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Driving (and Walking) in Parking Lots

Updated on February 20, 2018
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Peace, harmony, and lifelong learning are Liz's life philosophy. She's outspoken on education and is an activist in local politics.

Crowded Parking Lots Are Hazardous to Your Safety!

You Are Not Alone in the World!

Like it or not, we are on this planet with plenty of other people. The space is shared, and horse blinders are not the proper attire.

Daily evidence points to a lack of common sense! It causes all manner of problems. In the extreme case, we see people being beaten up, or worse, shot, in such trivial matters as disputes over parking places.

The first person may, indeed, have been rude, and cut off someone already heading for a given spot--but the situation is exacerbated when the person who was denied reacts with even worse behavior, and starts a physical altercation, or worse, kills the person whom they perceive "wronged" them. You see these stories on the news all too often.

I want to reach through the TV screen, grab the offender and say, "So you missed out on the parking spot. Another one will come along. Get over it! It is not worth someone's life, health, or well-being. Rudeness does not deserve the death penalty."

Stalling

This is a serious peeve of mine in a crowded lot. You are driving in circles, finding no open spots, and finally, you see someone get into their car. You stop behind them, with plenty of room for them to back out, and wait.

And wait.

And wait.

And Wait.

And what is the person doing? Fiddling with the CD player; making a phone call; talking to (or arguing with) another person in the car; and sometimes--this really galls me--just sitting there.

Meanwhile, traffic is backing up, people are honking at you, because you are sitting there waiting for the space to become available to do your own errand.

At long last, you decide they are not leaving any time soon, and give up. As you round the corner into the next aisle, you see the person pull out and drive away. Of course, someone who was behind you gets the spot you were waiting for.

If the lot is crowded, get in your car, start the engine and leave! It is very rude and inconsiderate to just sit there fiddling with stuff, or what have you, causing traffic to back up and people to become impatient.

Suggestion: If you are not ready to leave, do not get in the car yet! If things you need to fiddle with are inside the car, then get in on the passenger side to deal with them, so other drivers will not think you are about to depart. Shift to the driver's side only when you are actually ready to vacate the spot.

Drivers Need to Pay Attention

Too many drivers seem to think they are safely in their own driveways, and proceed to backup without watching behind them.

Check out the video below; it illustrates the point very well.

Who is at fault? It's obvious to me....

Pedestrians Are Guilty, Too

There are too many people on the way to or from their cars who are completely oblivious to the fact that they are in what amounts to a street, with moving vehicles going in all directions.

From people pushing baby strollers and shopping carts, to elderly walking with assistive devices, many of them simply do not watch where they are going. The burden is on the drivers to watch out for careless people on foot.

These folks seem to think they are walking safely down the midway at Disneyland or some other auto-free zone. It is dangerous for both them and the drivers. Too many times to count, even at slow parking lot speeds, I've had to slam on my brakes because some fool pedestrian just had to get across the aisle at that very moment, and dove right in front of me as if I wasn't even there.

Worse, and scarier, are those who are blissfully unaware of a vehicle's blind spots. The bigger the vehicle, the bigger the blind spot. When I am driving my truck, which has a small camper shell, I cannot see what is behind the corners of the truck, either in the mirrors or by turning my head. Yet, people will see me backing out of a spot, and just keep walking right on behind my vehicle already in motion.

Wow! Blinders on? Stupidity? Death wish? Hard to say, but it is quite frightening for the driver to have checked, seen no one, start to back up, and suddenly, see a person emerge from out of the blind spot. I often wish for a rear-end horn for these situations!

These days, too many of these folks are oblivious because they have their heads down, buried in their cell phones! NOT the time or place, people.

Suggestion: If you are on foot in any parking lot, watch where you are going! Look both ways before crossing the aisle--just like they taught you in kindergarten--and do NOT proceed when you see a car in motion. Wait until it passes your spot. If there is a lot of traffic in the lot, and you need to cross, wait until you can catch a driver's eye, and indicate that you need to move across, and wait for them to stop and indicate for you to go ahead. Who knows? They may need your parking spot.

© 2014 Liz Elias

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  • DzyMsLizzy profile imageAUTHOR

    Liz Elias 

    4 years ago from Oakley, CA

    Hello, Minnetonka Twin,

    I have to agree-those cell phones have got to GO! Thanks for stopping by and adding your piece to the conversation.

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    Linda Rogers 

    4 years ago from Minnesota

    This is a great list of pet peeves about driving etiquette. I go nuts when I see people talking on cell phones and pretending to drive. It's so dangerous and so annoying to me. Thanks for saying what we're all thinking.

  • DzyMsLizzy profile imageAUTHOR

    Liz Elias 

    4 years ago from Oakley, CA

    Hi, Jodah!

    Ah, yes, the infamous hoggers of two spaces in the lengthwise mode. Very annoying, indeed! I don't understand at all, what is the matter with such folks. Thanks for adding yet another example of rudeness!

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    John Hansen 

    4 years ago from Queensland Australia

    I'm glad someone decided to write a hub about this MsLizzy. It is a peeve of mine too especially the stalling before leaving the park. Also people that park too far forward in a park so that the front of the car protrudes into the park in front not leaving enough room to park another car in there without sticking out dangerously (and vice versa).

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    Liz Elias 

    4 years ago from Oakley, CA

    Hello FlourishAnyway!

    Oh my goodness! Those are some other major bits of rudeness! I agree. And in a way, I kind of wish we had the old-fashioned station wagons for the 2-space hoggers. My dad always had a fantasy of coming up on each side of one of those with station wagons, pulling as close as possible without trading paint, and then exiting the wagons via the rear door....leaving it impossible for them to get into their car. Just to teach them a lesson... LOL Of course, that is not even possible anymore; one of the first new safety features with the new-style 'wagons' with rear hatchback openings was that they can no longer be opened from inside.

    Yeah..Now I've "gotten started" again! ;-)

    Thanks so much for adding your peeves to this article!

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    FlourishAnyway 

    4 years ago from USA

    I don't like it when people take up two spaces in an already crowded lot, when they park in disabled spots, when they walk intentionally slow and aimlessly or worse yet they stop in the crosswalk (it always happens at Walmart, or when they just leave buggies anywhere. Oh don't get me started.

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