute To My Husband

Updated on March 11, 2016
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My Husband, The Love Of My Life

This page is dedicated to my husband, who showed me the true meaning of love, and continues to do so to this very day. I cannot imagine how my life would be now if he hadn't been with me to show me the way.

I am truly blessed!

A great sense of humor, a winning smile, and the ability to give without expecting anything in return. A proud American, serving in Vietnam. A loving father to his son from his 1st marriage. The best friend a wife could ever have!

It didn't start out that way. It was a long journey. But we are proof that love can prevail.

All photos on this site are my own, and subject to copyright

In The Beginning....

Our first meeting was not indicative of how our lives would turn out. I attended a party, where I met my future husband. He was there with friends, and they were quite obnoxious! I asked who he was, only to learn he was the brother of the host. I kept my distance for quite some time.

Months later, his brother (the party host), died suddenly. I found myself at the wake sitting next to my future husband, and he showed me a totally different side that night. He was quite endearing, even in his grief. I spent the next few hours just sitting there, holding his hand.

He lived in small country town, about 4 hours from me. A couple of weeks later, he sent me a bus ticket, asking me to come stay for the weekend. Three weeks later, he asked me to marry him, and I said "No". But he was persistent, and 5 months later, we were married!

Husband & Wife

On May 14, 1983 in the chapel at my church, we became husband and wife. My parents were married at this church, and my grandfather had built the chapel, so it seemed the most appropriate place to hold the ceremony. We wanted a small, simple ceremony, so just a few were in attendance: my parents, brother & sister; his parents, son, and brother, and a couple of mutual friends.

Our Wedding Ceremony
Our Wedding Ceremony | Source

After the ceremony, we held a reception for our friends at a local steakhouse, then headed to our new home in the city. We didn't have a honeymoon, because he had to be back at work. The first few weeks were really wonderful.

But then his post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) kicked in, and it was something I didn't understand. He would hear a backfire, causing him to crouch on the floorboard of the pickup, screaming "Get Down! Get Down!". He crawled through bushes; he saw the enemy lurking outside the house.

We had to move out of the city. He explained that he couldn't be around so many people, because it triggered his PTSD. He was afraid he might end up shooting an innocent bystander. So two months after our marriage, he had his job transfer us out to the country.

Country Living

We set up house in a mobile home on an acre of land. I was a city girl, and really didn't want to live in the country. I didn't know anyone, and for the first few months, didn't have a vehicle or telephone. But I loved and wanted to be with my husband, and I didn't want him to suffer in the city! Little did I know the suffering that Vietnam veterans deal with every day!

Richland Chambers Lake Project where my husband worked as a Tire Man
Richland Chambers Lake Project where my husband worked as a Tire Man | Source

My husband was in charge of literally hundreds of pieces of off-road construction equipment on a lake construction project. The project ran 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, so I hardly ever saw him. When he did have time off, he either wanted to go fishing - his greatest passion - or drink beer. I didn't mind having a cocktail occasionally, but would rather spend some time with him.

We compromised, and I ended up going fishing with him & his work buddies, or going to parties where there was actually a few wives. I made a few friends, got a vehicle, and finally got out of the house a bit. But my husband's long hours & beer drinking finally got the best of us.

One night, he came home and said "I love you, but think we should get a divorce." I was stunned! He explained that he couldn't be the husband that I deserved. We both cried a lot, hugged a lot, but I finally agreed.

The In-Between Years

We were apart for 21 years. I married someone else 3 years after our divorce, then moved back to the city. It was a really bad, abusive marriage, but I hung in there for 7 years. My husband finished the lake project, then moved to another small town. He also remarried, but his only lasted for a year and a half.

We spoke a few times over the years. There was no animosity between us. His mother sent me Christmas cards, and we still had friends in common.

I thought about him quite a bit over the years. It seemed that I was always attracted to the same kind of man. I finally decided that if I was going to be with someone like my 1st husband, that it should be him.

So I called him.

Thanksgiving 2005

First meeting in 21 years

We spoke several times on the telephone. He wanted to come stay the weekend with me, but I was a bit nervous. So I suggested that we meet at his mother's house on Thanksgiving afternoon. I thought that having people around would help break the ice.

It was a bit awkward at first, but after we eased away from the family members, we got to talk a bit. He told me that he was sorry that he didn't try harder the first time around, and wanted to know if I'd give him another chance. I told him I felt the same way, and agreed to come stay the following weekend at his home.

Becoming Reacquainted

We spent a year getting to know each other all over again. He still drank quite a lot, but he was much more attentive, and we spent a great deal of time together. He asked me if I would marry him again, and of course, I said "yes!". But with one stipulation: It would have to be forever.

I leased out my house in the city, packed up all my belongings, and on December 1st, 2006, we were back together for good.

First Act of Love

To show me that he was serious, he entered alcohol rehab at the Veterans Medical Center in February 2007. He spent a week there, and came home a different person. It was good, for the most part. But without alcohol, his PTSD became worse, and he had horrific nightmares. His often dreamed of swimming in a river of fire, with bodies floating next to him.

But he was willing to stick it out. A couple of weeks later, he entered a month-long rehab program at the VA, where he learned how to live life without alcohol. It was tough having him gone for so long after we had just gotten back together, but it was worth it. I was so proud that he made the choice to become sober!

Continuing Love

My husband told me that he would prove to me that he loved me, and did so on a daily basis. Each morning, the first thing he'd say was "Good morning, Sweetheart! I love you!". At night, he'd ask "Are you safe? Are you happy?" When I'd reply "yes", he say "That's all I care about. Good night, Honey. I love you".

If it was a work day, he'd call me at lunch, to tell me he loved me. If it was a day off, he'd find me several times a day to do the same. One night, he said "I'll prove to you that I love you. I'm going to stay up all night, and let you know". It was sweet for the first 3 or 4 minutes of him saying "I love you", then amusing. But after several hours, he was driving me crazy!

Love Note from my husband
Love Note from my husband | Source

It wasn't just the words, however. He left notes to let me know that he was thinking about me. Occasionally, on his way home from work, he'd stop & pick wildflowers for me. When I'd talk to mutual friends, they'd remark "He certainly loves you! You wouldn't believe all the nice things he tells us about you!"

He always complimented me on everything I did, and always said "You're wonderful". Whether it was just a meal, or laundry, or me helping him with a project, he always said "Thank you".

I couldn't help but feel his love and appreciation, even when he wasn't around.

My husband in his concrete truck
My husband in his concrete truck | Source

Health Problems

My husband had dreamed of driving a concrete truck since he was a child, so he decided to find a job driving one. The first place he applied hired him, and he soon drove all over the county. He was an extremely hard worker, and always volunteered to work overtime, or go in on his days off. Seldom did he take a vacation or sick day, because he loved to work so much.

