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6 Signs and Signals He Is Attracted To You

Updated on April 4, 2011

Is he attracted to you?

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You see him at work, in a store, a game, or somewhere else and he is just an acquaintance, but you are wondering if he is attracted to you. You are not sure if you should approach him, or if he should approach you. You notice he smiles, and makes warm comments or maybe some friendly questions. Now you have some questions. Does he want to get to know you? Is he crushing on you like you might be him? Should you make a step, or is he going to? Read some of the signs to know if he wants to get to know you better.


Signal one:

Does he act the same way when he talks to you, as he does everyone else? If he does, then he is probably just being friendly. If there is a positive difference in his attitude when you are around, and he smiles more then he probably likes something about you.


Signal 2:

Does me make sure you see him? Does he go out of his way to make you notice him? Maybe he talks louder when you are around. If he does, this is another sign that he could be waiting for the right time to make a move.


Signal 3:

Does he hold your gaze for a while? If he holds your gaze for longer than 4 seconds, and he is not even talking to you, well this one of the biggest signs he is interested.


Signal four:

Does he point his feet in your direction? Check this one as yet another sign.


Signal five:

Does he puff his chest, and stand up straight with good posture when you are around? Yepper, another sign. Try to see if you can catch him off guard. See if you can get a peep at him without noticing that you are around. See if his posture differs and maybe his attitude. If it does, it’s another good check mark for you.


Signal six:

Does he square his body towards yours? If you are in a room with other people, and he points his body towards yours, then this is yet another sign.


What is listed are small signals that he may be attracted to you. If you can add a few of these mentioned that he does, then chances are pretty big that he likes something about you. What should you do? Enjoy it, let it naturally progress. Become friends, and get to know each other. Make remarks back at him, or ask silly questions and strike up a conversation. Find some common ground. Ask him about his favorite food, when you do this, you are giving him a very small hint that you may be interested in going out to eat. If it were meant to be, it will happen. If not, well, there is someone lucky out their waiting for you attention. Just take your time, always, and be safe. Attraction and love are nice experiences people share, full of wonder, and excitement. Just enjoy, and take your time.

Being attracted to someone is fun. It can be even more fun if you two become friends, taking he your time flirting with each other. If you take your time and flirt, it keeps the blood flowing,the attraction strong, and the excitement of being chased or the chaser alive.

If you can remember your last dating experience when you let things develop and grow, chances are you thought the bond between you was more fun. More than likely the chase was more fun too.

So, enjoy, and have fun!


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      gdfg 5 years ago

      That Grrl... hilarious lol! :)

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      Laura Brown 5 years ago from Barrie, Ontario, Canada

      I go by the attention span rule. Does he actually listen when I'm talking with him? Eye contact is a big part of that. I was on a date with a guy who kept looking out the window, around the restaurant, anywhere but actually at me. I went from being annoyed to just laughing about the whole thing by the end of the date. As we left the restaurant he asked for sex. I did laugh then.

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      ashraf 6 years ago

      i luv my darling

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      pinkdaisy 7 years ago from Canada

      Perfect! Just in time for Valentine's Day =)