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Why black men turn to hispanic and caucasion women!
It's rather sad! Maybe it's just the lack of self-worth, as to why these Caucasion and Hispanic women, allow black men to treat them so badly! It seems to me that they pick up the black men that black women don't usually want, or anyone wants! I will give you a couple of examples, and if you are one of those women, and you want to get all upset and defensive, just prove to me how I am wrong!
First situation is a black men that has 3 kids, in different areas of the world, by three different women! He doesn't see them or even know them well enough to bond with them. What kind of woman would want to be with a man who treats his children wrong? Well, that would be the Hispanic women that seems to have been culturally abused and think they deserve nothing good! So this man meets a girl online and talks to her for 3 weeks. She knows of his children that he doesn't take care of, yet falls madly inlove and wants to get married,within 3 weeks! The day after their marriage, he cheats on her, she finds out and stays with him! Why? Because she feels she is nothing and deserves nothing, but that! Tell me how many black women would take that?
Then there is the white girl, who picks up the trash and feels she is somebody because she has the black man who will give her curly hair, brown skin babies! Seriously? The guy doesn't work, stays home, doesn't cook or clean and treats her like crap! She isn't even married to him and he takes her paychecks and runs her life, not to mention, he gives her no emotional or physical love! Now, what black woman would take that?
These are the men that black women don't want! The difference here is that when Black Women marry a white man, they marry a man that brings something to the table! One that works hard and treats them like a queen. What is wrong with this scenario? Think about it! Don't get mad at me because I am telling about your pathetic situation that you don't have the strength to do anything about!
Did you ever think that this is why you(hispanic and caucasions) end up with these black men? These are the black men that real, strong black women didn't want, better known as their trash! So, while you are smiling about having a black man in your life, with your brown skinned, curly hair babies, just know that black women aren't looking at you as if you stole their property, they are looking at you with disgust!
Some of you will say that isn't me, but you know that somewhere in your relationship, that black man runs your life, or your jealous of all his moves, worried that he will leave you. You can make up all the excuses in the world, as to how your situation is different, but deep down, when you get angry at me for writing this, it's because you know I am right!