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6 Ways to Help Your Relationship Stay Confusion-Free

Updated on September 3, 2018
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I was born in the south. I live in the south and will die in the south. This is only a small part of the memories I share.

I Need to Introduce

you to the two photos on this hub. Why? Simply because I do not like to leave things undone, so I am going to explain the two photos to you. Do you see both couples, and how happy they are? Obviously the two couples have fallen in love and to all the hapless romantics . . ."their limits are only the moon and stars."

Don't be fooled. These two couples fell in love and it was somewhat accidental and somewhat fate, if you believe that stuff. The details are too long and drawn-out, so I will just say (to make my point), what has happened to these two couples does NOT happen every day. I suppose that there is a reason why, but like the reasons why the two couples fell in love are too long and drawn-out and besides, you have another Labor Day 2018 to celebrate with ribs and burgers to eat and friends to laugh with and be happy because you will have a short work week--provided that you have a job that you go to Monday through Friday.

What a happy couple. They are deep in love and they have the secret in how to stay happy: they know how to communicate.
What a happy couple. They are deep in love and they have the secret in how to stay happy: they know how to communicate. | Source

And Please, Be Patient

with me on this one because I want all of my words and ideas to be concise. I hate blurry sentences that cause me to get confused and then I get all upset sending my blood pressure zooming into the double-digits, so please, handle me with kid gloves.

Another solid reason why these two happy couples are happy and in love are because the two couples either had the good sense to call ahead or send a yellow sticky-note to tell the other one that they would be late and not get too upset. That is just common courtesy. I wish we had more of it.

Since common courtesy is hiding somewhere, I've stumbled upon something that may not be as glamorous, but it never fails: Six Sure-Fire Ways to Keep Your Relationship Confusion-Free.

6.) Good Old Face-to-Face -- communications between you and your loved one. Don't be too stunned, because we can still talk and that skill rates higher than the importance of the dinosaurs, so the next time you are going to be late, simply walk to your loved one and tell him or her the situation and when you get home there will be NO confusion, short-words or cold shoulders.

5.) Remember The Post Office -- these boys and girls are still in business and still in the business of delivering your mail and that includes you if you are in a long-distance relationship and you are wanting to keep the car's gas bill in moderation by simply sitting down and writing your loved one a warm letter. You do remember how to write?

4.) What About a Telegraph -- and I can use virtually the same information about the Post Office as I can for you to send that loved one a loving telegraph and guess what? He or she may get a bigger kick out of reading an old fashioned telegram from you, his or her honey. I will explain later.

3.) Newspaper Advertising -- is still going strong. And if your loved one is having a birthday, just pop into the newspaper office and compse a snappy "Happy Birthday" ad to him or her and of course you will have to pay for it since the greeting is considered display advertising, so you might save up before your loved one's birthday rolls around.

2.) A Singing Telegram -- can help you to bring that loved one closer whether you can sing or not. I have an idea: YOU try your best to sing that telegram and you dress to fit the occasion. (e.g. a tuxedo if an anniversary is coming up,) You see? This works like a charm.

1.) A Personal Messenger Service -- is what our society has probably forgotten thanks to the e-mails and computer chatting tools. Besides, doing something personal, for example: you are going to be late with your loved one. Tell him or her, but send a paid "employee"and you and your loved one will have a great time.

What do you know? Old Fashioned Things are still in style.
September 2, 2018_________________________________

Loving, kissing, and having great times. This couple also knows how to communicate with each other.
Loving, kissing, and having great times. This couple also knows how to communicate with each other. | Source

© 2018 Kenneth Avery

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      Ken Avery 

      2 years ago

      Dred -- you are so right. Communication(s) between sensible people, I believe, is the foundation of a peaceful society. It is the loud-mouth'd dark and negative words that occupy people's minds that lead to anarchy and worse, socialism.

      Just an opinion.

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      Travel Chef 

      2 years ago from Manila

      Maintaining a good communication is the key to our successful relationship with other people around us especially to the ones we love. That's in addition to any surprises we can do in order to make good memories with them.

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      2 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Hi, V Kumar! -- thank you so much for reading my piece and leaving me such a nice remark.

      Keep it coming, V and have a peaceful day.

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      2 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Hi, Liz -- it is always my pleasure to log onto a hub and see you there with your nice comment.

      You are right. Clear communication is always THE best way to grow as a human being and those around us can also grow.

      You are always welcome.

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      2 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Hi, Carrie Lee -- thanks for your sweet comment. At second glance of my work, it hit me. I could litterally heard the voices of Sixties' Heroes and Guru's and I re-read my piece again.

      How could I have been so old so quickly?4

      Live and learn or live and burn, baby, burn!4

      Write me anytime.

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      V Kumar 

      2 years ago

      Nice hub. Many interesting ideas! Thanks for sharing.

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      Liz Westwood 

      2 years ago from UK

      Good communication is the key to good relationships in so many different areas of life.

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      Carrie Lee Night 

      2 years ago from Northeast United States

      Cute hub !!! :) Right you are !!

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