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5 Ways to Show Your Love

Updated on February 15, 2008

How to Show Your Love

There are so many different ways that you can show your loved one that you love them. It's actually rather simple once you get the hang of it. Now, although, you may save some of these tips for special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, and Valentine's Day, you may consider them an everyday thing. Well, not all of them, but some of the following tips are usable for everyday occurrence and the "just because I love you" moments.

Don't be stingy with your love, share it. Life's too short to not share your love with someone special.

Love Notes

5 Ways to Show Him You Love Him

  1. Shower him with little gifts: picture frame with a picture of the two of you; slip a note in his favorite magazine; replace his bookmark with a special note; text him sweet nothings.
  2. Say "I love you" with music: compile a CD of love songs or of his favorite songs and slip it into his car; buy that CD he's had his eye on; write him a song or poem
  3. Be crafty: make him something that you know he'll love; customize a calendar with pictures, highlighting special days with his favorite sports team
  4. Do him a favor: do something that he normally does or wants to get done before he has the change; get his watch polished for him; get tickets for that movie he's been dying to see; write him a coupon to get out of his chores for the day
  5. Prepare a romantic dinner: get the kids out of the house, and dine with style; makes favorite meal and finish off with his favorite dessert

5 Ways to Show Her You Love Her

  1. Just tell her: just saying "Honey, I love you" will mean the world to her; don't go overboard with it, but say those three little words at random, catch her off guard.
  2. Be more affectionate: face it, women tend to need more physical attention; genle kisses on the cheek; touch her face; hug her; all just because.
  3. Sweets: women tend to have an extra sweet tooth; bring her home her favorite candy, pastry, or dessert. Remember chocolate contains Phenylethylamine, which is a chemical that gets released in the brain when you're in love (plus it helps her reach her 'O')- find chocolates that are 40% to 70% cocoa.
  4. Small gifts: find little things that remind you of her, she'll appreciate it plus she'll know you were thinking about her; magazines at the check out counter; cell phone accessories that she's been wanting; the book, CD, or DVD, that she's been dying to get her hands one
  5. Surprise her: little surprises that show her you were thinking about her during the day; send her flowers at home or work

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      6 years ago

      ilove him 2much,i tried my best to be good with him,i did all everything that i know he could happy with me,,i always thinking of him all the day,i cared and love him,i cant feel and touch the days by days without him,but sometimes im refused on it when the times that i need him i want to see him i want to talk with him iwant to go outside with him,to eat together hes always busy,with his friends,family and others,,i jst keep my self crying alone,,im hurting 2much,ilove him i really really love him but he didn't respond what i feel about him,,i know he loves me too but its not enough for only saying to me 'ilove u i always thinking of u',,but he doesn't show me how he loves me,,what should i do,,

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      love searcher 

      7 years ago

      not bad for a wife and her husband but i need it to a future girlfriend

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      7 years ago

      Not badly advises. For more striking way to show love,you can visit the amazing site, www.loverscale.Com

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      7 years ago

      To lost and confused.

      IT seems like you really care about this guy(or else you wouldn't be as good to him as you have been). I can understand your frustration and confusion. My boy friend is like you. He does sweet romantic things for me. He always tells me he loves me constantly, he writes me notes, does romantic things, he proposed, and there's no possible reason for me not to believe him. I do love him and I do believe he loves me too but sometimes there's still that little voice in the back of my head saying "You're not good enough for him. Why would he possibly want to be with you? His life would be better if you weren't in it. He doesn't really love you, he's just with you out of pity" and that has caused a lot of problems. If it's meant to be it will(I know...totally cliché thing to say). Maybe he will come around to realizing that he DOES need you and you DO love him. Good things take time, if he IS the one, don't give up hope.

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      7 years ago

      Um, Lost and Confused...sounds like he's not worth your time. If he doesn't think that you love him after all that, he is just being ridiculous and all he wants is for you to worship at his feet which is not the way relationships should be. If he doesn't believe you when you tell him you love him, something is wrong and obviously he doesn't trust you. The next time he tells you "I don't believe you" I would just say "Ok, your right...BYE!" and watch his mouth drop as you walk out the door.

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      Lost and Confused 

      7 years ago

      Hmm...I do all that for my BF and it's still not enough, I buy him flowers, cards, write i love you messages on the mirrors in the house and car, I tell him, I even put little notes in his lunch when I make it. He still dose not believe that I love him. I want you to know I do not just buy flowers and give card and write on the morrors on special days I do it at random times sometimes when I'm in the shower I'll even take the shave cream and leave an I love you on the bathtub wall (write with it). When we go out to eat I always want him to sit by me ( and he dose or I sit by him) I hold his hand when we shop (go to the mall etc..) at home I sit by him when we watch tv (I put my head on his sholder) I tell him I love him I kiss him it's never enough.I'm told it's all fake and manufactured. So what else is there to do???? I even asked him to marry me I bought a ring and proposed to him ( a thousand dollar ring means nothing too i guess)

      Just a note so you know I am a women and of course he is a guy I'm 33 and his 47.

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      7 years ago

      never expect the love from ur partner just show him how much u love him.....just tell u mean the world for me dear.....

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      8 years ago

      I like your ways to show love, am in love but cant say coz need her presence in mah life forever....

      She knows everything but i just want to give her happines which z only for her...


      & she said..........................................

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      8 years ago

      I like your advice. It's nice to be reminded that it doesn't take a lot to show someone you care. I love a funny note on the bathroom mirror or on my pillow...silly things like that, but they mean a lot.

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      Dan L 

      9 years ago

      Great Advice ! If you visit one of my Hubs, You'll notice I learned these things the hard way - well, at least I learned, right !

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      10 years ago

      You seem to know a lot about this...........I'm a starter......But I want to become better........I want to send messeges to the world that will help them and put them to think....I want to come up with simple words that will make them understand....That's my dream.........Well I really like what you wrote.......Your tips will help many.........

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      Bob Ewing 

      10 years ago from New Brunswick

      good tips.


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