People come and go... Only memories remain

Life is simple, if it has too much complications, it is your choice.

Your family, friends and neighbors or even colleagues, all these people plays a role in your life. It is just a matter of how you allow these people to affect you and the way you live your life.

Neighbors and colleagues, the least person whom you can count on... still you can count on them. Believe it or not, you must be good to them. They say "do not do unto others, what you don't want others do unto you", and it is true, "Respects begot respect". These people will help you in every simple thing they can. Your neighbor which can bring you food if you forgot to cook, help you when you scream because there is a stranger in your backyard, looked after your house if you have an out-of-town. Simple things but we weren’t able to notice. Your colleague whom you can talked to in times of idle moment in office (well, I’m not saying you continue talking in the office while office hours but at least the times you both has nothing to do). They are the one who will support you when you don’t know what to do in the office because your manager doesn’t allow you to do anything, their reason… “is because you don’t know what they are doing”… wow… too humiliating… but you cannot defend yourself because you are just a newly hired foreigner in a group of these local people (so much for this instance, I will make it another story). A colleague, whom basically your office buddy is your office friend, but sometimes they become your closest friend and you must appreciate them. “No man is an island” so don’t act as if you didn’t need these people around you.

Your friend, best friend, your buddy, no matter how you call them, they are your brother/sister outside the house. These are those who can sleep with you at home, those who spend more of time with after you reach your teenager years, the person who knows everything about your love, family, and almost all aspect of your life. You can trust them but not too much, because at the end of the day, it is possible that they become you worst enemy.

A family which plays the most important part in your life, they are the one who build up your character from the time you were born up to the time you will die. No matter how you love or hate them, instill in your mind, they are your family, they will never leave you in your good and bad time...that’s the fact, you cannot change it...

My title: “People come and go… Only memories remains” seems not appropriate in the above mentioned things. What I really want to say is… Love all the people around you, respect them, and treat them right. Treasure each moment with them, spend time equally to each and everyone, especially with your family… time is very important, so don’t waste any seconds of your life without doing anything for them. Because who knows, after this hour, they will soon leave you, everyone will going to leave you, you cannot do anything about this fact… because this is what life is… nothing is permanent… just make the most out of your time with them so if they leave you or you left, you all have the best memories, you will never forget for the rest of your life… only MEMORIES remain…