ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

golden memories

Updated on July 7, 2012
son with a friend.....soon he will miss these time is passing :-(
son with a friend.....soon he will miss these time is passing :-( | Source

While we were creating memories !!!!!!!

The childhood days are the times everybody miss a lot. We never felt the value of those golden days when actually we were growing through. When the time is already over and life becomes so serious and filled with responsibilities then one fine day we wake up and there is this miserable feel of longings for those carefree days. But then time never ever waits anyone. Then may be many of us felt the urge to grow up fast so that we would not be overseen by the grown ups. Alas…now the regrets but we can do nothing about it ! As nature and life has been set in a very special auto mode and it just moves on. Now we the grown ups are left with only some very adorable memories to cherish for the lifetime.

In this page I would like to unwind and relive those memories of my childhood passed among so wonderful friends and families. I hope many will be encouraged to walk the paths of childhood memories and be happy for a little while.

I have been brought up in a small town of Digboi which is situated in the state of Assam of North East India. Digboi is the first refinery in Asia and it’s an industrial town. It has got a very British touch everywhere for it was founded by them. The individual chung bunglows surrounded by seasonal flower gardens set on single hilltops with big tree lined zigzag roads are the refreshing memories that comes first to mind always when I think about DIGBOI. The roads were very clean and all set like some ribbons curved along the hills which unfold to a different breathtaking beauty at every other curve. Another side of the town is set at plains which has feel of just another little town in the state. But the hilly areas with natural lakes are the main appeal about the small place.

There are many schools in Digboi and I had passed out from Sowmer Vidyapith HS School. The school is just nearby my home. There I met my best friends while I was in class IV. Generally people have one best friend but I have two as they are twin. We celebrated silver jubilee of our friendship. It is fun in some other style now as we do not stay in the same place. Then what are the uses of mobile phone and sms facilities? We are very much in contact all through but I terribly miss those happy-go-lucky days we spent together. Their names are Sonali Das and Rupali Das… identical twin best of bestest friends. I have other friends also who are very close. But best friends are the ones who know you from the origin and always there for you especially when nobody is around.

We used to roam around in the beautiful roads of our beloved town on our bicycles a lot. After school, during every possible weekend and during holidays it was our time to cycle around and having fun. I had a red hero bicycle (for girls) and my friends had one red and one maroon color bicycles which were quite in uses at that time. Now bicycles a rare scene as Scooters/Scooties are more popular. But in our time we used to ride bicycles all the time to everywhere. In the sun and in rain we just used to have our umbrellas and our cycles and we are ready to move. But I do remember very nicely that me and my friends only used to carry umbrellas during rain as we were not bothered about the sun burn that time !

It was the loveliest memory of cycling around the curved and picturesque roads of the town with friends. But I used to be a loner from very early stage of life. I used to enjoy loneliness as well and so I even used to enjoy roaming around alone in the sun and sometimes even in the rain. Anyway I used to love a lot to peep the bluest sky through the big Golmohar trees full of bright colorful flowers. During a light drizzle we used to love cycling around. Then the festivals were the special occasions of our rendezvous to pass through out the occasion together. All the family members used to roam around till late at night in the Jeep even to nearby places of Digboi and it was really such fun. Mainly Diwali and Durga puja were the best festivals. Lots of new dresses, the pre-festival preparations, lots of mouth watering foods, late night gossiping were the routine activities during those celebrations. We used to stay over night in each others place for during the whole festival periods. Most of the festivals we used to do that.

There were numerous nights we used to pass talking about our favorite film stars and so many things. So many things are coming to my mind in bits and pieces which we used to talk about. Then there were quiz competitions we used to take part. And it was really fun as we used to fight a lot with other groups. Uncle, Aunty and their elder sister, Chandrima Das( Mamoni ba for me) used to really bear my all odd habits. I was very bad in my eating habits. Aunty and Mamoni ba used to take all care of my foods whenever I was with them. Mamoni Ba used to make dresses for me also to wear in festivals like her own sisters and now when I see the practical world it becomes so very much special gesture that its hard to stop from crying. There are so many things to remember but it’s not possible to capture each and every memory in paper. But it’s nice to relive those memories again and again. Three of us have other precious friends in our lives also but the things which we share are always so special. The main appeal is the original and natural belongingness I feel with them. The feel of confidence is awesome which goes a long way in life. This friendship makes me feel rooted and worth living in this world. The knowledge that whatever one does, whether wrong or right but there is some one (in my case two) in this world who stood always alongside makes world more colorful.

