Look At Things Differently
Change Is Good
For years I have always been the practical one
I never just went out and spent lots of money on clothes, jewelry, cologne
They never meant anything to me
As long as I was neat and clean
I would be comfortable with almost anything
I never had to buy the best
Some people love name brands that's fine
I rather spend my money on other things
I only bought new things when the old was well past the life expectancy rate
Even then I got lots of use out of them
My clothes became an extension of me
I can hear my words in my head ring
That's my favorite shirt
I don't care how old it is
Do you know when and where I got that ?
Then I would go on and on how it had sentimental value
Well beyond the cloth value
I would defend my views to the end
Trying to justify everything
It is only a little rip
I paid a lot for that
My wife would say
How times did you wear it ?
It is time to let it go
It became one of those tough subjects we squash so we don't get into a heated argument
Some things left alone
So off to a box or back in my draw they go
Way in back
Out of sight out of mind
To my wife anyway
The corner of my closet she never did see
Now today I don't know what it is
I had a change of heart
I had to think long and hard about this
I did wear it a lot and enjoy it every time I wore it
It really doesn't look great any more
I could wear my other shirt that looks sharp
I use to say I would keep it for a yard shirt
For painting or for bed
Then even that grew to be too many
I could never possibly use them all
So It is time to let some go
I cut some of them up for rags and the others if in good shape I gave them away
An old concert shirt or one with a saying or logo
I have to make room for the new
My wife is the same way
When it comes down to spending money on herself
She puts herself last
Maybe it's time to revamp that old wardrobe
Nothing to extreme
A little today and lets see how we both feel
I am still in shock
It really hasn't set in
My wife is adjusting way better than me
Bye, bye old pocket book
As well as that shirt and that one and that one
Slow down
Lets not rush to fast
She laughs
Now there are some things that almost fit
They will be in a pile to be determined
Well that's a great start
I can already see some room in our closet
I can move without anything being squished or falling
So I got a nice new pair of dress shoes for a good price
It is time to let those two other pairs go
One a few claw marks from our cat
The other one showing some wear in the soles
Then a pair of sneakers I never did like
For the longest time the back of the sneaker would slide
I tried to forget about it and say I will get use to it
It never did happen
Off to one of those clothing and shoes collection boxes
Where someone might get a little more use out of them
I kind of last leg way of looking at it
One final good bye
So maybe your a little like me or even better like my wife
In with the new and out with the old
It hurts for a little bit but we can laugh and get over it together
There are many better ways I rather spend a sunny day
Cleaning out my closets or draws is not one of them
Hello summer
Hi outdoors
I can't wait to take a walk and smell the fresh air
My life is busy and as I get older I find I have less and less time
So prioritize and free time will reveal itself
In the strangest ways possible
Ready or not
I am done talking now I am off to take my walk