ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

How To Get Over Death Of A Loved One (Poetry)

Updated on June 16, 2016

Moving On With Time

Think of the good times shared

They would not want you to cry

Feel good because you cared

Be strong they’d want you to try

They wouldn’t want you to show a sad face,

They left this earth with dignity,

Shed tears will leave a trace,

They’d hope you had no enmity,

They wouldn’t want any fighting or fussing

Over anything left behind,

No anger, no frowns, no cursing

But maintain a mellowed mind,

They would want for everyone to get along

And show a better breed of love,

You’ve got to hold up the good and be strong

Show the weak what you are made of,

Lives have days of down and up

Must take the sweet along with the bitter

This loved one may have left life abrupt

It is just a day without glitter,

But life goes on so live with the others,

That is what I’d want you to do,

There’s father, mother, sisters and brothers

Other relatives and good friends too,

Smile for how you appreciated me,

There’s nothing to regret,

I hope that you will always see

That living right is the best thing yet,

A Celebration

I noticed that at a session today, they are calling the services a celebration, a going away and other names for such gatherings. Of course, it depends on how the deceased passed away. A violent or senseless crime death may be the hardest to get over or get through and I'm not speaking of that type here. However, we must get over the death of a loved one in one way or another. I do not believe that God "calls anyone home to be with Him." Remember, God is about everlasting life. That is why He sent His only begotten Son. Our freedom is limited when we call ourselves living with free choice. The wrong choices can bound us to be slaves of sin: sin committed within ourselves. A bad choice is choosing to eat food that is bound to kill you after eating enough of it. It may be good to you but not good for you.


    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • shprd74 profile image

      Hari Prasad S 

      2 years ago from Bangalore

      Very nice poem .

      I have also written some thing similar 'condolence '. Pl do check.

      Regards, Hari

    • Charito1962 profile image

      Charito Maranan-Montecillo 

      2 years ago from Manila, Philippines

      Such a lovely poem, word 55. I've lost several people in my life - husband, parents, relatives and friends.

      But the thought of death should prompt us to cherish the time we have with our loved ones. And it should also urge us to live a righteous life, so when the time of our passing comes - we are ready to meet the Almighty!

    • word55 profile imageAUTHOR


      2 years ago from Chicago

      Thank you LadyE for your gracious comment. I want to say that I am a Christian man. I speak to my mom whenever, wherever because I still hear her wisdom echoing to me from time to time. I speak back to her as if she is in my presence. I don't say it's her spirit or anything. I just relate to what is echoed to me and speak to her. It is good consolation for me. It always will be. Her and I were very close. Many times now a-days, I would say to her, well mom, I understand why you were so tough on me and made me behave at all times...

    • Lady_E profile image


      2 years ago from London, UK

      Inspiring and Touching. It's true that life goes on but you feel there are so many things you wanted to do with them.

      As you noted, life is bitter and sweet. May God give people the strength to bear their loss. I am a Christian and there are times I wonder how I could communicate with my Mum above, but I can't. As a Christian, we are not allowed to do things like that. That's how much I miss her.

      Heaven forgive me.

      Thank you. God Bless.

    • ocfireflies profile image


      2 years ago from North Carolina

      Having just recently lost my mama (May 14th), you can imagine how much this resonates with me. Thank you word for this beautiful hub and voted as such.

      With Loving Memories of My Mom,


    • DDE profile image

      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      So greatly expressed. When it is time to leave this planet life for one can feel like a complete dead end.

    • Vellur profile image

      Nithya Venkat 

      2 years ago from Dubai

      Great poem, we must go on and live life. It is tough to go on but we have precious memories that we can re-live again and again.

    • Faith Reaper profile image

      Faith Reaper 

      2 years ago from southern USA

      Oh, beautifully expressed, dear Word! This is wonderful insight into remembering to celebrate the life and to be mindful of how they would want to be remember and for us to remember to continue to live and love in this life for we are still alive and make each day count.