But after 18 months on the truck, he began having problems with his back and legs. We went to a number of doctors; he had a series of X-rays and MRI's, and after a few months, finally learned he had sciatica. This started a long journey of pain killers, none of which seemed to get rid of the pain. He finally had steroid shots in his spine, which gave him some temporary relief.

However, by the end of August 2009, he couldn't take the pain anymore. Every time he crawled up into the truck, the pain was so intense he felt faint. He decided to retire.

Retirement Days

Ways To Pass The Time

Retirement was good for him, or at least for the pain. It subsided a bit, so he didn't have to take as many pain killers. He became a couch potato, watching game shows & soap operas. I was amused that he became so addicted to television. He had a friend who was also disabled, and they would discuss the soaps every afternoon.

The Puppy, Charlie Watts
The Puppy, Charlie Watts | Source

He decided he needed a puppy. His last one had died several years ago, and he was finally ready for another. I eventually caved in, and said "why not!", knowing it would be me that would take care of it.

Charlie Watts became the newest addition to our family. He was quite a cute dog, who followed his daddy around all day. The puppy seemed to bring life back into my husband. They would go fishing together, and visit friends. I conceded it had been a good idea all along.

Just When I Thought It Couldn't Get Any Worse

In early 2010, my husband began coughing up blood. Then, a large knot grew on the side of his neck. I begged him to go to the doctor, but he refused, saying "It's just the cost of Agent Orange". But he needed a prescription refilled, so while in the office, I told the doctor about the blood. He immediately ordered x-rays, blood tests and scans, and sent us to a pulmonary specialist.

The pulmonary specialists did a series of tests as well, then called 2 weeks later. She said "You have cancer. Someone from Oncology will call you soon to let you know what to do next." We were shocked! Mainly because of the way she delivered the news.

Two more weeks went by before we got into Oncology. The doctors there told us that he had cancer in his spine, lymph nodes, and lungs. The cancer was attributed to his Agent Orange exposure. It was incurable, and without chemo, he would probably only live about 6 months. With chemo, he'd probably have a year or so.

His pain was so terrible that he said "I wish they'd just put me in a medically-induced coma, or just kill me now!". However, he decided to go for chemo, and had it a week later. He handled it pretty well, and the swelling went down in his neck. After about a week, he seemed almost like his old self. He'd putter around in the yard, and friends would come to visit. He encouraged me to go back to work, and I started on May 28, 2010.

Memorial Day Weekend, 2010

When I came home from my first day at work, my husband was sitting out in the yard, waiting for me. He was in a really good mood, and told me he felt the best he had in months. He gave me a big hug, and told me some friends were coming over to visit. It was such a beautiful, happy day!

My brother came by to visit as well, and we were visiting inside the house. My husband came in to tell me that he was going to put up new flags, since it was Memorial Day weekend. We always celebrated this holiday with friends & family.

The next thing I knew, my husband came back in the house, and slumped into the recliner. It was so hot outside that I thought he had heat stroke. I put a washcloth on his head, and tried to get him to drink some water. But he just sat there. He couldn't move nor speak, so I called 911.

Air Evac helicopter landing in our front yard
Air Evac helicopter landing in our front yard | Source

The paramedics showed up in no time, and decided he must be having a stroke. They called the air ambulance, and it landed in our front yard just minutes later. Strangely enough, I took a picture of it when it landed. I told my brother that my husband would find it amusing that he got to ride in a helicopter after all these years.

The hospital was an hour and a half away, and I think I spent the entire trip on the phone calling all the family. The ER waiting room was filled with relatives by the time I arrived. The doctors let me know they had already given him a CT scan, and it showed a brain hemorrhage, probably caused by the chemo.

I stayed with him all night. He was finally admitted to ICU, where he spent the next 4 days.

To Love Someone Is To Let Them Go

I will never forget the doctor calling me aside and saying "It's time to decide what to do". I'm surprised that I can remember it, as so much was going on through this ordeal. The doctor told me that my husband was not going to recover; he would never speak or walk again. His right side was paralyzed, and he could not swallow on his own. He was literally trapped inside his cancer-riddled and pain-filled body.

I asked the doctor what he would do if it was his wife, and he replied "I love her, so I'd let her go". He told me that we could insert a feeding tube, that could keep him alive until the cancer killed him. This could be a few weeks, or possibly a year. The cancer would grow, and in turn, so would his pain.

My husband and I had discussed this in great depth a number of times. He wanted no part of a feeding tube, and he wanted to die with dignity, at home. I'd like to say that my decision was easy because of this, but it wasn't. It was heart-breaking. So I told the doctor, "I'm going to take him home."

It took a couple of more days before I located a hospice that would come out to our home in the country. The day before they came, I got the family together at the house, and we stripped the living room of all furniture, so his hospital bed could be set up. I thought the living room would be best, as we have a huge picture window facing outdoors. Plus, any company that he had would have room to sit & visit with him.

He came home on Monday, June 8th, and got settled in. My stepson (his son), and his girlfriend agreed to help me take care of him, as the hospice nurse came only once a day, for an hour at a time. We were instructed on medications and how to give them, how to work the oxygen machine, and how to care for him in general.

We took care of my husband in shifts; I usually took the night shift, as I had a lot to do during the day. Like visiting funeral homes, and talking to a minister about services. I quit eating for the most part, and developed insomnia. I worried about my husband, and I worried about my stepson. I was so stressed and exhausted that I didn't worry about myself. Time for that later!

My husband's hair finally fell out from the chemo, making him look much older than he was. Also, without food, he was losing a lot of weight, and seemed to be just fading away. Every once in a while he'd "come to", and smile a bit, and try to talk. Mostly, he just slept.

Friends & family came & went. Most of that is a blur. His old boss from the concrete company came by every evening. He'd prop my husband up, support him with an arm around his shoulder, and just talk away. It didn't matter that my husband couldn't talk back.

On Sunday, his father came over, as well as some close friends. We got my husband up out of his bed, took him outside to the picnic table, and let him enjoy the friendship & sunshine. He seemed pretty alert & happy that afternoon.

After we put him back to bed, just about everyone left. I got in my chair beside his bed, and rested my head on his pillow. He was still for a long time, so I was surprised when he reached over, and stroked my forehead. He grabbed my hand, and started whispering to me. I have no idea what he said, but it seemed he was trying to comfort me.

Last Photo Of Us Taken Together

Last photo of us taken together - May 2010
Last photo of us taken together - May 2010 | Source

His Last Day

On Tuesday, June 15, a new hospice nurse came early in the day. She said she was there to give us some "relief", and would be there all day. I took the opportunity to go to the funeral home, then run a few errands. When I returned, I told my stepson to go do something fun. He decided to go fishing.

Visitors came & went all day. Around 8:30 in the evening, I came in and put my hand on his chest. He looked up at me, then closed his eyes & took his final breath. It sounded just like a sigh of relief.

