Holiday Gifts for the Guy - Presents for the pickiest husband, dad, or in-law

We all have one in our life... that person that is impossible to shop for. Whether they have everything already, buy for themselves at the last minute, don't want "stuff" or have no apparent hobbies, they make it nearly impossible for the gift giver to gain any satisfaction. For me, these usually turn out to be the men in my life. With the women, I can always give a picture of the grandkids, or a piece of jewelry if I get stuck. Almost all women have some sort of common gift-receiving joy button - a candle, some soap, a gift card for a little pampering... The guys? Ugh, a shopping nightmare! Not to mention, that I'm shopping for gifts on a budget this year... which has significantly reduced my gift purchasing pool.  But, budget crunch or no, I still want to bring  my guys some joy and laughter this holiday season.  As I search online for the perfect gift for my husband, father in law and brother in law, I thought I'd share my "aha" moments with you. Maybe I can help.  After all, it is the season of giving.

Got a "Man's Man" on your hands? Gifts for this tough guy can be... well... tough. If he is the true tool junkie, then he may already have everything under the sun. But, there are a few items that every tool guy can use more of, and a few others that are off the beaten path enough he may yet have bought one for himself... I know, I'm a tool geek myself.

Flashlights. Inevitably, they go missing. Also, there are many new led varieties to try. More models with bending necks, innovative clips and long life batteries come on the market all the time. For the true toolman, every project has the perfect worklight and a drawerful of illumination always comes in handy.

If your guy falls into this stereotypical category, the gift giving potential is endless.  You've got to step out of the box, however, to avoid repeat gifting or hitting on anything he already has.  Cookbooks are fabulous gifts, especially if they are accompanied by the tools or supplies required to make the recipes inside.  Consider your own "Man-Made" gift basket.  A grilling/bbq cookbook, some new grill tools, a high end bbq sauce and maybe even a membership to a meat of the month club.  (Yes, they do exist.)  Speaking of "of the month" clubs.  They are in endless supply these days, and can fulfill just about any niche market.  (Think beer, coffee, sausage, cheese, fruit, candy, wine and the aforementioned meat.)  Books on home brewing, or home brewing accessories and supplies are very hot right now.  What man wouldn't want to add a personalized brew to his man-cave fridge? (Plus, it'll get him out of your hair for hours at a time so you can start planning for next year's festivities.)  Last, but not least, go perishable.  If he truly has it all, get him something self-depleting.  Food items don't last, and, if thoroughly enjoyed, will set you up with a plan already in place for next year's present.

For the guy who's already got everything he needs and wants (and, if this is your husband, isn't that true... I mean, he's already got you!) you might have to dig a little deeper. Go a little kitcsh this year. If your gift can't fill a gaping hole in a collection or need or want, just try to make him smile. I mean, isn't that what the holidays are really all about? 

(The big boy sized feety pajamas below are a personal favorite.  I got my husband a set several years ago from a company called Warmth Wear.  They were hand made of any fabric of my choosing.  I went with bright blue with tiny little firetrucks.  My Christmas pics of my 6'2" guy cross-legged in front of the tree are my favorite ever.)

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With all the ideas put forth, I cannot believe I was remiss in mentioning one of my favorites. The memory incarnate - a gift of photos. When I am really stuck for that perfect present, I turn to one of the many photosites now populating the world wide web and grub for a few manly tears by tugging at the proverbial heartstrings. I just finished my annual Father's Day gift of calendars complete with the most adorable grandkid pics I could find. And, as is always the case with me, I finished up my gift with a touch of humor... A Dad's Day card with the goofiest Old Tyme Photo I had in my possession. If I can bring them from tears to tickled in a single gift... Well then, my job here is done.

(For my personal favorite tear-inducing gift site, see below. You can view Shutterfly's cards using the following link.)

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