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"The Joys and heartbreak of Motherhood"

Updated on August 24, 2013

"The Joys and Heartbreak of Motherhood"

The Joys of Motherhood is a blessing and the heartbreaks sometimes pulls us down, but being a mother is worth it all.
The Joys of Motherhood is a blessing and the heartbreaks sometimes pulls us down, but being a mother is worth it all.
The joys of motherhood keeps  us proud and happy but the problems of raising children,sometimes dampen our spirits.
The joys of motherhood keeps us proud and happy but the problems of raising children,sometimes dampen our spirits.

"The Joys and Heartbreak of Motherhood"

The Joys and Heartbreaks of Motherhood": There's no greater joy than holding your baby in your arms for the very first time and probably no greater heartbreak than the lost of one of our children. Being a true Mother is an honor and a privilege to bestow upon women, but every women doesn't get a chance to relish in it. Motherhood is a continual joy, but also infrequent heartaches and pains. I was blessed to be a mother at seventeen, through my stupidity as a teenager. I kept my child and raised her and no matter how rough things got I never would consider giving my child or children up for all the millions in the world.

My children has been my life, when there wasn't a husband around or a help mate to be found. Children are the staples that holds the women life together when there's nothing else for us to hold on too. Being a mother is a blessing from God, but there are women that aren't able to conceive, so we should be thankful for the miracle and cherish this amazing blessing that we have. We raise our children with an abundance of love and care, but we have to spank their fanny 's every now and then, so they will know what discipline is because if you don't they will disrespect us and break our heart, when they get older.

When it comes to disciplining my children, God and I are on the same page. Without a godly discipline, you're subject to be raising a murderer, thief, cheat and any thing else that's ungodly. There were times when it hurt me to spank or whip my children, but I knew if I didn't that one day they might try to whip me. Mothers are natural nurturing species that love their children and take good care of them, if they let us. I remember a statement a little old lady said to me; she said that when the children are small they're on your lap but when they grow up they 're on your heart and I believe that is a very true statement.

When our children are hurting we hurt, it doesn't matter whether it's physical or emotional pain we suffer just the same, if our children are going through troubled times, a real mother pull up her chair and pray for them. Our children really doesn't go through any thing without the support of the mother always being there.I have often told my children that I'm always there for them, but I can't support them in wrong doing, but if you doing right I there. Sometimes being a mother is a detriment to us. Especially if you have a child that's going through a lot of changes, because they don't listen. They're catching holy hell because of their disobedience and of course they you to go along for the ride. This ride you're on, is very daunting, hurtful, disappointing and a unnecessary trip. But we always try to be there to pick up the pieces when they fall off of their high horse.

When we raise our children from little babies to adults, we feel this great motherly joy and admiration for these magnificent adult children that you gave birth to, that's now birthing and fathering children themselves. This hold process makes your heart sing a happy melody. Motherhood is the best auspicious title that any mother can carry. My heart breaks for the women that are barren and can't have children of their own, for medical or what ever reasons' they are unable too . This is the very reason that I get so upset with women that can have children and don't want them. They would much rather see them dead than to give them to some unfortunate mother that would love be called mom one day.

It's such a hard pill to swallow, because it such a terrible waste of life. Mothers cry when their children cry and they laugh and smile when their are happy and will go out of their way to move heaven and earth to help their children, if they can. Our children is a blessing from God, that all mothers should be thankful of. There are women out there that would love the pleasure that we're rejoicing in having babies; if they could only have children, So mothers count your blessings that God blessed you to be a true mother.

Benny Faye Douglass




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    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you nmcguire7,for your visit and comment, what you say is so true. I'll check out your blogpost. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      Nicholl McGuire 

      6 years ago from Los Angeles County

      Yes, the good, bad and ugly of motherhood. But yes, we still press on! God is our help! http://whenmotherscry.blogspot.com

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you ReikaLee, thank you so much for your visit and comment, I really do appreciate you. God bless you and yours. creativeone59

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      ReikaLee 

      6 years ago from Narra, Palawan, Philippines

      I felt the same way ever since I became one too. My life changed for the better. Thanks for writing this.

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Ladybird33, I try my best to write and live truth. thank you for your comment and your precious feedback. blessings to you. creativeone59

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      Ladybird33 

      8 years ago from Fabulous USA

      This is so sweet and very, very true. Being a mother is like no other! Love your hubs!

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you so much sweet Lady for your comment and precious feedback. God bless you Lawretta. creativeone59

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      Lawretta Ikenga 

      8 years ago from England

      wow! you really are something. very touching words, i respect my mother more now and cant wait to have my own kids too. nice hub and nice new profile pic too.

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you sweetie , I appreciate you and your comment. creativeone59

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      NZUNG SERAPHINE 

      8 years ago

      Mothers cry when their children cry and they laugh and smile when their are happy .

      You are very right creativeone59, my mum is a good example.

      Nice hub.stay blessed.

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you pmccray, for stopping by my hub and thank you for your comment and your feedback. have a blessed one. creativeone59

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      pmccray 

      8 years ago

      What a good read. Motherhood is one of the best and thankless jobs in the world. My son is my rock and my hero...thank you for the wonderful article.

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank all of you for your wonderful comments and feedback, it makes my writing all worth while. Godspeed to you all. creatvienone59

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      NGRIA Bassett 

      8 years ago from Bermuda

      Thanks for a lovely commentary on the ups and downs of being mothers. Thanks for your maternal input.

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      Sarra Garrett 

      8 years ago

      That was so very true! Thank you for writing this hub.

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      Hello, hello, 

      8 years ago from London, UK

      This is such a lovely hub and lovely words. I can see they came right out from your heart. Thank you and I agree with you with every word.

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      I think you are totally correction and I want to thank you for your comment and feedback. creativeone59

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      Veronica Allen 

      8 years ago from Georgia

      I love this hub creativeone59. I don't think any other job, responsiblity, or career will ever amount or compare to the amount of joy and pain experienced in motherhood.

    • creativeone59 profile imageAUTHOR

      benny Faye Douglass 

      8 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you lancelonie, thank you for your comment and thank you for stopping by my hubs. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      lancelonie 

      8 years ago

      Ahhhhhhhhh . . . melts my heart!!! :)

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