The nurse said we needed to call out the medical examiner, but I wouldn't let her do it until my stepson came home. Instead, I contacted my husband's best friends, and they came over to say their goodbyes. We turned on the Rolling Stones - my husband's favorite band - and waited for my stepson. When he came home a little after 10 pm, he, in turn, made the nurse wait for the call.

Finally, a little before 11:00 pm, the medical examiner & funeral director arrived. We all said one last "Good-Bye", then the funeral director covered him in a quilt. I followed him out to the hearse, and watched them drive away into the night.

Final Farewells

He wanted to be buried in the front yard, under the flagpole. While it could have been arranged, the minister talked me out of it. He told me that it would be too difficult for me to face each day. So instead, I made arrangements for him to be buried at DFW National Cemetery. It is such a gorgeous place, and he is surrounded by soldiers just like himself.

Releasing the balloons at my husband's memorial service
Releasing the balloons at my husband's memorial service | Source

His memorial service was the day after the burial. It was at a small, country church near our house. The minister thought I'd gone crazy, because I told him he must wear overalls instead of a suit. I told all who were attending to wear Rolling Stones t-shirts, and many of them did. The Patriot Guard Riders came out to honor him, complete with US flags.

After the service, we released helium balloons into the air. It was such an awesome sight! It felt like we were sending our love out to him in the sky.

My husband in front of his flag pole, 2009
My husband in front of his flag pole, 2009 | Source

Love Like There Is No Tomorrow

A few months after he passed on, I had the inside of my wedding ring engraved with "Love Like There Is No Tomorrow". I am so grateful that we got back together, and that I had the opportunity to share with him the last years of his life. Even with all the health issues, it was totally worth it. I treasure the memories of the times - and the love - we shared.

We had such a good time, a good marriage, and good memories:

**Having silly conversations about things like bedbugs until the wee hours of the morning

**Finding shapes & people in the clouds

**Taking long drives in the evening to look for wild animals

**Learning how to trap wild animals and catch snakes

**Watching him dance & sing in the living room, using a light bulb as a pretend microphone

**Target shooting in the front yard

**Meals in town, followed by drives in the country

**Listening to him tell tall tales with his friends

**Going fishing, only to catch a snapping turtle

**Listening to his huge collection of Rolling Stones and Keith Richards CDs

**Building chicken coops

I miss his smile, his laugh, and his great sense of humor. Above all, I miss his love. I grieve for him, and for us. I re-live his final days almost every day. Almost everyone who knew him has "moved on", and I feel frozen in time.

Yet, I'm very grateful. We knew he was going to go, so we took the opportunity to love, because we knew there would be no tomorrow.

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Thank you so very much for taking the time to read this story of our love! While our "forever" didn't last as long as we hoped, the "forever" we did have was so very, very good!

I hope you take the time to let the people you love know it. It is probably the best gift that you can give!


Remembering & Celebrating

March 15, 2012

Today would have been my husband's 60th birthday. It's hard to believe he's been gone for 21 months! I've had a couple of people tell me today that they are "sorry".

While I appreciate the sentiment, I am not sorry. If he hadn't been born on this day 60 years ago, I wouldn't have enjoyed the times together with him, his enjoyment of life, and his love. I am grateful for today, because it is a day to celebrate his birth, and remember the life we had together.

Happy Birthday!

This article is copyright 2012-2016 Country-Sunshine, and was originally published on Squidoo on January 6, 2012

© 2012 Country Sunshine

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      Mary Norton 2 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      We just finished work in Vietnam and our hotel is right beside Hanoi Hilton. Sometimes, I go in the garden there and just sit and pray that war be no more in our world. So many Cambodians and Vietnamese still suffer from Agent Orange. I am really sorry for your husband but I do love your story.

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      Country Sunshine 2 years ago from Texas

      @gottaloveit2: The strength came from my heart and soul. When I wrote the story, the words flowed from within! I appreciate your multiple visits, and am glad the words have touched you in some way.

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      Country Sunshine 2 years ago from Texas

      @Sylvestermouse: When I first penned our story, the tears rolled down my cheeks as the words flowed. When I've gone back to read it over the years, I smile more than weep, but I still feel the old "heart-strings" being tugged. I will always love and miss him, but I'm just grateful that we found each other again after 21 years. This story was more than just a tribute; instead, I wanted everyone to keep their hearts open to love.

      Thank you for posting it on your blog, for your condolences and comments!

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      Country Sunshine 2 years ago from Texas

      @DawnRae64: It has been 4 years, 1 month and 2 weeks since he passed, and I still expect him to walk in the door. I was blessed to have such a wonderful caring person in my life! If you keep your heart open to love, it will find a way in!

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      Country Sunshine 2 years ago from Texas

      @Wednesday-Elf: When you have that special love, it is something you treasure forever. Thank you for the return visit. I too read this article on occasion, and it brings a smile to my face (and sometimes a tear or two). Bless you, Wednesday_Elf!

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      AlleyCatLane 2 years ago

      Back for a second read. This is such an amazing love story. It's wonderful that you two had a second chance to share your love for each other.

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      gottaloveit2 2 years ago

      Came by for another read - this is one of my top 10 articles here at Squidoo. So exquisitely written. I'm grateful that you had the strength to pen this one. I'm not sure I would have.

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      Dawn 2 years ago from Maryland, USA

      What a painful, beautiful, and loving story. We all hope for someone who loves us like that, and loves us to the end. I can't comment further because I can't stop crying yet.

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      Wednesday-Elf 3 years ago from Savannah, Georgia

      I last visited this page (and left a message) 3.5 years ago and your 'Love Story' is just as special today as it was then. I, too, had a special 'forever' love and my hubby is still in my heart to this day more than 7 years after his death. I know yours is too.

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      Ruthi 3 years ago

      What a treasure of a tribute to love you have shared here. Thank you for sharing the journey you and your husband took through life together. Your story brought tears to my eyes but a smile to my spirit.

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      Cynthia Sylvestermouse 3 years ago from United States

      I was here yesterday and I was so deeply moved by your love story that I dedicated my entire post to it today on Review This!

      By the time I finished reading, I had tears dripping off my face. I am so very sorry for your lose. I am also glad you found each other again, remarried and experienced love the way it should be. Deep, abiding and selfless.

      For myself, I appreciate the reminder to Live Like There is No Tomorrow.

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      Suunnyy 4 years ago

      Aww this is such a wonderful love story and I feel so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story with us, I almost cryed at the end.

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      Eleni Bat 4 years ago from Greece

      The in law fathers of my brother and my sister died from cancer. It is the worst feeling see someone you love have so much pain. This is an amazing lens.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Oh, so beautiful happy and sad. I felt tears coming. So sorry for your loss. I am dreading that day but I will love my hubby to be so much. Thanks for making me see that little things don't matter. Like silly rows and silly things he does. :) Much love and Happy New Year.

