ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Lets Talk About Contraceptives

Updated on November 28, 2016

We've all seen it plastered all over the media, women being discriminated against and ridiculed for their choice in how they take care of their bodies. I have seen some outrageous sexist views in the media such as Hobby Lobby claiming they fight for religious freedom while they press their views and opinions upon their female employees, or when a certain politician made the biggest mistake of his life explaining that during a rape women can just shut down their organs so they don't end up getting pregnant. It never ceases to amaze me and how frightened our society is of women sexuality.

So let's get down to it women take birth control for a variety of reasons some are in fact medical necessities; others are simply because they do not wish to venture down the road of motherhood and wish to practice safer sex habits, cause lets face it condoms aren't always effective. I think in a mainly male dominated society the norm is that men are the sexual deviants and are the only ones allowed to go forth and plant their seed, but is anything said if a man tries to prevent being a father by using a condom...not hardly. In the eyes of some religious groups women who use birth control are sometimes seen as playing God because they are preventing a life from being created. But look at it this way would you want an unprepared woman to become a mother and then hear about how she left her child in a hot car, or left him/her wrapped tightly in a blanket cause she just didn't want to deal with him/her? No then you would be ready to throw that woman in jail and take her child away from her. Well I think it's wise that women are being proactive about birth control cause lets face facts not all women are meant to be mothers.


Joan Jett on Sexuality

Medical Necessities for Birth Control

Here are some of the medical reasons for taking birth control.

  • Some women have heavy periods and can cause severe pain and cramping and take birth control in order to alleviate that pain. When you take birth control you are controlling when you have a period and in fact aren't having a true period where you experience extreme cramping and bleeding and one pill out there even cuts your period down to four times a year and can reduce your time on your period from 7 days to possibly 3.
  • Women also take the pill to get relief from their endometriosis. With this condition the uterine lining grows in other areas of the pelvis and can lead to a multitude of things from severe pain to infertility. What the pill does is prevent this from happening.
  • Another reason is PMS relief. Every woman's period is different and no two women are the same so there are a variety of pills out there that help with whichever symptom each woman is having issues with, from bloating to fluid reduction there is a pill out there to help.



Birth Control

Would you provide your child with the proper preventions of becoming a parent whether it be birth control or condoms?

See results

This graph illustrates the decline in teen pregnancy from 1991-2012 and it isn't completely known as to why there is a decline, but according to the CDC website, "In 2012, a total of 305,388 babies were born to women aged 15–19 years, for a live birth rate of 29.4 per 1,000 women in this age group.This is a record low for U.S. teens in this age group, and a drop of 6% from 2011. Birth rates fell 8% for women aged 15–17 years, and 5% for women aged 18–19 years. While reasons for the declines are not clear, teens seem to be less sexually active, and more of those who are sexually active seem to be using birth control than in previous years." http://www.cdc.gov/teenpregnancy/aboutteenpreg.htm

So by teens practicing safe sex acts the amount of 'babies making babies' has been declining. Now I would say that is a win right there for birth control and for smart parents teaching their kids to practice safe sex habits. These parents realized there is no stopping their kids from having sex all they can do is talk to them about sex and educate them on safer sex. As humans we are sexual creatures and I think this controversy with birth control isn't about how it prevents pregnancies, but how it illustrates that women are sexual beings. Does this make them sluts? No. Does this mean they are asking to get raped cause they are prepared? No. they are exploring their sexuality and want to safely.

CDC Statistics Teen Pregnancy 1991-2012

Source

So does our society fear the sexual woman, or are they fighting legitimate fights for the good of their cause? Personally I wouldn't want my employer to tell me whether or not I can use birth control, nor would I want my government to tell me what I can and cannot do with my body. Women are going to be sexual and men just need to get over the fact that the age of sexual women is coming. This doesn't mean we are asking for it, nor does it mean that every night the possibility of a one night stand lies in your future. But we should be allowed to be sexual without the fear of being labeled as a slut or worse. We should also be free to take whatever contraceptives we want in order to indulge in our sexual appetite. Just because a religious group believes this age of women is promiscuous and asking to be raped doesn't condone the prejudice these women receive.

I have been guilty of labeling women who act in a way I wouldn't with men, but I have learned the error of my ways and strive to fight for all rights of women, even if I don't agree with their life style. That is not my choice to make, their choice of living has no direct effect on me so why should I make it a spectacle when they want to manage their bodies their own way. It's very hypocritical of some groups to claim religious freedom when they themselves are pressing their beliefs onto others. I understand that they want to have their right to not use birth control, but to their employees who don't practice those same beliefs they are doing to them, the exact thing they are fighting against.



Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • profile image

      Ausseye 

      4 years ago

      Yep, do work in the area of family violence. Jail time and the tolerance of abuse and stalking, just as in divorce between before the courts even dogs would be hard done by. Equality of all is the best society we could make, freedom in its fullest. If only that could be achieved then we humans could really be proud of having done something right, really right!!!

    • Brittany Kussman profile imageAUTHOR

      Brittany Kussman 

      4 years ago from St. Louis, MO

      Thank you for reading, I'm glad you enjoyed my hub. These issues are real issues that seem to never go away and I think that it is tragic that our society is scared of women being sexual and not allowing them to have a say in what they do with their bodies. I have been reading in the sports news about the pro sports player who knocked his now wife out and I am in shock at how it is being handled. So the crime of domestic violence to pro sports teams is nowhere near the crime of drug use, murder or even animal abuse. They are pretty much putting the message out there that women are lower than dogs and crimes against us aren't seen as heinous enough to result in some jail time.

    • profile image

      Ausseye 

      4 years ago

      A view with a right to be encouraged, well said. Love the stance and I hope it continues to be the momentum for all people to follow, freedom to choose is the very best we can all do for each other. You make the world a better place with such expressive views. Long live liberation of both sexes. If only more cultures and religions would accept the rights of all people, including women, to make up their own minds about what is important for themselves . Voted up!!!!

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)