Infidelity
Infidelity
If this topic seems overdone, it’s only because it never loses it’s
relevance.
So why is Infidelity such a hot topic?
I
will simply say that it is due to the fact that some men and women are
allergic to having one partner, staying faithful to that partner and
keeping their hands, lips and other parts of their bodies to
themselves. In this modern time, we have recorded so many cases of
divorce and from my own personal point of view, 90% of this divorce is
caused by INFIDELITY.
From my own point of view, it is true that
so many people fall victim to infidelity but the majority of all are
women, most times you see them put up the face that all is well in
their relationships simply because they don’t want to be embraced.
Unlike the modern world, Africa society doesn’t give women much room to
lash out on this issue. Folk, i wish to let you know that the majority
of physical ailments are linked to sense of anger, rejection and
betrayal.
Majority of women develop illness because of grief and
hurt they experience all in the name of Love. Though one might boldly
say that Men can handle this issue but bet me, no man will take
infidelity so for you young lady who willingly go after another woman’s
man, be ready to shoulder the blame because i truly believe that “A
WOMAN CAN DIE OF HEART BREAK.” This particular topic reminds me of what
my late mother normally tell my sister and cousins. “Don’t ever make
another woman cry.”
“Infidelity, cheating, unfaithfulness,
Cacho, horning” call it anything you can imagine has become the norm,
rather than exception in our world today. Folk, Infidelity does not
discriminate, it can rare its ugly head at any given time and in any
circumstance. I bet you, anyone can be a VICTIM. People can carry on
with this life style for months and years and as far as i am concerned,
in most cases, infidelity is never discovered but what happens when it
is discovered.
Bad day for you today.
The following
stories about infidelity are real, if you do follow me in face book,
you might have seen my trend on the 9th of Dec 2009.I have known Frank
for so many years and he hates the company of women so he was the last
person i questioned when doing this research. Read what he told me and
that of others.
Frank’s story:
She was the remote of my
television, the nail that held the picture upon my plaster wall; She
was the moving escalator in my local shopping mall. She was the divider
on my freeway, the curb along my street; she was as necessary to me as
the skin upon my feet.
She was the reason why I work so hard,
she was the money in my pay; she was the beginning and the ending of my
every single day. Her body is divinely formed. I loved her to my very
soul, She was my Valley's Lily; She was in my heart of hearts.
On
the night of my 26th birthday, she gave me the birthday gift of my
life. I caught her in my own bed with my friend Danny. Ever since then,
i have not woken up from the shock and each time i come across a girl,
i see her face right in the girl’s face. “No, i don’t need another
Erika in my life.”
Emeka’s story:
My girl friend and i lived
miles away from each other, i was in States and she was in Nigeria, we
kept more in touch via the internet so one day we decided to
communicate by SKYPE phone, using the webcam, we had a romantic evening
and by 11.00pm, it was clear that we have had our share of romance so
we said good night and hung up.
I had a friend over that night
round about 4.00am, my cell phone biped, it was a text message so i
checked it and to my greatest surprise, it was Nnedi my girl friend,
she text me to let me know that i was the worst thing that ever
happened to her, that i am a cheat and that we are done, i didn’t
understand what she meant and why that, besides i agreed to send her
the one thousand dollars she requested, as i tried to pick up my other
phone to call her, i realized that the computer was on it said “current
Skype call 5hrs 27min 10 sec....etc.”
I left the webcam on all night and she watched all my indiscretion.
Naomi’s story:
We
have been married for three years and he was the love of my life, i
took him for his words and never doubted him, i was what you will
simply call the OBEDIENT WIFE.I normally close work late every evening
so getting home is always around 8pm due to traffic, i wasn’t feeling
well so i left work quite on time, i called my husband to let him know
that i was a bit sick but his cell was off ,i was shocked when i got
home and his car was on the driveway, he is not always at home by that
time because he closes late as well.
As i opened the door, i
heard moaning coming from the bed room, i pressed my ears to the door
and heard someone call on his name but the voice sounded like a man so
i banged open the door and there he was having sex with man. I froze;
the three of us stared at one another for what seemed to be an
eternity. He later apologized and said he was just experimenting.
Though i forgave him but i am yet to come over it.
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We
all will have to take responsibilities for our actions so we should
always try our best to be contented with the love of our lives.Until
you loose what you have got, then you will realize it importance.
"Be faithful because you can!"