EGO & SOUL ... A CONVERSATION
UNLUCKY IN LOVE:
I’ve tried video dating, I’ve tried internet dating, and I’ve tried running ads in newspapers. Nothing ever works. There’s really no good men around. You can’t really trust anybody, can you?
Well, The Law of Attraction says how we vibrate matters to the rest of the world. And, so we have to take a look at where you’re vibrating. Are you vibrating low, where fear and anger and loss might be? Or, are you vibrating higher? Chances are, you’re vibrating at a place lower than you need to be and this is why you essentially aren’t pulling in the kind of men you’d like to be with.
You know, I love shopping at the mall. All of the stores take all of the credit cards. So, that’s all you need. When you’re having a down day, go to the mall – whip out the credit card. Makes you feel like a million bucks!
Sounds like you’re trying to fill a void in your life and you’re trying to do it through material things. These are not going to fill up the loss or the void you feel. Instead, why not try to nurture yourself from the inside out? Try meditating, try walking, try singing, try being with people that make you feel good about yourself.
COPING WITH DIS-EASE:
I have a headache almost every day of the month. Maybe 70% of the time, I have a headache. The pain comes in over my left eye; I feel like I’m nauseous. I can’t eat; I can’t be in the light; I can’t deal with people; I don’t want to hear noise. How am I supposed to work? How am I supposed to be in a relationship, raise children? How am I supposed to do this in pain, so much pain all of the time?
Well, obviously, you’re living with a lot of stress. There also might be an energetic blockage somewhere in your system. If we take at look at that energetically, we could discover where you’re blocked and work to clear that for you.
Every year, I have an evaluation, and every year my boss wants me to give him my five- year goals. I don’t know what he wants. I don’t know what to say. I do the best I can, but sometimes I feel like it’s never quite enough. I really don’t know what to do. How am I supposed to get ahead? They don’t tell me what to do; I don’t really feel confident enough to ask. I need help. I don’t know what to do.
Sounds like you’re not really following your bliss. You may be doing something you think you can do because it earns money to pay the bills, but you’re not doing something that brings you joy. Once you find that place – that place of joy and bliss – a lot of the other issues in your life will automatically begin to clear up.
You know, the doctors say a glass of wine is good for you. So, why not two, why not three, why not four! Who’s counting? Whose business is it, anyway?!
Well, sounds like there’s an issue here with you trying to numb out. This would automatically speak to your emotional body; something that is causing you pain, if not at a conscious level, certainly at a subconscious level. Again, we would want to look in and see where these energetic cords, these imprints from your earliest childhood…see where they are, then disconnect and release you from that.