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      DeboraR 4 years ago

      A beautiful love story.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Thanks for sharing your love story

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      Hannah Writes 4 years ago

      This is a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it with us.

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      srsddn lm 4 years ago

      Thanks for mustering courage to share all this. It is not so easy.

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      Mamabyrd 4 years ago

      God Bless you! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.

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      Mamaboo LM 5 years ago

      Your story gave me shivers. You are a blessed woman. I feel as though anything I could say would be contrite and belittle. Be blessed and know that one day you will see him again!

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      I cried reading this lens. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am so sorry for your loss, but I am happy that you were able to enjoy the time you did have with your husband.

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      William Leverne Smith 5 years ago from Hollister, MO

      Thank you for sharing... one more angel blessing headed your way! ;-)

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      This is so sad, truly feel for your loss, much of us have also gone through the pain of losing our brothers and sisters to agent orange. thanks again for sharing this.

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      Little Linda Pinda 5 years ago from Florida

      Your love reminds me of my mom and dad's love they shared. My mom loves talking about my dad. Too many people are afraid talking about will only make her sadder. Thank you for sharing your love story with us. Beautiful. God Bless You.

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      Einar A 5 years ago

      CountrySunshine, I've been wanting to comment on this lens since I first read it four months ago, but I never could come up with the right words. I will just say that it was difficult to read and also such a blessing to me--bless you for loving him the way that you did.

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      Ahdilarum 5 years ago

      True love story.. Felt like watching movie.. Great narration and feelings were seen in words.. Great..

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      Ram Ramakrishnan 5 years ago

      Beautiful ....

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      What a touching story. I'm so happy that you found each other again, and gave it another try. I've never seen a lens with so many angel blessings, and this love story deserves every one. Thanks for sharing it.

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      tonyb65 5 years ago

      What a moving and wonderful story, thanks for telling it.

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      JesPiddlin 5 years ago

      This is such a beautiful story you have shared. Thank you.

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      online-punch-clock 5 years ago

      lovely story..thanks for sharing....

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      JoyfulReviewer 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your very moving love story!

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      etravelvn 5 years ago

      Lovely story!

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      happynutritionist 5 years ago

      I am so happy that you stopped by so that I could find you, meet you, and read your remarkable story. I join the many who have blessed this lens, so very very deserving. God bless you for all that you did, and the lesson you have taught to me about how to manage things when a loved one is dying. *blessed*

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      Beautiful love story

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      kimark421 5 years ago

      What a beautiful love story. Frankly, I am moved beyond words. Thank you for sharing this.

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      Peta Panos 5 years ago from Norway

      What a beautiful love story - full of love, tenderness, compassion and empathy. You are so courageous and open hearted to share your truth - Namaste. I have no doubt that your husband is with you always.

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      bidzinger 5 years ago

      You are a remarkable and wonderful woman and this is truly a great love story. Your husband sounded like a wonderful man,

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      crp123 5 years ago

      Your love story left me with moved heart and misty eyes. You are great you knew to forget and forgive as well as to remember and love. Yes you have taught me to love like there is no tomorrow. God bless you.

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      Kathryn Wallace 5 years ago from Greenbank, WA, USA

      I am so moved by your story, your courage, and your love.

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      Heidi Reina 5 years ago from USA

      A love story like no other. Thank you for sharing it with us.

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      RomanticMe 5 years ago

      wow thank you so much for that

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      ronberry lm 5 years ago

      Thank you for that wonderful love story. You've reminded me that nobody promises tomorrow - show the person you love how you feel. Your "forever" love is just that. It lives in you, and anyone who's read this. God Bless You!

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      TripleTK LM 5 years ago

      A fantastic Valentine's story...thank you for sharing your love story.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      this is so touching. I'm glad that you got to enjoy life with him its just too bad that it had to end so soon. but it sounds like you really treasure your memories with him

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      printabledolls 5 years ago

      soooooooooo romantic, congrats and love love love!

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      this is an amazing story, i have my love besides me,but its too young for now...will be getting married soon...im so inspired and will love him everyday like there is no tomorrow:) wonderful

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      Titia Geertman 5 years ago from Waterlandkerkje - The Netherlands

      This really is a fairy tale as a fairy tale should be, except for the too soon passing away of the love of your life, but real life isn't always a fairy tale. A great tribute to the man who couldn't stop loving you. Thanks for sharing your story.

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      Country Sunshine 5 years ago from Texas

      @earthybirthymum: It's much better to appreciate the moment, then have to look back at it! Thanks so much for taking the time to read my story!

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      Country Sunshine 5 years ago from Texas

      @relish interiors: Thank you for the kind words, and the nomination. I do appreciate you taking the time to read our story!

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      earthybirthymum 5 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      Thank you for sharing your story. You've reminded me of how lucky I am to be in this moment.

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      dahlia369 5 years ago

      Don't know what to say but that a love/relationship like this must be the most precious thing in one's life...

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      girlfriendfactory 5 years ago

      Dropping back in with a Flyby Winging which can be found among the other blessed lenses for today at Have Wings Will Bless and I'm nominating it for the Valentiniest Lens Quest because a love like this is the most Valentiniest thing I've ever seen in my 504 months on this planet!

      They may call me an aimless wanderer, but not all who wander are aimless and I'm glad my aim was good when I wandered upon this. ~Ren

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      LauraTelier 5 years ago

      What a wonderful lens, though I have tears in my eyes now. What a big thing to share and what a way to remind many of us how lucky we are.

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      JoshSteinRealtor 5 years ago

      beautiful story!

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      Liajoe 5 years ago

      Thank you for reminding us :)

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      Country Sunshine 5 years ago from Texas

      @PollyFreakingAnna: Exactly! I have much more compassion now for others who have gone through hospice care. Having to be the one to make all the difficult decisions - although they were the right ones - has change my life forever. I didn't expect things to change so much, especially with myself. I 'move on' but I don't, at the same time. Thanks so much for your understanding & kind words!

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      PollyFreakingAnna 5 years ago

      You tell a beautiful story. I laughed, I was angry at the doctor, and now I'm so sad. I understand about feeling stuck in time. It's hard to relate to other people now who haven't been through hospice care and the mixed moment at the end of heartbreak and relief. Everything else seems so trivial, and the experience alters every single event for the people who have to go on living. You're not alone.

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      Itaya Lightbourne 5 years ago from Topeka, KS

      Such a beautiful and touching love story! Thank you for opening your heart and sharing your memories with us all. I also appreciate your reminder to show those that we love our love every day. Many blessings to you! :)

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      Lynda Makara 5 years ago from California

      You told your story so beautifully. The memories you shared at the end almost make me feel like I knew him. A very honest and loving tribute.

