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Charity begins at home. Christmas wishes for everyone.

Updated on March 24, 2018

What charity means

As the title says: "Charity begins at home".

Most people think charity only means giving something "tangible" to others.

The true meaning of charity goes far beyond the "giving" of gifts.

The dictionary also defines charity as :

1. Benevolent goodwill toward, or love of, humanity.

2. Lenient judgment of others

It saddens the heart to see (or hear) meanness toward others anytime, but more so during the "Holiday Season".

Mean spirited-ness is defined by the making of vile comments so low as to be out of accord with normal standards of human decency and dignity.

The meanings of christmas

Christmas means different things to different people.

For the reverent (or worshipers) it simply means "Christ's mass".

For the non christian, it means "Christmas-tide":

The festival season from Christmas eve till after new years day that has nothing to do with base religious beliefs.


On being mean spirited

While dining out with a dear friend the other day, we overheard a rather "loud" conversation from the table next to us.

They were discussing Christmas celebrations in general.

The woman was angry about a Jewish family that they know that are 'celebrating' Christmas.

She thought it was terribly inappropriate for such "people" to be celebrating the birth of Christ when they were the ones who "killed" him, as if it happened yesterday.

There was more heated and "mean" rhetoric that disrupted tables around them, that was irrelevant for the purpose of this article. But, amazingly no one who over heard those remarks challenged her [for fear of starting a public brawl, one would suppose].

As a people, we tend to simply ignore the ignorance and view those who publicly proclaim it, with quiet disdain.

That is what we simply call "freedom of speech" today, no matter how hateful and disturbing it truly is.

On commercialism

Every year we see folks picketing stores and urging people NOT to buy gifts in order to not "feed the greed" of Corporate America.

While that may be the case, picketing will never change the spirit of "Christmas-tide".

It is a tradition that will not be easily rejected by the majority, nor should it ever be.

Commercialism and greed are the 'ugly' parts of this social "holiday" and many participants view the exchange of "gifts" as relevant based only on the price that is paid for them.

"Personalizing" gift selections for those we care about is so much more 'meaningful'.

If anyone is slighted by the "price" of gifts they receive, then they were not worthy of the time, or money spent, in procuring the gift in the first place.

Setting price limits for family members may be the best solution to avoiding that problem. Making a rule that all gifts must be within a set price limit ( example: $20.00 to $50.00) being the price range of gifts; and with a limit of 1-2 gifts per person. These basic rules for gift giving would be more sensible and rational than going into debt to allay any negativity about a person's 'generosity'.

"Relax" and "Enjoy" the season

"Necessities" always make nice gifts.

Extraneous and costly items are best bought when the need for them arises, and finances permit, during the rest of the year.

Handmade items are more personal when they reflect a particular sentiment between the gift "giver" and the "recipient".

The greatest gift at Christmas-tide is the gathering of family and friends to share quality time and love together.

We should be celebrating our holidays by enjoying comradary (camaraderie) of sharing precious time with family and friends filled with, peace, love, and goodwill. And pledging to keep that love and friendship throughout the year and not just on special occasions.

Enjoy your holidays and try to stay forever young in heart and spirit - from my family to yours.

by: d.william 12/19/2013

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    • d.william profile imageAUTHOR


      5 years ago from Somewhere in the south

      WS: thanks for reading and taking time to leave your comments. Hope this holiday season is a joyous one for you and yours.

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      Mackenzie Sage Wright 

      5 years ago

      Well done, so true. There's no reason to dampen the season with petty concerns or feelings. Gifts should be from the heart though I'm not 100-% against commercialism as that's how people have jobs. It just shouldn't be overdone.

    • d.william profile imageAUTHOR


      5 years ago from Somewhere in the south


      thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment. Hope you holidays are filled with peace, love and joy.

    • d.william profile imageAUTHOR


      5 years ago from Somewhere in the south

      always: Thanks for commenting. I went to Walmart yesterday too, but instead of putting money in the bucket, i told the lady her tinkling bell was totally annoying.

      She said by the end of the day it is stuck in her head and she hears it echo all night long.

      So i had to drop a coin or two after all. L.O.L.

      This can be the happiest time of the year for some, and the saddest for others.

      I wish i had the money to take in all the homeless and rescue all the abused and abandoned pets. Live can be cruel and unforgiving.

    • d.william profile imageAUTHOR


      5 years ago from Somewhere in the south

      Jhamann: thanks and same to you.

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      Dilip Chandra 

      5 years ago from India

      Nice work, greeting to you...

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      5 years ago from Southern Illinois

      I truly agree with your sentiments concerning Christmas. It should be a joyful season filled with love for all. So many go in debt to buy lavish gifts. I went to Walmart yesterday and put money in the red kettle, that's what makes me happy this time of year. If only the love could last throughout the year, wouldn't that be great. Thank you for an enlightening article. Cheers..

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      Jamie Lee Hamann 

      5 years ago from Reno NV

      Merry Christmas! Jamie


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