We grew up together and now all three of us are working. Sonali and Rupali, both are teachers in Govt Schools and they presently stay in Dibrugarh. This time, life and days are so different. Now we can’t wake up whole night to catch up with all the things though we talk a lot over phone. But those were the days we spent together when we were quite unaware that we had been creating golden memories for life time. We talk about every possible smallest things from our past and laugh a lot when we meet and make the nights tired with our gossips ! Long live our friendship may be even after we die...! One special prayer to God…….Please bless me with one blessing that I should die before my friends so that I do not miss them as I cant think about life without them. Thank you Sonali and Rupali, for being with me through the sun and rain of life.


    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment
    • dghbrh profile imageAUTHOR


      8 years ago from ...... a place beyond now and beyond here !!!

      Namaste, many thanks for your kind stop here. Yeah it is really nice to be blessed by two best friends at the same time. Thanks for being with us for some time here. Take care and God bless you


    • Emanate Presence profile image

      Gary R. Smith 

      8 years ago from the Head to the Heart

      A sweet walk through your childhood memories, meeting your twin friends, 'cycling around the curved and picturesque roads of the town,' overlooking the beauty of the countryside. I could nearly smell the fragrance of the flowers. Up and more. Namaste.

    • dghbrh profile imageAUTHOR


      8 years ago from ...... a place beyond now and beyond here !!!

      Many thanks @Kathryn for your visit here is much appreciated. Yeah, You are right I am blessed with two wonderful bestest friends sure. Those were the days we can only visit in the fold of our sweet memories.

      You are always welcome here.

      God bless you always !!!!!!


    • Kathryn Stratford profile image


      8 years ago from Windsor, Connecticut

      That was beautiful. I love to think about how life was as a child. So different than when we get older!

      I used to love riding my bike. Hearing about that brought back memories.

      It must have been so nice to have two best friends - and twins, at that!

      Thank you for sharing such precious memories.

    • dghbrh profile imageAUTHOR


      8 years ago from ...... a place beyond now and beyond here !!!

      Dear Jackie, yeah only if we would have died before the loved one, death would have been much easier. I hope you enjoy your experience through out though I know you may be missing those never-to-be-filled again void in life with the departure of the nearest ones. But life moves on and we have to live on till its destined. Thanks for liking my memories, your votes and shares.

      God bless you with much happiness ahead


    • Jackie Lynnley profile image

      Jackie Lynnley 

      8 years ago from the beautiful south

      As a child I use to pray I die before any of my family. If he had honored that I would have been long dead. It is hard to live through but I am happy to still be living. You have some beautiful memories, may you make many more! Up and sharing.


    • dghbrh profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from ...... a place beyond now and beyond here !!!

      Sure dear,

      Very soon i will post every thing you want to see. promise ...........

      Hey I am your friend now and don worry we gonna have some wonderful time ahead .

      Thanks for your visit and comment here.



    • livingsta profile image


      9 years ago from United Kingdom

      Beautiful hub. Enjoyed every bit of it. The way you have explained the roads as ribbons, is just beautiful. I would so love to see a photograph or two. Also the Gulmohar tree, which has been portrayed here, would love to see a picture of it. I know they are beautiful, especially when in full bloom.

      God bless your friendship! Was lovely to read, took me back to my school days, but I did not have friends with whom I had fun, as my parents did not let me socialise. I would also love to see pictures of the beautiful city where you live.!!!!

    • dghbrh profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from ...... a place beyond now and beyond here !!!

      Hey Deborah,

      thanks for your precious comment here.

      it sooooooo nice to know that we share some common memories. may be these are universal , nevertheless we gonna share a long friendship ahead for sure.

      thanks again

      luv deergha

    • DeborahNeyens profile image

      Deborah Neyens 

      9 years ago from Iowa

      What a lovely hub with beautiful memories of your childhood. The thing that struck me reading this was that even though we grew up on opposite sides of the world, our childhood experiences were really quite similar - riding bikes all around, sharing our secrets and dreams with our friends. I guess some things are just universal. Thanks for sharing your memories.

    • Rolly A Chabot profile image

      Rolly A Chabot 

      9 years ago from Alberta Canada

      Hi dghbrh... very well written and I enjoy the memories... It is good to go back to the better times and reflect... Thanks for writing this... impressive insights.

      Rolly in Canada

    • dghbrh profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from ...... a place beyond now and beyond here !!!

      Thank you@ momster....for you are always welcome here.

    • momster profile image


      9 years ago

      Great life memory. Friends make life better. Thanks for sharing your childhood memory.

    • dghbrh profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from ...... a place beyond now and beyond here !!!

      Thank you @ much for you kind words. This goes a log way to inspire to write more....many thanks again

    • T4an profile image


      9 years ago from Toronto, Ontario

      I loved this hub. You are a very good writer! You have such lovely memories.


    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

    Show Details
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)
    ClickscoThis is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy)