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"Some People Get Off - OnThe Pain And Suffering Of Others"

Updated on June 4, 2012

"Some People Get Off - On The Pain And Suffer ing

Don't be with anyone that's going to inflict suffering or pain on you, because you deserve better.
Don't be with anyone that's going to inflict suffering or pain on you, because you deserve better.

"Some People Get - Off On The Pian And Suffering Of Others"

In my life, I have been through to storms and rain and I know just because someone says that they love you with their mouths, doesn't mean their heart is in it; I found out later that their hearts was far from me. It might seem like an act of cruelty, but from pass experiences, I truly believe some people actually get a certain amount of pleasure from your pain because you can hear the enjoyment in their voice in a antagonistic kind of way and you can see the joys in their eyes, which lets you know that this person isn't wrapped to tight. These people or mentally sick and have no idea at all that you have a God on your side and what ever, they are doing to you they will reap themselves, one day. I went through my share of heartaches,pain and by knowing me and knowing my heart goes out to anyone that's hurting and suffering any kind of undo pain and I guess it's because God made me that way. I have much compassion for my fellow man and I only want them to have joy prosperity and gladness of heart.

I do know men have feelings too, and I know they can and do sometime get hurt as well, but The women and children seem to be the ones that always get the brunt of the pain inflicted. My body has been physically abused, my mind and heart has been emotionally misused and abused but By the grace of almighty God, I got through it all, in my right mind. Even when my safety seem to be in jeopardy my God shielded me from death many times. When things got so dark, I couldn't find my way; God always let me know that there was a bright light shining at the end of the tunnel. No matter how fearful and frighten I was, I would always Know within my heart that God was going to get me out of what ever jam I was in, and he always did. I am so thankful, that I can write to many of you; who have gone through or going through it now. and tell you as sure as there's a God in heaven, there's a way out. You can find a way out of your situation, if only you pray and ask God to lead and guide you to your freedom and believe it, with all your heart, that God will help you get your freedom. I believe these people that get pleasure out our pain are called sadistic people and the ones that enjoy pain is called masochist. I wouldn't want either on of these trait's in my life, because they aren't traits of God,but of Satan.

I have the love of God within my heart, and I can't tolerate any of these tendencies of pain and suffering people go through at the hands of someone else. I know a God that want let you hurt people, just for the sake of hurting them.What I do know is that people with these tendencies need mental heath help, quickly, because they are sick in the head and in and in the heart. If you 're an abuser, please get yourself some help, because I want better things for you, and if you're an abusee, get away from your abuser; because until they find help and the love of God ; nothing will change for you. I know this because, I already been there, so for once in your life, do it for yourself, you deserve it.

Benny Faye Douglass

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    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      jesus, God is real and gods are also real, but I believe in almighty God of heaven. Godspeed, creativeone59

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you so much Freya,I appreciate you. God bless youand yourds. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      Freya Cesare 

      7 years ago from Borneo Island, Indonesia

      I wish every woman in this world will able to stand up and fight for her and her children's life because their life worth every fight and God will always with those who in pain and won't give up. Be with God always, because all the world can turn their back on us, but God will never be. Great message to share, dear creative one. Wish you all happiness in this life. ^^

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you BellaWritter, what you say is true, no one knows until they walk in your shoes. Thank you for your visit and comment. I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      Erica Sanchez 

      8 years ago from California

      CREATIVEONE59, I AM ONE WHO SUFFERS GREATLY WITH PAIN ITS PAIN THAT HAS TETHERED ITSELF TO MY SOUL. AND THE ONE WHO CAUSED IT REALLY DOES ENJOY WATCHING ME HURT AND CONNOT UNDERSTAND WHY AM I SO DISTURBED WITH HIM. BUT NO ONE WILL EVER KNOW THE SEVERITY OF IT UNTIL THEY HAVE WALKED IN YOUR SHOES. I ALWAYS ENJOY READING YOUR HUBS

      THANK YOU,

      BELLAWRITTER23

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Prasetio,for your vist, comment and feedback. Godspeed. creativeone59

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      pmccray, I'm sorry you had to endure this kind of pain, but I'm glad, you found God to help you get through this horrific time. I pray that God continue to bless and protect you. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      prasetio30 

      8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      I believe all the pain will gone with the patient and believe that God still love us. Every sick has the medicine. I think this case will get the best solution. Never give up!

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      pmccray 

      8 years ago from Utah

      Your Hub speaks nothing but truths. I KNOW people get off on the pain of others. I was literally taught to verbally give pain to others by a parent. Due to her abuse this was her only coping skills.

      I wasn't very good at it though, because it wasn't me. I was berated that I had no self esteem, that wasn't self esteem being taught that was out and out meaness. I have suffered at the hands of others too, because of this upbringing. God brought me through it slightly unbalanced, but with tons of self assurity and esteem. I can remember getting off on causing others mental pain, that's the only feeling the enemy can charge you up with and when I discovered what it was (through the Lord). It came to a grinding halt then and there. Thank You God in the name of Jesus for your forgiveness. Excellent Hub. Have a blessed day my friend.

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      Audrey Kirchner 

      8 years ago from Washington

      Yes, sad but true - it always seems to be women and children but especially women. I figure what comes around comes around though and even if I never live to see what 'happens' to folks that so enjoy giving out pain and suffering, it'll come back to them somehow and it's not my job to make sure it does! You are a survivor most certainly and love your sharing and wisdom.

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you so much Mekenzie for also having a compassionate heart, I appreciate you and your comment and feedback. May God continue to best you and yours. creativeone59

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Micky, I truly hope you did'nt have to go through any of the non sense,Hello and I went through. Thank you for stopping by. I appreciate you, your comment and feedback. Godspeed. creativeone59

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Hello, I understand, so well what you're talking about. Thank you for your comment and feedback. godspeed. creativeone59

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Roychouldhury, Thank you so much for stopping by my hubs and leaving your comment and feedback. Bessings to you. creativeone59

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you you Veronica, but I don't look at myself as being brave, I was a young women that wanted to live my life and raise m y children and I knew I had to do somethigng different , if I wanted to survive. I tell my story in hope that it will help some other young women that might be going through something. Thank you for your comment and feedback. Godpeed. creativeone59

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you for stopping by Teresa with your uplifting words, and for your comment and your feedback. I'm always thankful. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      Susan Ream 

      8 years ago from Michigan

      Sweet lady, you do have such a heart of compassion for those who have suffered ... I have seen your encouraging words on my own hubs... I read your words telling people that God will find a way for you... Have you ever heard the song by that title.. God Will Find a Way .. When there seems to be no way ..? Love to YOU!

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      Micky Dee 

      8 years ago

      I think Hello, hello and I have lived mirrored lives. Thanks Faye.

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      Hello, hello, 

      8 years ago from London, UK

      I know exactly what you are talking about because my ex was a champion of inflicting cruelty. The things he done just to get a kick is unbelievable and this in every minute and on every corner. Thank you for a lovely hub.

    • H P Roychoudhury profile image

      H P Roychoudhury 

      8 years ago from Guwahati, India

      This is a human nature which is found in certain individuals. We have to live with all. This is life.

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      Veronica Allen 

      8 years ago from Georgia

      Creativeone, you are truly brave to share this part of your life with us. The fact that you got out of this alive and well, is an inspiration to others that may be experiencing the same thing.

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      Maria Teresa Rodriguez - Laurente 

      8 years ago from San Antonio, Texas, U.S.A.

      You have shared a very sacred part of your life and your spirit and faith have gotten you here. This is precious and I appreciate the opportunity in having to learn from life experiences. More power. Thank you so much.

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you pganty, for stopping by my hub, and for your comment and feedback. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      pganty 

      8 years ago from United Kingdom

      hil.. check out my hub on chronic back pain.. and I agree, thee are non-humans out there who relish other peoples' suffering....

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you for your words of encourage Revlady, and lets continue to, pray for them that has this tendecny. thank you for your comment and feedback. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      RevLady 

      8 years ago from Lantana, Florida

      Sad but true creativeone. Some people do get gratification from the suffering of others. They need the medicine that only God can give, the balm in Gilead, that heals the sin sick soul.

      May we pray for lost, sin-sick souls.

      Forever His,

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