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Loving the UnLoveable

Updated on April 4, 2017
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Time and Space


Love At A Distance

When you and your spouse aren’t getting along. When your teen rebels. When your parents use tough love and must enforce the rules. When your friend makes bad choices, and all you can do is bite your tongue. Sometimes you need a little time, a little space, a little prayer and a deep breath. It is ok to love at arm’s length for a time.

Isaiah 41:10 So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

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Distance Can Be Beneficial to Everyone

Sometimes you need distance with people. Just remember God is close. He sees your struggle. He understands the defiant. He will uphold you during this time and he will give you the strength to endure.

© 2012 Michelle Orelup


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      Melodie 3 years ago

      All of my school aged koddis are involved with some kind of extra-curricular activy. My 16 year old son is on the drumline at his high school, my pre-teen daughter is on the volleyball and softball teams and my 8 year old son is half way to his black belt in Taekwondo.My little guy who stays home with me and does flash cards during the day has extra-curricular activites of napping and cuddling with Mommy and Daddy! =)

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      C E Clark 4 years ago from North Texas

      Giving time a chance is always a good thing. Also, trying to see the other person's point of view doesn't hurt either, but from my observation most people close their minds the second they hear something that doesn't go with what they have decided to believe. It never occurs to them that they might be the one who is wrong.

      A desire to fit in with certain people is what often drives people to do what they do. Very few people have the ability to be truly open minded. That is, to consider other possibilities besides the ones they have chosen to accept.

      Considering and learning about something doesn't have to include acceptance or incorporation of that concept or belief into one's own life. Understanding it can however, give a new perspective and the ability to understand where another person is coming from. Understanding can bring peace where otherwise their would be war. It may not, but the possibility is there at least.

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      Michelle Orelup 4 years ago from Houston, TX

      Thanks CrsSp! Sometimes distance is a gift that can actually draw us closer.

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      CrisSp 4 years ago from Sky Is The Limit Adventure

      Sometimes you need distance with, very true. Good thoughts, good read!


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      Michelle Orelup 4 years ago from Houston, TX

      I think that walking away is a sign of strength and character. Thanks for commenting.

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      Richard Ricky Hale 4 years ago from West Virginia

      Voted this up, useful, awesome, and shared on FB. Great Bible quote. It truly can be hard to deal with such emotions. Think about it, so much can go wrong. I always walk away with my kids and wife. I'm very patient and understanding. Great words of advice:)

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      Michelle Orelup 5 years ago from Houston, TX

      Love and prayer are the biggest tools in my toolbox. Thanks anglnwu!

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      anglnwu 5 years ago

      Love transcends distance, even if we choose to put it there for whatever reason. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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      Michelle Orelup 5 years ago from Houston, TX

      Thanks KoffeeKlatch Gals!

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      Susan Haze 5 years ago from Sunny Florida

      How true - sometimes that little bit of space can work wonders. Even when you are alone you are not.

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      coffeesnob 5 years ago

      I can relate, God is good in all things. the most imprtant thing is to love - even if it is at a distance..