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      AlleyCatLane 5 years ago

      What a wonderful story. Thanks for sharing your wonderful love with us. Blessed.

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      squid-pinkchic18 5 years ago

      Wow. Your story is soooo very touching, it brought tears to my eyes. Such love is hard to find, but you two had something very special, you must be very proud! This lens has been blessed by many squid angels but I'm going to add one more. Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt, precious story with us.

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      JohannaBaker 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your love story with us....

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      curious0927 5 years ago

      Lovely! I tried to skim, but couldn't. I especially like your *starred* things you did together at the end, Bless You!

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      LasgalenArts 5 years ago

      Wow you'd found your soul mate. Thank you for sharing.

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      ISparkle 5 years ago

      lovely story...

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      Totus Mundus 5 years ago

      Very lovely, very sad story.

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      Mahogany LM 5 years ago

      Awww :)

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      ViJuvenate 5 years ago

      Well, I"m starting the morning with tears streaming down my face. What a beautiful love story. He truly love you, even through all his suffering. I have a friend who also suffers greatly from his experiences concerning Vietnam, though for him it was not the sniper job he had, it was what happened afterward. Your husband reminds me of him. So sweet, generous, kind, but on the inside - so much pain to deal with. The love he shared with you must have given him great healing. May you be blessed.

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      jlshernandez 5 years ago

      Such a lovely love story that is timeless. I could not stop reading. Thank you for sharing such a heartwarming story. Blessed by a Squid Angel.

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      ForestsOfTranqu 5 years ago

      @Country-Sunshine: Nah, those 'crazies' were tormenting us before my partner got sick. Needless to say, my partners ex-wife got thrown into jail for driving her car into a person's house that no longer wanted her living there, and for her trying to play "mind-games" ('somewhat cut-the-wrists-game' she tried playing on my partner so she could hope to get a "roof over her head" with him).

      --- I thank you very much for replying. I really do hope you are doing ok these days.

      What I learned from my relationship with my past partner is, I will never go out with another 'NorthEasterner' ever again. No more coastal cities, just 'midwestern or southern country' for me from now on.

      Take good care :]

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      Matthew 5 years ago from Silicon Valley

      Thank you for sharing your extremely touching story. It serves not only as a reminder to all of us that love is hard but worth the fight, as well as just the wonder that is life. May you find peace and happiness in his memory.

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      grflgrfl 5 years ago

      Such a heartwarming love storing. Thank you for sharing it. There are many of us still waiting for that true love.

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      jeremykim2011 5 years ago

      Valentine's Day is just around the corner!

      Dropping by again to admire your love story once more.

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      grannysage 5 years ago

      It was a hard decision to make, but you gave him the gift of death with dignity. My father had a feeding tube and lay in a coma for 2 years. I know he would not have wanted that. I believe that death is not the end, just passing through the door to another part of life. Thank you for this heartfelt story.

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      Ruthi 5 years ago

      Yours is truly a grand love story. Thank you for sharing your treasure. I add my blessings and a bit o' sunshine.

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      Country Sunshine 5 years ago from Texas

      @ForestsOfTranqu: Ah, but I understand that part too. Death & grief do weird things to people. It can bring out the good, but it also brings out the bad. I've had a few experiences like yours, and I feel for you. It's hard to get through it all when there are crazies around messing with your head (and things!).

      Thank you for your kind comment, and I hope you are doing good as well!

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      ForestsOfTranqu 5 years ago

      My partner of 7 years suffered with cancer and it took his life. I did "everything" I could to help him and make him feel better. In return I got abused mentally by his "money-obsessed-family-members", I got chased by his 'ex-wife' who followed me wanting to hit me with a baseball bat.

      I got no 'thanks or appreciation' at all from his family, because where we grew up people were only interested in "controlling & using others" and trying to con money out of others. ------ What a beautiful story you wrote of your husband. I hope you are doing well these days.

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      Country Sunshine 5 years ago from Texas

      @anonymous: Thank you, Tipi! I'm so humbled & awed that Our Love Story has touched so many people! Much appreciation to you and everyone else!

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      This is such a beautiful love story, and you are a wonderful writer. Thank you for sharing!

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      I was just here to like and bless your love story as LotD and am pleased to return with a congratulations for receiving Valentine's front page honors!

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      flicker lm 5 years ago

      Very moving. Thanks for sharing your story of love.

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      PaulaSquidoo 5 years ago

      Very touching. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

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      JoleneBelmain 5 years ago

      Such a touching love story, I have tears in my eyes... My love and I are absolute soul mates, as were the two of you. It is sad that you two didn't have more time together, but it's nice to know that he no longer suffers. Thank-you so much for sharing your love story with all of us :)

      ~BLESSED~

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      blondebecky 5 years ago

      It was such a lovely read, im sohappy for you :)

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      NAIZA LM 5 years ago

      What an enduring love story. Thank you for sharing it for us to read. :)

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      goo2eyes lm 5 years ago

      i am sorry about his passing but his love for you will last forever. he will always be with you and thru this lens, he will be unforgettable.

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      waterlily78 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing this, what a beautiful and touching story.

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      DecoratingEvents 5 years ago

      That's a forever love. Thanks so much for being brave enough to share.

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      Christine Larsen 5 years ago from South Australia

      Ahhh...the depth of the quality - if not the quantity you would have wished

      Thank you for sharing so much in this beautiful lens.

      He is watching over you, every day of your Life - there is no doubt of that.

      Christine

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      Light-Life-Energy 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing such intimate moments of your life.

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      Light-Life-Energy 5 years ago

      thank you for sharing such intimate moments of your life.

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      Stephanie Tietjen 5 years ago from Albuquerque, New Mexico

      My tears were flowing throughout. Thanks for your wonderful story, told so well.

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      andrearicciardi 5 years ago

      This story put me on the verge of tears! Very touching!

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      littletree1524 5 years ago

      This is a wonderful story. Writing about it helps let the grief out. God Bless you and give you the strength to move forward with your life. Thank You for sharing, it was a great story.

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      Ann Hinds 5 years ago from So Cal

      Taking the time to let people know you love them is what I am going to take away from this. Thanks for the reminder. Your story has touched me.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing this touching tale of true love. May God be with you and fill your heart!

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      sousababy 5 years ago

      Came back to google +1 this beautiful love story.

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      sousababy 5 years ago

      Incredible, I was held by every word. Thank you so much for teaching us what really matters. May his love sustain you and yours the rest of your days on this earth. You know he is not longer in pain . . and sometimes (often?), death is a gift. I haven't cried like this in a long time, after reading such a heartfelt story . . this must be nominated as the best Valentine's Day lens.

      Gratefully,

      Rose

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      JackieSonia 5 years ago

      That's a beautiful love story. So touching. I was moved to tears reading it. My God bless you.

