When We Make The Cut
At Least For Now
In sports it means we have lasted one more round
When a coach decides to pick his players
You still have a chance
In life it can mean a whole different thing
At work I cut myself on a sharp corner
At the wrong place at just the right angle
Ouch that smarts
I don't think it could have been avoided
So happy no stitches
This time it was my knee
A year ago it was my knuckle
For the most part I am pretty careful
Sometimes you just can't help it
Your rushing to get the job done
Not your choice
Lack of help and you are busy trying to do two things at once
In time this cut will heal and fade away
For some people the memory lasts forever
Those who made the team got to play
Those who didn't tried harder
Some people gave up and did something else
Always remembering the feeling of not being good enough
Depending how old they were could of left an impression
That affected what else they do in life
Rejection is a hard emotion to face
Everything from dating to getting hired for a new job
If we have learned to accept it as a learning experience
We can grow and become better
It's all how you look at each situation
With a positive attitude and the confidence to succeed
I think these good qualities can be applied to our future success
When we know we have a lot of different talents
Some noticed and some overlooked for reasons beyond our control
I think we all know we can't have it always our way
So if you are struggling and things don't work out
Take the lessons you have learned and apply them to something else
One day it will all pay off
Bigger and better than it would of been if you didn't have that obstacle long ago
No need for luck
Believe in yourself and keep trying
You create an amazing life
One struggle at a time
Comments
Struggles and defeats (cuts) have taught me well over the course of my life. You captured it perfectly here. Happy Thanksgiving my friend.
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billybuc I try to avoid obstacles, problems, mistakes, setbacks, failures,heartbreak, injuries, cuts and all the pain that comes with it. Even though with it I have these growth spurts that wouldn't of happened if I had my way. My so called "cuts" happen for a reason. Who would of ever guessed. Thank you so much for reading and commenting. Have a beautiful Thanksgiving where everyone stays happy and full. At least for the day and who knows maybe a lot longer.
A word about the rejection you speak of: Rejection is a label we use meaning "not good enough." It's mostly a feeling of self-worth. There are many reasons having to do with rejection. Most of the time, it's not even about us. Our ego thinks it is, but it's not.
You have delivered a powerful message we all relate to. Thank you so much. Voted up, useful, interesting and shared on HP.
Happiest of holidays to you,
Audrey
What a great poem. The truth rings out with every word. I hope you had a wonderful holiday. Jamie
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vocalcoach Rejection leaves that awful taste in my mouth. In life it is unavoidable. You have to deal with it and remember not to let it get to you. Spend your time focusing on your strengths not your weaknesses.Thank you for reading and sharing. It means so much to me. I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving. With Christmas only a month away. May every wish be bright and cheery for the holidays. Have an exciting day.
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jhamann The cut on my knee is healing and my old cuts have become part of me. I just decided I can live with that. Thank you so much for spending your time reading and sharing. My holiday was very enjoyable Wishing you an incredible holiday with your family and friends.
Life can be tough and can be lovely. Experiences allow us to move on and learn more about ourselves.
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DDE It is very important that through the tough times we keep calm and level headed. Pressure and stress create unnecessary tension and problems. The lovely times are rewarding and beneficial. Thank you so much for reading and commenting. Wishing you and your family a wonderful happy holidays.
The reason you cut yourself is because you were not present or focused. Your mind was in the future..the point you get to after the rushing to get something done will occur. Unfortunately, this doesn't get things done any faster. You'll find if you actually slow down and focus on what you are doing in the present moment, that things will get done in the allotted time. Try it.
I realize the 'cut' in your article was partially a metaphor, but the idea of being present still applies. If you're regretting the past, or worrying about the future, you're not present. The only place you can be happy is the present. The past and the future are mental constructs or illusions that have no bearing on your present, unless you (your ego) allow them to.
Most people need to re-gain control of their minds, since the ego is controlling what you think and do in your absence (from the present moment). It can be done.
Just a little grammar note: It should be – "could [have].." not "could [of]..".
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Timorous I love your whole comment. You explain so much. Thank you for reading and commenting. I appreciate you pointing out my mistakes. I will make the necessary changes to improve my writing. Hubpages is a very special place where we can all help each other. Have a good night.
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