Writers and Haters

How to deal with haters of writers?

Writers and haters are part of the online experience.

Haters search for an error in your work to put you, the writer down and to let you stay there.

These people don't care about your feelings and get you to the point of breakdown.

Haters tell you about how bad your performances are.

This can be in any activity be it the musical instrument or in writing. Irrespective of what you do the hater will let you know by leaving a note or bad comment.

The hater will make you quit!

Would you quit writing if a hater told you you are a bad writer?

It is challenging to face up to the haters.

What is criticism?

• You must first know the difference between a critic and a hater before you dive in and wrongly accuse each person.
• Criticism helps you grow and learn from your mistakes.
• You do differently and improve in your writing.
• Disagreement allows for learning lessons.

What is the difference between the critic and the hater?

• You must focus on what is going to help you make a change in your writing.
• It is important to engage with someone who wants to help you, but, the hater is not a critic.
• They will ruin you and not communicate with you when needed.

You can confuse both, so pay attention!

For example:

A musician playing an instrument will have a fine tune, and the hater will find an issue with that tune and will burn a good moment.

The hater doesn't like to see you grow in your profession, and criticism helps you to agree and to disagree.

What do you think of writers and haters?

• You can hear what the critic has to say about your work and about what needs to be changed or improved.
• You need feedback to know where you stand with your interest at heart.
• Do what matters to grow with the changes your critic has provided.
• Good and bad show up in our lives and we don't see how haters affect us online or offline.

Do you think haters are reflections of your own hidden judgments?

Criticism is important to listen to because the feedback you receive is helpful.

The haters don't like what you do and are frustrated individuals in the process of making you frustrated.

There is no reason for a hater. Just like the troll under the bridge. A comment received from an anonymous means that the anonymous is a coward. You can't please every reader and the anonymous has their own hateful mind.

Haters make writers feel doubtful. The haters don't make you feel positive about your work. Haters put a shadow in your path and continue to complain about what you try to achieve positively.

The hater is the same as the bully at home, or school. Haters are unloved and insecure individuals. Be open to discussion, have an open mind, and don't stoop down to the level of a hater.

Haters have issues with themselves and find others to show their strong emotions to. Their fear, anger, and jealousy are thrown at you. Confrontation is difficult with a hater.

The hater is not helpful to you. You need to be strong and don't let the hater get to you.

Did you have a problem with haters?

You have no reason to adhere to every rule or to make others pleased. The haters are best left alone. Sometimes you can be your critic or hater.

For example:

You start a new project and stop a quarter of the way and tell yourself it won't work out, or it is not good enough. Your blog attracts haters.

The low self-esteem in haters drives them to such behaviours.

You are better than the hater and are confident to not pay attention to what haters spill out to you.

Mean comments from haters are not the same as the comments you receive from critics.

You can't please the world with your published work. The remarks from haters hurt you and apply more to them than to you. The hater tries to be constructive. They don't want you to improve. Writers don't engage with haters.

Good writing friends as we have in this community are true to one another. The opinions of your fans count, and you need to know what your friends have to say about your work.

You will not succeed in fighting with a hater. I believe the hater attacks the writer who attracts an audience.

The hater doesn't know how to be like you and write like you. I prefer to focus on the readers and not the haters.

I know from experience that haters will always be haters.

This behaviour just encourages the positive writers to continue writing and sharing their blogs.

Remain positive and share what makes you happy. Ignore the hater's comments. You don't benefit from such comments. Don't take the hater's comments personally.

Be yourself and don't allow the hater into your life. The hater hates others who share better performances and will not see it any other way.

The writer enjoys sharing new articles. A hater tries to destroy the confidence of the writer. A hater has anger towards a writer and fear too. It doesn't mean the hater is your friend or doesn't hate you anymore.

The pain is not completely healed. It means the hater is just being who they are and won't change.

Some haters stay that way permanently, and their bitterness is part of who they are.

All wounds don't heal immediately.

I learned haters hate themselves, this hate comes from fear, and from the negative activity, they have in their lives.

Haters are fearful of an experience they had and lack accomplishments.

So, their feelings are taken out on others which is to self-hatred, and self-anger.

Whether you build a business from scratch or write a bestseller you are faced with haters daily.

Why would you want to destroy someone's hard work?

• The truth is haters are destroyers.
• It is tough to publish your work in the eyes of the public.
• The hater discourages your skills.
• Criticism can be dealt with warmly.
• Show kindness to haters.
• You will have haters and critics show them kindness and walk away.

• Are you afraid to write because the haters will comment on your work?

• I read some bad comments.

For example:

• The writer must be in a PMS mood or the writer sounds depressed.
• Negative comments don't bother me.
• The hater should be bothered with such comments.
• Writing is a choice made by you.
• You must be able to deal with haters in the correct way and kill them with your kindness.
• Dealing with haters in the writing field is competitive.

Have you experienced issues with haters?

People are different everywhere you go and in every job opportunity.

The problem with haters, they don't give up on making your life miserable.

They can be nasty to you and you have to make sure to not be with such people.

Don't let the hater put you down show them you are a better writer and you do not need their feedback.

Writing is a pass time for me and some writing is taken seriously.