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      Delia 5 years ago

      What a heartfelt tribute to your husband. I'm sorry your husband had to suffer so much and I'm sorry you had to go through all this, but your true love showed and not many people can claim that. I'm married to a Vietnam Vet and have been Blessed for 49 years of marriage, he has his PTSD problems but can deal with them. I pray for your heart to heal, keeping his smile and the good memories forever. I Thank Your husband for his service and for giving his life (he lost it because of A.G.) Thank You for sharing your touching Love Story ~d-artist Squid Angel Blessed this lens~

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      rainbowbutterfl1 5 years ago

      I can't hold my tears while reading your story. Truly a must read love story...

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      happygirl4 5 years ago

      That is truly touching and inspirational. Thank you.

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      erin-elise 5 years ago

      Oh my gosh, I am in tears and I am so moved by your story of love. Bless you and your family and thank you so much for sharing.

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      santorini98 5 years ago

      A story of love. Each word full of love to him and to you.

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      suzy-t 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing this story.

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      Close2Art LM 5 years ago

      A very touching story, Blessed

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      Ddegrote84 5 years ago

      This story has touched my heart. Many blessings to you and your family.

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      Thrinsdream 5 years ago

      Yup, made me cry too! It is wonderful to be able to appreciate your love and that you do in bucket full. I wish you all the love in the world. With thanks, appreciation and a hug. Cathi x

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      jaredsgirl 5 years ago

      The most beautifully happy and sad story I've ever read. Thank you so much for sharing your memories with us. You and your husband were truly blessed to have a love that most people can only dream about. Your story is an inspiration...that brought tears to my eyes. God bless you.

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      Auntiekatkat 5 years ago

      Well I can't say I loved reading this lens and I am not ashamed to say it made me cry. it is beautifully crafted and well written poignant, punchy and heart wrenching, and I have bookmarked it to come back and remind myself why I am a lifelong pacifist. I am old enough to reember the Vietnam it's images stained my teenage years and very possibly shaped my beliefs. What a price "It's just the cost of Agent Orange". Can't see anything just in it myself in either use of the word.

      However, on the positive side you had a happiness that many other people don't get although they spend a lifetime looking. Thank you for taking the time to share your memories good and bad.

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      Chuck Nelson 5 years ago from California

      God bless you. A bitter sweet story.

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      pepper0617 lm 5 years ago

      A very beautiful, and loving story. I lost my husband to cancer. You enjoy the time you have, and miss them when they are gone. Thanks for sharing your beautiful story.

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      Laraine Sims 5 years ago from Lake Country, B.C.

      Losing a loved one in death is a traumatic experience, my heart goes out to you. Blessed by this angel.

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      Joanie Ruppel 5 years ago from Keller, Texas

      Dear Country Sunshine, a beautiful story. We are akin; my husband died in February 2010 on Valentine's Day. I recently wrote a lens about living on a grief journey. I hope you will stop by and read it. I also live in the DFW area. My best to you....

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      Nancy Tate Hellams 5 years ago from Pendleton, SC

      Oh me! I read every word of your beautiful and very touching Love Story. Thank you so much for sharing.

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      Tom Maybrier 5 years ago

      A beautiful story told in a beautiful lens. May your heart be at peace.

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      RinchenChodron 5 years ago

      What a touching love story! You were lucky to have had that time together. Great lens.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      surprised this hasn't gotten a purple star yet, I'll nominate it to it, thank you for sharing his story with us.

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      Keioffa LM 5 years ago

      This is such a moving love story.. Thank you for taking the time to share!

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      Johanna Eisler 5 years ago

      How you touched our hearts! Thank you.

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      mumsgather 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your beautiful love story with us.

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      craftblogger lm 5 years ago

      What a beautiful and touching love story... Thank you for sharing :)

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      Steve Martaindale 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your beautiful love story.

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      lasertek lm 5 years ago

      Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing this with all of us.

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      Squidoo-Fans 5 years ago

      What a wonderful story well done!

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      Renaissance Woman 5 years ago from Colorado

      What a beautiful love story. It was a privilege to in be allowed this glimpse into you and your husband's forever love. A lovely tribute.

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      gottaloveit2 5 years ago

      You had me in tears. What a beautiful tribute to your husband and, what a wonderful testament to true love. Blessed.

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      benny77 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your story!!

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      MariaMontgomery 5 years ago from Central Florida, USA

      What a beautiful, joyful, but also heartbreaking, story. Thank you for sharing it with us.

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      River_Rose 5 years ago

      I can relate to the husband with PTSD . Thank you for sharing.

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      Cloud98 5 years ago

      this story is so beautiful, love conquers all... stay strong, keep the memories close to your heart and never forget the good times

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      E L Seaton 5 years ago from Virginia

      Sounds like the two of you got it all right when it mattered. Thanks for opening a door into your lives to let us outsiders in a little ways and see some of the deeper meanings of life.

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      darciefrench lm 5 years ago

      How lovely .. I feel your pain, your love, your strength. We are so privileged to walk beside those who love, even if for just a little while. Thank-you for sharing your story.

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      DebMartin 5 years ago

      I'm without words.

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      LadyCharlie 5 years ago

      Wonderful story...I'm happy that you both found a great love for each other. Blessed

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      misterjake 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your lovely story. Anyway, couple week's ago my lovely wife went back to her country for 2 month. We had been married for only 3 short years and this is the first time we have been apart. Right now I miss her very much so. I just hope our marriage will last as long as yours did. After reading your story, you are my inspiration. Keep up the good job.

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      LindaFoster LM 5 years ago

      Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful story, to have a love for each other such as you and your husband had is very special.

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      kosmicfashions 5 years ago

      Your story is so touching...it has made me resolve that I would value each passing day by letting my dear one know how much I love him. Thank you for sharing <3

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      Eileen 5 years ago from Western Cape , South Africa

      Very touching .... thanks for sharing

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      Your story warmed my heart and brought tears to my eye's. Great lens loved it.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      Awww! Thank you for sharing your story. Now your husband has a lasting memorial online as well as off.

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      mary lighthouse15 5 years ago

      Such a beautiful and moving story! I read each and every word of it...Just so awesome and unconditional kind of love...

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      SiochainGraSonas 5 years ago

      You beautiful story brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing.

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      shoefiend 5 years ago

      what a sweet and sad story

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      Edutopia 5 years ago

      What a great story. Touching lens.

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      sidther lm 5 years ago

      I am so glad that you did have that time together. Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful story, he sounds like he was a wonderful man.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      What your husband went through is very common for vets and drinking is the only way that they can deal with it I am really glad that he went for help and that the last years of his life with you were quality years, even though he has passed away your memories never will so forever is still forever. I admire your strength in dealing with his illness it wouldn't have been easy, and thank you for sharing this with us

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      SquidooMBA 5 years ago

      Beautiful. Thanks for sharing...