      Love the truth you have shared, especially in your closing paragraph.

      Up ++++ sharing, tweeting, pinning, and G_

      God bless you real good

    • MsDora profile image

      Dora Weithers 

      2 years ago from The Caribbean

      Thanks for sharing counsel and sentiments for the grieving. Putting these thoughts into poetry is appropriate when we're dealing with death. Sympathetic counsel throughout. God job!

    • Missy Smith profile image

      Missy Smith 

      2 years ago from Florida

      This was a very touching and profound poem. It has lots of great meaning to it that a reader could grab hold to. Especially, if they have lost someone close to them.

      It's hard to think of death as a celebration, but the truth is, if you believe you are going home to be with God; a celebration is exactly what it is. Great Job!

    • Dana Tate profile image

      Dana Tate 

      2 years ago from LOS ANGELES

      I try to think of death as a going home celebration. But, it does depend on the circumstances. There's no joy if the person died before their time. Or, violently. Lovely work. Voted up all the choices( except funny) and sharing.

    • Minnetonka Twin profile image

      Linda Rogers 

      2 years ago from Minnesota

      Lovely poetry depicting mourning the loss of a loved one. It is never easy to lose those we love, but time does heal. Losing my father was one of the hardest things I've ever been through. I thought I'd never get through it, but time has taught me how to move on. Hit many buttons and voted up.

    • billybuc profile image

      Bill Holland 

      2 years ago from Olympia, WA

      I love this. I saw so much death before I was twenty. I finally decided that mourning is not the way I wanted to treat I try to concentrate on the celebration of life and the time I was able to spend with the lost one.

    • bravewarrior profile image

      Shauna L Bowling 

      2 years ago from Central Florida

      Its natural to mourn the loss of someone close to us. But to celebrate the life of that person and keep his/her affect on us alive is a beautiful way to commemorate that person. As time goes on sorrow still creeps in, but the happy memories come forward and rest in our hearts.

    • Venkatachari M profile image

      Venkatachari M 

      2 years ago from Hyderabad, India

      Great tribute. I appreciate the style of presentation with your concluding paragraph. Voted up and awesome.

    • Frank Atanacio profile image

      Frank Atanacio 

      2 years ago from Shelton

      what a touching piece of poetry my friend.. thank you for sharing it

    • rebeccamealey profile image

      Rebecca Mealey 

      2 years ago from Northeastern Georgia, USA

      Very touching, and I think will ease heartache for the times we lose our loved ones. Thanks for sharing your poetry~

    • The Examiner-1 profile image

      The Examiner-1 

      2 years ago

      What a lovely poem to be remembered at funerals word55. You can either recite it in your head at the funeral or you can write down a copy to bring with you and tuck into the coffin. I voted it up, shared and pinned it.


    • word55 profile imageAUTHOR


      2 years ago from Chicago

      Hey Lawrence, It should be a celebration of one's life and memories. I'm glad you loved it. We can't many times, prepare for it but we must accept it when it does happen. Thanks for coming by.

    • word55 profile imageAUTHOR


      2 years ago from Chicago

      Hi Yo, if you put God into the equasion He would show that you should have no regrets and the time you spent with them was adequate. Whether you took them more seriously or not more likely, didn't matter at those times but It's the time spent that counts.

    • lawrence01 profile image

      Lawrence Hebb 

      2 years ago from Hamilton, New Zealand

      Loved the poetry. So true that those "whose time it is" wouldn't want us to worry or fret. They came, they laughed cried and enjoyed the good times, so can we!

      Thank you for the thoughts


    • Say Yes To Life profile image

      Yoleen Lucas 

      2 years ago from Big Island of Hawaii

      I lost 2 high school best friends to early death. I regret not spending more time with them, and taking them more seriously. Perhaps we'll meet in the next world.


    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

    Show Details
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)