- Gender and Relationships
Simple things that will make every man more Attractive
Most women want a man who is neat, well groomed, confident and (obviously) one with some money. Those things will get her to notice you, and possibly earn you a date. But attractiveness improves or diminishes as people get to know each other. Therefore simply looking good may not be enough. There’re things every man who wants to keep a woman should do to before earning the right to consider himself among the ladies men of this life time.
They may sound simple or completely out of your reach, but you will not be disappointed I promise you that. You are already good at your game as it is, but there is no such thing as over dose, so just keep reading
1. Sing for your woman
Music is food for the soul and we all love it, but singing for her is simply attractive. It demonstrates that you really care and women love men who care for them.
Songs, like poems are the most beautiful means for expressing our deepest feelings. They soothe the heart, like a cold glass of lemon juice. It is true singing is not a gift most people can proudly show off, but you don’t have to be Duncan Campbell from the UB 40 or sound like Elton john or Phillip Collins to pull this off. Your ragged husky masculine voice is one of the best things nature has blessed you with. You must therefore never be shy about using it, especially for that lucky woman in your love life. Singing for your woman will make you attractive in many ways:
It will demonstrate that you are thoughtful and will help express the sentimental smooth touch in your game and will set you apart from most other average guys.
Women love to be loved, and being loved puts them in the mood. Singing for her - even if you sound ridiculous - shows that you actually care and it will endear you to her big soft heart.
However don’t forget to put some effort into it. Avoid sounding like a lawn machine laboring to complete the overgrown grass in the backyard. If it comes to the worst, at least have a rhythm so that you don’t become a danger to her sense of hearing.
2. Take her for a picnic
The world is moving so fast these days that time for engaging in extracurricular activities is so hard to come by. But work without play will turn you into a dull, boring, unattractive man.
Whatever your job, take some time off and go for a picnic with your lady if you want to keep her interested. Taking a lady for a picnic is a gesture of selflessness and selflessness is simply attractive. A picnic in a nice quiet place is a great way to spend quality time with the person you care about, but it also allows the opportunity to express the playful side of you. Being too serious and work oriented can sometimes be boring and boring is unattractive.
So take yourself with a friend, wife, or anyone else who cares to a nice quiet place like a park away from the busy schedule and simply relax. And while there, please be present. Don’t act like you were coerced into the idea. If you do it with your wife or girlfriend, she will never let you go because you will be among the very few truly romantic men of this life time. Sometimes it’s the little things like sitting quietly with her in the woods that matter in a relationship (especially if you drive a mustang and own 2 mansions in Beverly Hills). So why not be the man of her dreams and go with her for a picnic?
3. Get married (at least ounce)
According to Stephen Newman author of "why women want married men" (2012) about 90% of most single women confess to be attracted to married men. The reason for this is not fully understood although it is believed that a married man comes off as one with a proven ability to settle. This is a highly attractive trait for most women whose dream is to settle down in a family union with a husband and children. A married man comes off as a family guy and is thus very appealing to women.
So if you aren’t there yet, you don’t know what you are missing. They say married men live longer. So what do you have to lose? Just give it a shot. They say also that marriage is no bed of roses. But even if it were, there would still be some thorny parts in the bed to prick your innocent skin. But what better way to determine the truth than from firsthand experience. One thing is certain; marriage is one of the best things that can happen to any grown man because it improves your appeal to the women.
It also normally comes with other advantages like safety of companionship and homemade food. It means you will never be alone. You will always have someone to share your most private thoughts with, even if it’s in a fight over who forgets to flash the toilet.
Marriage helps you to understand the other side of life. The side where you stop being the most important person in your life, and instead focus on making your wife (and possibly children) the number one priority. It brings maturity into a man’s life as he gains a sense of responsibility and the need to settle into a home as well as offering the possibility of stable fatherhood. So why not give it a try? If you find that for some reason it’s too much for you to handle, you can always opt out. No one will say you didn’t try.
"How does this make me attractive?!" you ask. But as as difficult as it is to believe, apologizing can make a man very attractive (as long as you do it for the right reasons). Women like a man who is not afraid to be vulnerable around them. It doesn't mean that you are weak. On the contrary. It takes a real man to recognize his errors, but it takes courage and confidence to apologize for mistakes committed. If you are a man, it’s possible you have at some point forgotten your wife’s birthday or failed to show up for your son’s science presentation at school. Whatever the case, someone’s feelings were possibly hurt. If you are human, chances are high you will make some mistakes in your life. Sometimes they will be embarrassing and you may not want to ever talk about them to anyone. But if your words or actions hurt someone’s feeling whether knowingly or unknowingly, it is necessary that you say sorry for them. Apologizing can be crazy and ego shuttering for most men especially if they are saying sorry to members of community who are of lower social status.
But a man who genuinely apologizes even to his son is extremely attractive in every sense of it and most women will want to be associated with him. He demonstrates a level of confidence and self-awareness that is rare to come by these days. So take a deep breath and apologize for ounce. You will thank me later.
There you have it. You can never have it any simpler than this, yet completely effective. You don’t need to rob a bank or visit a money lender for huge sums of money to purchase gigantic gifts just to make an impression. Remember "its the simple things that matter". So why not take a step and join the class of the sexiest men of this generation?
© 2017 Ian Batanda