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      ShortStuffsSecr 5 years ago

      Beautifully written. Thank you so much for sharing your love story with the world. It takes a lot of courage to write about something so personal. I hope the future brings happiness back into your life.

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      writerkath 5 years ago

      Your lovely, heartfelt story made me cry. I can feel your sorrow - AND your love for your husband. I wish you peace and healing... I'm sure your story will inspire many people to look a little differently at their own relationships! Thank you for sharing. ~^~*Blessed*~^~ Kath

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      sana_master 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your story. It can't have been easy and I hope the process was cathartic. You sound like you're in a good place and realise how lucky you were in having what you had, despite the fact that it was taken from you far sooner than was ideal. Heart warming... :)

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      BobBlackUK 5 years ago

      An amazing story, beautifully told. I was very moved. A truly deserved LOTD!

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      miaponzo 5 years ago

      OMG I'm so sorry for your loss.. but thank you deeply for sharing it. Blessed!

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      This story makes me realize, even more, how important it is to live in the moment.

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      horus911 5 years ago

      well done bravo

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      MCB2011 5 years ago

      Thank you for your story.

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      Beverly Lemley 5 years ago from Raleigh, NC

      Your love story says so much! The love you had for each other, I am sure, was an inspiration to many who knew all the ups and down. Your story today is touching folks far and wide! Your wish that others will take time to share and show their love is spoken very loudly and lovingly! As tears come down for your loss, I know your wondrous story of shared love is bound to touch many and reminds us how precious love is! My heart is with you in your loss. Thank you for sharing your precious story! B : )

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      jimbarnes lm 5 years ago

      i was so touched by your story, thank you pastor jim barnes

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      CanadaREVIEW 5 years ago

      I am glad you had the chance to touch and feel that happiness for a time. Your story touched my heart, I am sure he is proud of you today.

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      girlfriendfactory 5 years ago

      Congratulations on LoTD! What a wonderfully touching story and thank you for sharing it! How lucky you both were to have found each other again. Second chances aren't afforded to everyone and it's beautiful to see people who make the most those given to them.

      I have one wish for you and it's that you feel happiness again. I feel certain that he would want that for you, too, even while you continue to miss him. Best wishes, ~Ren

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      gypsyman27 lm 5 years ago

      A very comprehensive story, I am a Vietnam Vet as well, but I faired better than your man. I am so sorry that he is gone, it doesn't seem fair. Try to cope with your feelings. See you around the galaxy...

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      LynetteBell 5 years ago from Christchurch, New Zealand

      Thank you for sharing your love story. Take care

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      hzwill 5 years ago

      I won't say I am sorry for your loss.You are really lucky women to meet this man.

      Hope these sweet memories will keep you happy every each day.

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      Fay Favored 5 years ago from USA

      I'm very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing such a touching story.

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      KimGiancaterino 5 years ago

      Anyone who can read your story without crying must be tough indeed. Congratulations on your LOTD honor.

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      flycatcherrr 5 years ago

      I hardly know what to say - your story is deeply moving, and I thank you for sharing it with us so courageously. "Love Like There Is No Tomorrow" is a valuable lesson. Thank you.

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      BuddyBink 5 years ago

      Thank You for sharing a touching part of your life.

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      Barbara Tremblay Cipak 5 years ago from Toronto, Canada

      Well, this has me weeping..beautifully written and so moving. My heart is happy for you for having him, and aches for you because you miss him. God Bless. Thinking of you right now.

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      WaynesWorld LM 5 years ago

      So sorry for you loss.

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      We can all pray we have such a good partner and that they miss us when we are gone.

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      May GOD bless your life mightily!

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      lizholy 5 years ago

      Wow, this is one moving story. My husband and I also reconnected after 19 years, we just got married in 2010 - for ever - Thank you for sharing.

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      quicpost 5 years ago

      What can you say to ease the pain. When there is just a clasp of the hands to say I understand may be enough for now. There never can be the right words to say to a heart that aches. I too have lost loved ones and I have their pictures that I clutch at times with tears in my eyes and pain in my heart for I'll never see them again.

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      Trina Sonenberg 5 years ago from Nucla, Colorado

      What a beautiful tribute. You have been a lucky woman. I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.

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      coolgrey 5 years ago

      The joy of love shared is the ultimate gift of a lifetime.

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      blue22d 5 years ago

      Such a wonderful story and you tell it well.

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      MissionBoundCre 5 years ago

      Whatever I could possibly think of to say just wouldn't do. Thank you. I've cried and laughed and Thanked God that we can find beauty in this sometimes ugly world.

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      phi2bme lm 5 years ago

      I am so touched by your love story. Thanks for sharing

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      clouda9 lm 5 years ago

      A beautifully told story of love! Thanks for sharing it here on Squidoo. *Blessed and congrats on LOTD.

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      peacefullyhappy 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing this...

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      Very nice :)

      Giresun haber

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      Virginia Allain 5 years ago from Central Florida

      Thank you for sharing your forever love story with us. You did a wonderful job explaining how it developed over the difficulties.

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      SecondHandJoe LM 5 years ago

      What a wonderful story. I hope someone feels about me, as you did(do) about him! Stop by sometime and say hello!

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      Sara Krentz 5 years ago from USA

      Thanks for sharing your beautiful, touching story.

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      jimmyworldstar 5 years ago

      This is a wonderful tribute to your husband, you've both been through traumatic experiences and bad marriages but found your way back to each other. Bless you.

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      Patricia 5 years ago

      Sorry for your loss. Your story warms my heart and breaks it. I lost my step dad to cancer so I could relate to the hospice and chemo. I have a husband I was with and then apart for 4 years and now we have been back together for 2 years so I get that as well.

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      Tonie Cook 5 years ago from USA

      Love.

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      BunnyFabulous 5 years ago from Central Florida

      Thank you for sharing this lovely story of your relationship with your husband. Congrats on LOTD!

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      tssfacts 5 years ago

      What an endearing story of love. Thank you for sharing it with us. Congratulations on your LOTD.

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      flowski lm 5 years ago

      Now I need to change my contacts because you made me cry, gee thanks...

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      Lorelei Cohen 5 years ago from Canada

      This is the saddest love story that I have ever read. I am so very glad that you remarried your husband.

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      bjslapidary 5 years ago

      Thanks for sharing your story with us. It makes a person appreciate life more.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your story of love with us, I know that it must have been difficult to write. At my husband's funeral, I played a song by Kris Kristofferson called a "Moment Of Forever". There is a line in it that says, "I'm so happy I got to dance with you in this moment of forever". Somehow, I think you probably feel that way too. Bless you!

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      Angela unLocked 5 years ago

      Beautiful.

