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3 Powerful Tips to Learn to Let Go and Move Forward

Updated on January 26, 2019
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Alyssa has studied psychology, philosophy, religion, and the arts. She loves sharing her thoughts, ideas, and papers with the world.

The new year is upon us and there is an energy of change in the air. It's an exciting time. The future is filled with new possibilities and opportunities. In order to embrace changes and work toward our goals, we have to let go of all that is holding us back.

Letting go of the past allows us to move forward, but that is often easier said than done. The following three tips are simple, but incredibly powerful.

Accept

The first step to letting go is acceptance. Accept the situation as it is or as it was. Accept what happened and realize that there is nothing you can do to change it. It's in the past. No one gets a do-over. You can't go back, but you can learn from the past and apply those lessons in the future. There are many things in life you don't have control over, but you always have control over your perspective and your actions.

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Mindset

Letting go of the past doesn't happen over night. It requires a conscious effort in changing your mindset. Instead of focusing on the wrongdoings of the past, shift your focus to the present. The best way to start is by practicing gratitude. Be thankful for the good people in your life and all the things you have. Take a few moments in the morning to look at the sunrise. Savor that first cup of coffee. Enjoy your favorite music on the commute to work. Be thankful if you have a job, even if it isn't your dream career. Appreciate the people around you: your spouse, your neighbors, your co-workers, your friends. When negative thoughts start to creep in, pause for a second, and turn it around by finding the good. Sometimes it's a challenge and you might have to dig deep. Replacing those negative with appreciation goes a long way in improving your mood and your mindset. When you spend your energy being thankful for all that you have, you feel good and you won't want to spend time worrying about anything you don't have.

Look at the big picture: life is short and tomorrow is not guaranteed. The average lifespan of a human being is 79 years. Tragedy can strike at any moment. Turn on the news and you'll hear countless stories of people who lost their lives. When you start to look at the world and your own life from this perspective, realization hits. Why be angry? Why hold on to old grudges and grievances? What purpose is it really serving? How is it helping you? Why not let that stuff go and move forward with your life, enjoying each day with the people you love?

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Yoga

I'm a huge fan of yoga for many reasons. Not only does yoga offer many physical health benefits, but it also helps improve your mindset and your mood. Yoga is all about connecting the mind with the body, and as you build your practice, you learn to focus on your breath and allow that to guide your movements. Yoga also teaches you acceptance and how to let go. The lessons you learn on the mat carry with you into your daily life.

You don't need fancy equipment or a gym membership to experience the benefits. YouTube has a variety of yoga videos available, all for free. You can practice in the comfort of your own home in your pajamas. All you really need is a towel or blanket and a willingness to try something new. I recommend Yoga With Adriene. She has a library of yoga videos on her channel for every level. She guides you through each pose, free of judgement, and encourages you to find what feels good in your body. Give it a try.

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© 2019 Alyssa

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    • Alyssa Nichol profile imageAUTHOR

      Alyssa 

      2 months ago from Ohio

      Thank you Pamela! :)

    • Alyssa Nichol profile imageAUTHOR

      Alyssa 

      2 months ago from Ohio

      Oh that is wonderful to hear, Dora! Please let me know how it goes! :)

    • Alyssa Nichol profile imageAUTHOR

      Alyssa 

      2 months ago from Ohio

      I agree, Bill! Fretting about things that are out of our control is a waste of time and a good way to miss out on the important things in life. :)

    • Alyssa Nichol profile imageAUTHOR

      Alyssa 

      2 months ago from Ohio

      Thank you so much! I agree, we should all live each day to the fullest! :)

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      Pamela Oglesby 

      2 months ago from Sunny Florida

      These are very good tips for moving forward. I certainly agree that acceptance and your other suggestions are very important for living a happy full life.

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      Dora Weithers 

      2 months ago from The Caribbean

      Three very good tips. Yoga will be the new one for me. Will look at, and may try the videos you recommend. Thanks.

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      Bill Holland 

      2 months ago from Olympia, WA

      In AA we are encouraged to Let Go and Let God....I prefer to just say Let Go! There are some things I cannot change, no matter how hard I try, and I miss a whole lot of life in trying. :)

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      John Hansen 

      2 months ago from Queensland Australia

      Very good advice in this article, Alyssa. Live each day to the fullest and enjoy your life. None of us knows how long we have. Great videos too. Thanks for sharing.

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