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You Are Not Ugly

Updated on February 17, 2020
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You are not ugly

Insecurities

The word "ugly" is a very subjective word. Almost everyone on this planet has some sort of insecurity or thinks they're ugly, but how noticeable really is that insecurity? Many of us walk around with no confidence whatsoever trying to hide the "bad things" about us but in reality, nobody really notices these "bad things" at all. There are some good things about these insecurities on top of a lot of bad things as well. One good thing about insecurities is that they sort of help us humble ourselves in a way we could never imagine. Think about this, if we all felt very confident and thought we were all better than one another, everyone would be very annoyed with each other and there would be no common ground for anyone. Although this is a good thing, insecurities are also really bad, for example: most of us walk around feeling very nervous and filled with anxiety about how we look and how we act around other people. When we are filled with insecurity, we don't act on how we truly are but rather we act differently depending on each person and for some people, they act outside of their comfort zones just to fit in and feel welcomed. Let me get this straight with everyone, act how you want around anyone and BE YOURSELF! Do not change yourself to satisfy others but rather be comfortable with you and how you act around others instead. If someone doesn't like the way you act, then they might not be the one for you to hang out with.

The Word "Ugly"

Now, back to the ugly part. As I said earlier, the word ugly is subjective. Someone might not find you attractive but someone else will. It's all very opinionated and isn't factual. Calling someone "ugly" is just saying they're not your type and that you would rather have someone fit your standards. This isn't a bad thing at all! Someone might like blondes while others might like brunettes. If you think you're ugly, that's okay but what I'm trying to say here is that you aren't ugly. Nobody on this earth is ugly! You are beautiful to AT LEAST (keyword: at least) 1 person on this earth and you will one day meet that person. Everyone has a soul mate waiting to be found and the best thing you can do is wait.

Dating

When it comes to relationships, patience is key. If you're one of the people that doesn't have a girlfriend/boyfriend just yet, don't worry, it'll happen one day. Seeing other people in relationships can be really tough for others but if you see someone go from relationship to relationship, you really aren't missing out; the person jumping from relationship to relationship is going to go through a lot of heart breaks which lucky for you, you don't have to go through that pain of losing another person. Staying single is the best way to go until you find that one person you know you could have a future with. My advice to you is to always date to marry and not date just for fun. Why? Because it's the most effective way to get into a good relationship! Don't go for people you think are just good looking, keep personality in mind as well. Personality is the key factor you need in someone you might want to date. If you want a long term relationship, personality is the way to go because let's say you find someone very attractive but they have a trashy personality. Would you enjoy your time with them? Why and why not? You most likely wouldn't because they would either disagree with you most of the time or just badger you with things you don't care for. If you go into a relationship with someone that has a very good personality, you'll bounce off each other and you'll enjoy your time with them 100 times more so than someone with a bad personality.


That's all the topics I'll cover for today! I would love to hear some feedback on this article!

© 2020 Mikey

If you read this, thank you so much! I would love to hear some criticism! :D

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