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      Michey LM 5 years ago

      Great story, thanks for sharing, congrats for LOTD

      All the best

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      kathysart 5 years ago

      Oh my goodness I am so sorry for your loss and yet I am so happy for you that you were with the love of your life for as long as you were. Angel blessed.

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      Susan Deppner 5 years ago from Arkansas USA

      What a touching story. Thank you so much for sharing it here. So glad, as Lens of the Day, many will have an opportunity to read it. Blessings to you!

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      fullofshoes 5 years ago

      I love your story; it brought tears to my eyes.

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      OzGirl LM 5 years ago

      What a beautiful story, and so well told by you. I am so sorry for your grief and hope that you will find numerous ways to help fill the empty space that he has left in your life. You are so brave to share your very intimate story here. Sending virtual hugs your way.

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      Heather Burns 5 years ago from Wexford, Ireland

      oh my God! Crying through this wonderful love story. Congrats on Lotd and for living a love story.

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      ernieplotter 5 years ago

      Thanks for sharing! Great story!

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      You touched my soul with this... You shared the deepest love and that is priceless...

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      shauna1934 5 years ago

      wonderful story. so real. many blessings to you.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      What a beautiful and heart-wrenching story. I know, of course, that it is much more than a story to you, and it is moving that you shared it. I hope you find a sense of peace as time passes, one that is richer for having loved your soul mate.

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      Writing Nag 5 years ago from Colorado Springs, Colorado

      A beautiful love story.

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      DogWatchColumbus 5 years ago

      Wow, what a story. Gave me goosebumps. Thank you so much for sharing.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      My love and I are both crying as I read this to her. Thank you. We are lesbians with 5 kids between us, and live in a major city. Touched me very deeply even though my own story is so very different than yours. Thank you for taking the time to share.

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      Rantsand 5 years ago

      Touching. Thank you for sharing your story of love and loss. I know it took strength and dedication to write this lens.

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      Julia Morais 5 years ago

      Beautiful lens. Brought tears to my eyes. I hope my partner and I share love like this forever.

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      Shana rios Chavez 5 years ago

      wonderful story thank you

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      manchester lm 5 years ago

      What an inspiring story.

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      Gayle 5 years ago from McLaughlin

      What a beautiful, realistic love story. Thank you for sharing from the bottom of your heart!

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      knit1tat2 5 years ago

      beautiful story, my prayers to you and yours. Thanks for sharing this.

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      Wednesday-Elf 5 years ago from Savannah, Georgia

      I had a 'forever love' from the first moment I met my husband and through 45 years of marriage. He was my husband, my best friend, my 'soulmate'. In 45 years we never ran out of things to talk about and his zanny sense of humor was my favorite thing about him. He died from a malignant brain tumor - at home with the help of Hospice. It was the last gift I could give him -- to be home with his family. Thank you for sharing your story of love to a special man. I still miss my special love every day, even after 4 years.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      Quite a story. When two people are in love, they will overcome just about every obstacle. We've not had the enormous difficulty that the two of you had; at least not yet, but we had some very rough times. But the now we have together is something neither of us take for granted or would want to change. Thank you for sharing your story...

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      Mary Beth Granger 5 years ago from O'Fallon, Missouri, USA

      Beautiful story...thanks for sharing. Blessing to you and this lens is blessed by a squidangel.

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      goldenprosperity 5 years ago

      You have found the words to support the lasting memories. Thank you for sharing... taking the time for yourself and for others.

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      agoofyidea 5 years ago

      Congratulations on LOTD! It's wonderful that you can see the blessings in your life. I hope others gain inspiration from your story. Nice lens.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      This was beautifully written. It maked me want to love my man like there is no tomorrow too. Thank-you. Teresa

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      Jim Sterling 5 years ago from Franklin, Tennessee

      Thank you for your story, I'm sorry for your loss and touched by your love for each other.

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      Joan4 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your beautiful love story.

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      Loraine Brummer 5 years ago from Hartington, Nebraska

      A beautiful tribute to your forever love. Also congratulations on LOTD.

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      fugeecat lm 5 years ago

      This is a wonderful story. I'm glad that you were able to spend happy times together and you have so many good memories.

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      pawpaw911 5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your story. It is a beautiful one.

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      Clairissa 5 years ago from OREFIELD, PA

      Very nice story! Thanks for sharing.

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      coolplayerz 5 years ago

      It's nice

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      saibee 5 years ago

      Very Nice. Thanks for sharing.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      It really made me cry.. T_T so touched. thanks a lot for sharing your love story..

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      cleanyoucar 5 years ago

      Inspiring story =D Thanks for sharing.

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      leapsterrific 5 years ago

      A beautiful story, and thank you for sharing. I hope you don't stay feeling frozen in time as I am sure your husband would not want that. Moving on is not forgetting, just remembering in a different way.

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      Iemon1 5 years ago

      That's very sweet. I wish my love story could be like yours. <3

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      luvusam 5 years ago

      How sweet ! I just love ur love story ! Thanks for sharing with us. Keep writing such nice & touching stories for us. God bless u...:)

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      luvusam 5 years ago

      I just love the story ! brilliant ! Best of luck dear, take care & keep writing such nice & touching stories for us...:)

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      hotbrain 5 years ago from Tacoma, WA

      Amazing love story! Well written and so captivating. Congrats on a much deserved lens of the day!

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      seedplanter 5 years ago

      Such a touching lens. I'm sorry for your loss, but happy for the life you shared.

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      Asinka Fields 5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

      Very beautiful!

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      That is a wonderful love story. Thanks for sharing.

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      wheresthekarma 5 years ago

      AWww this made me cry, I like to hear the good times and the bad times. THey all make us who we are. <3 God bless....

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      LDWorld 5 years ago

      thank you! God bless you.

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      DrKavita 5 years ago

      Couldn't stop the tears! May Your husband's soul rst in peace and may God give you strength to overcome the loss.You truly touched my heart with your tale of love.

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      How dearly you have shared your love here, I felt like I was looking into a room and watching as each part of your story unfolded. Love ends with love....and you were both very blessed to find that love again. Blessed.

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      jormurfe 5 years ago

      Great story, God bless you .

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      victoriuh 5 years ago

      Brought me to tears, thank you sweetie. Bless you.

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      ajinkyax 5 years ago

      im really happy to see a LOVE reading online :) I wish somedayd girl i love will LOVE me too..

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      lilymom24 5 years ago

      Lovely story and thank you for sharing it. =)

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      BeyondRoses 5 years ago

      A lovely tribute to your forever love. I'm glad you found each other again, and I'm sorry, how you must grieve, the empty space he has left.

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      pajnhiaj 5 years ago

      awwwww how sweet.. i loved how you guys sent balloons.. most touching. It was cute how your first thought of him was obnoxious when you first met your husband and then it turned into love. Great lens! Most blessing, thanks!

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