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Saving Dad's Memories

Updated on June 21, 2018
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I'm carrying on my mother's research into our family history. I've self-published some family memoirs & learned a lot about different eras.

From our family album
From our family album | Source

Honor Dad by Turning His Memories into a Book or Keepsake

Last year, I created a book about my father's life by collecting together essays written by my mom, my sister and myself. That sounds like a major project, but self-publishing a book is much easier these days. It also is much less expensive than it used to be.

Saving your father's memories or family history in a book is a gift of love. It's suitable for Father's Day, birthdays, Christmas or as a retirement gift. Actually you don't need a special occasion to create such a book or keepsake, you can make one at any time. He will feel loved and appreciated when he receives it.


Five Options for a Memory Keepsake for Dad

Look over these ideas to see which appeals to you, then look further down the page for more detail about carrying out each project.

  1. If you want to make a book, allow plenty of lead time. It's hard to say how much time it will take as so much depends on the availability of material and how in-depth you want to make the book. Are you going to write the memories or collect them from family members? Do you have photos on hand or need to search for those? The book can be mostly photos with short memory pieces or mostly text with photos sprinkled in.
  2. If you want to make a webpage featuring family history or a special interest of your dad's, I recommend Hubpages. With its easy modules to plug in and then fill with your text and photos, this can be made fairly quickly. This page is an example of that.
  3. Instead of a book, you can post essays about your father's life or ancestors on a website like Our Echo or create a free blog with Wordpress and start saving your father's stories there. Besides honoring your father, you've made the family history available for other relatives or researchers.
  4. If you're a writer and short of time to create a gift for your dad, then write a heartfelt essay about him. I did this with essays for different occasions, ending up with pieces like "Thoughts on My Dad on His 83rd Birthday," and "A Touch of Clyde Martin's Humor." Another one that he liked was "Lessons I Learned from My Dad." You can print these up on nice paper and put them in a plastic sleeve inside an attractive folder to give him on the special occasion. If you are far away, post them online or email them to him, if he's comfortable with the computer.
  5. If your dad served in the military, think about a webpage or a book focused on that topic. I've provided a link here with steps for Saving World War II Letters. The same advice could be applied to the Korean War or Vietnam War. Besides a book or webpage, you could get a good sized shadow box and fill it with his uniform hat, medals and other military memorabilia that he might have.

Example of a Shadow Box for Your Father - Available from Amazon in various styles

Product Name:  Military Award Shadow Box with Display Case for 3 x 5 feet Flag, Blue Felt
Product Name: Military Award Shadow Box with Display Case for 3 x 5 feet Flag, Blue Felt
This one is perfect for a veteran to showcase his military memorabilia. You can get other shadow boxes to feature your dad's career or club participation. My sister got this one for her husband's flag and military honors. She finds comfort in seeing it on the wall in her family room.
 

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My daughter made one for her grandfather at Christmas. He loves it.

The Book We Created about My Dad's Life

My sister, Cindy, and our mother helped me write the stories for this book about Dad's life. It meant a lot to him.
My sister, Cindy, and our mother helped me write the stories for this book about Dad's life. It meant a lot to him. | Source

Making a Book with Blurb.com

There are other options for self-publishing, but I've had great success with Blurb and find it very user-friendly.

You can use other options for self-publishing like Create Space or Lulu.

Video Showing Options for Creating a Book Using Blurb

Watch This Video When a Parent Sees the Book about Their Life for the First Time

Photo Gallery of My Dad over the Years - Click on any picture to see it larger

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May 19, 2012.
May 19, 2012. | Source

© 2011 Virginia Allain

Will You Try Any of These Gift Ideas for Your Dad?

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    • jwmurph profile image

      John Murphree 

      22 months ago from Tennessee

      These are wonderful ideas. I really should do something that you suggest.

    • Virginia Allain profile imageAUTHOR

      Virginia Allain 

      7 years ago from Central Florida

      @BarbRad: I suggest preserving your dad's memorabilia or memories in one of these ways as a gift for yourself.

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      Barbara Radisavljevic 

      7 years ago from Templeton, CA

      My dad hasn't been around since 1987, but it might be a great idea for my nephews someday when they become fathers themselves. Only one ever knew his grandfather.

    • Virginia Allain profile imageAUTHOR

      Virginia Allain 

      7 years ago from Central Florida

      @TamarWrites: I hope more and more people start doing this. Saving family memories is so important.

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      TamarWrites 

      7 years ago

      My husband's cousin made a book after interviewing my father-in-law. We each got a copy, and when he died last year, his story became even more cherished.

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      jseven lm 

      8 years ago

      Nice lens and I think that recording your memories for dad is a great invention.

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