One can not underestimate the wealth of emotion and strength of women. They play a vital role in the balance of mankind. Even though some may disagree, the are the gentler species of humanity. Their soul emits a beautiful radiance which strikes a balance in life sustainability. Without women, there could not have been a creation of worlds such beautiful as Earth and many other undiscovered planes. Women deserve a lot more recognition than men give them in the role they play in life. I am not speaking of the corporate world where many women are forced to shed their natural femininity to become bulls in an aggressive business world. But women who use the God given power of feminism to heal, sooth, mend and grow a nation. That is true power. That is true power of women.
Women are born natural care givers. No matter which movement think otherwise. They are natural mothers of the earth despite having a child or not. They will love without condition and give without thinking. But often times their kind gestures get the better of them that they become so busy with the people around them that they forget to take care of themselves. They become depleted of internal resources and keeps on giving without ever being replenished. It is a love relationship among women, husbands, children that is bitter sweet.
Replenish The Wife
One beautiful role a woman plays in society is that of being that single life long partner of the male species, the wife. The wife commits herself to her husband under vow to be by his side till death do them part. She then becomes the building block of the entire household which may include children. She naturally takes on the role of house master and ensures that all which needs to be done gets done to keep the house and family intact. She is the cook, the cleaner, the mother, the washer, the nurse, the calendar, the school representative and a host of other occupations. She gets weary of all the task that is naturally demanded from her. She gets weary of all the services she gives to her household and becomes depleted, weary and tired. It is therefore the duty of the husband to replenish his wife. The husband can replenish his wife by first acknowledging the enormous efforts which she has put in to keep the family oiled and moving. He can look at his wife and simply offer his hand in anything she does. He should take her out of that clockwork environment and offer her days of soothing relaxation and fun. Remind her how beautiful she is despite the wrinkles being formed and the few strands of grey hair emerging.
One of the greatest joy of womanhood is being a mother. A woman who is a good mother is like God within herself. She carried that child for nine month, gave birth to that human being. Then that human had to suck the nourishment from her to be properly developed. Then the child grows up and the mother has the daunting task of taking care of that child during toddler, childhood, teenage and many time young adult stages. Mothers rise early in the mornings and see to it that breakfast is made for all, no matter if it is just a bowl of flakes. They sometimes have the daunting task of cleaning up after any meals. They are the givers of care and council in many homes. But the problem is that they themselves need to be on the receiving end of all the care and love they give too as part of being replenished as a mother. Children can replenish their mothers by simply asking "What can I help with? Sit down Mom, It is your time to rest this weekend." Talk to her, ask her if she is Ok today and if not what you can do to help. Make her a sandwich for lunch. Help with her garden. Do something you know she will ultimately appreciate. Hug her and tell her that you really appreciate all that she has done and all that she will do for you as a mother. Women are very emotional and the act of reinforcement of love plays a vital role in their mental state.
Nurturing women at a tender age plays a significant role in the kind of society we choose to live in. Remember, no tree bears sweet fruits if the roots are rotten. From a female is at that tender age where her absorption of life is what she sees in her immediate surroundings. It is best to feed them as much positiveness and love as possible. All that good they receive as a child will manifest in greatness when they become young ladies and then unto being wives and mothers of a decent, loving and good law abiding society.
© 2018 Clive Williams